Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

Ok, I got on birth control so my boyfriend and I could have sex more. Saturday was the day I could have sex and no worries. The problem is, we still haven't had sex. It has been a long time, since last Wednesday. And thats a long time for us. I have tried asking him about it, but he claims he is too tired or his legs hurt or something. Keep in mind he is in his early twenties. So I really don't know what is going on. I have given him some oral to try and get him in the mood, but still nothing. I am going crazy here. So, is he still interested in that aspect of our relationship?

2007-04-09 07:40:40 · 3 answers · asked by Shelly 1 in Singles & Dating

1. When they cheat on you ?
2. When they change the TV when the game is on ?
3. When they fail to do the dishes ?

2007-04-09 07:40:18 · 79 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He told me all his mates girlfriends kick them in the balls ......should i do it? girls have u ever kicked your boyfriends or husbands in the family jewels? have they ever asked u to do it?

2007-04-09 07:39:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ow can you get a boy to talk to you?

2007-04-09 07:35:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yes, I'm attractive as well. What should I say?

2007-04-09 07:33:37 · 11 answers · asked by SHELTIELUVER 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a married man with a good wife, and children. I also have a very good friend of the opposite sex that untill recently was innocent enought. Though nothing has happened yet, an event recently caused our friendship to change (we came very close to making a trip to her bedroom). I backed away for the sake of my wife, children, and her husband. but now were trying to figure out how to salvage our friendship. I'm at a loss but she came up with the idea to go ahead with where we were headed to remove the tension and go from there. I will admit that I'm very interested but don't think it will solve anything and will only cause the situation get worse, besides that, what it would do to my wife or her husband if they ever found out. Any ideas on how to solve this would be appricated. I don't really want to give her up as a friend, as we are very close, but I'm affraid that nothing I do will change these new feelings we have.

2007-04-09 07:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by good_guynot79 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I find it hard because i was married to my x for 15 yrs..we were 18 yrs old, have had 3 kids. been divorce for 6 yrs now, and i have overcome all that baggage and truly have forgiven him....only after 6 yrs giving my trust back to some one new, to get slapped down again....so? are there any true soldiers in this world left?lol

2007-04-09 07:26:06 · 1 answers · asked by littlebit 2 in Singles & Dating

Her brother raped her as far back as she can remeber and now she blames herself because she didnt tell him to stop doing it until she turned 7/8 then she told a family member and now they disown him and she thinks the reason they hate him is her fault also. She grew up being raped by her brother so thats all she knew until she became of age when she realized it was wrong So how can i help her understand or what can i do?

2007-04-09 07:24:25 · 32 answers · asked by unknown 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend (of a year and a half) broke up with me becasue he was tired of me nagging that we weren't spending enough time together. We only saw each other on an average of about 2 days a week. after out break up, I went out with a friend of mine who happens to be a guy. He was so mad.
Now he tells me that he loves me and wants to get back with me, but wants to wait for the right moment. then he said "Give us til next Friday and if we still wanna be together, then we will" Rules are we can't talk, yet he sends sweet little text messages just making sure I am ok.

WTF is going on....???

2007-04-09 07:24:08 · 2 answers · asked by kirstycooley2 1 in Singles & Dating

2 guys:one i have really good chemistry with i like his personality but im not soo attracted to him im not shallow so i look past flaws pyhsically we went out b4 and it didnt work it was long distance and i nvr saw him he made empty promises and i always waited around he always promised to come see me but something would always come up we went out for a month not a long time i know but we had liked each other for a few monthes b4 that ...then there is a guy i have known and had a huge history with since i was 7 im 16 thats about 9 years we're involved we nvr had sex but we almost have and we did alot of other things i have feelings for him but i liek him for all da wrong reasons i cant find myself to b in love with him cuz its all to sexual i want him it lust but i noe in my heart wen we both mature and get past a pysical thing we will have something real i believ he is the right one and teh other guy is wrong but i like the rite 1 for the wrong reasons vice versa wat do i do advice!!

2007-04-09 07:23:16 · 1 answers · asked by gottaloveme =] 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Pierre is cool and all, but hes been rambling on lately. We were sitting around at my crib talking bout sexs and all the fine girls at school and I told him that my fantasy was to do a Brazil orgy, and he comes outta left field and says that he had always wanted to have sex with a corpse but finally got to. **** I laughed just like the time he said that he wanted to the have sex wit his neighbor's 7 year old daugther Alice or the time he said that he wanted to *** on the Pope. But am now Im concerned cuz his grandmother is sick and I havent seen her around for 4 days and this guy walks around with mad used condoms but gets no sex from any females I know since nobody wants him since hes strange. Should I check on her?

2007-04-09 07:21:15 · 1 answers · asked by shortydeemac 1 in Singles & Dating

I just ended a year-long relationship with a compulsive liar. He has many amazing qualities...he's goodlooking, smart, funny, outgoing, fun to be around, and likes a lot of the same things as me. But turns out he was cheating on me nearly the entire time, and telling the most elaborate, believable lies to cover it all up. When I would confront him with indisputable facts, he'd still lie his way out of it. I put up with it for a year because I kept hoping I could change him, and because he does have many good qualities. I tried several times to cut off contact with him, and every time I do, he immediately sucks me back in.

My question for anyone else who's been in this situation is CAN compulsive liars change? Or is it completely hopeless? When he attempts to start talking to me again, do I confront him on the fact that he's a compulsive liar? Do I give him ultimatums? It just seems like a hopeless situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-09 07:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Monica S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 07:19:59 · 14 answers · asked by MS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which do you prefer?

2007-04-09 07:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Kat Baker, from South Bend, Indiana. Help!

2007-04-09 07:16:28 · 3 answers · asked by Solis 2 in Friends

my boy friend moved to las vages recently.because hes talking to new girl!and he already cheated on 2!!!!!i for gave him but i never did trust him again!!!!should i be worried or not???????

2007-04-09 07:16:26 · 15 answers · asked by PrincessBaby 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some invitation sites for my wedding invites? Please give me well known sites. I already have jean m and rexcraft.

2007-04-09 07:15:33 · 6 answers · asked by fireworksncastles 3 in Weddings

my husband is a corprate millionare and he tells me i dont need to work but iam really bored we have a large house and 3 children 1 a toddler and hes a handful what should i do

iam 28 years old my husband is 56 but he looks good for his age and calls me his trophy wife but iam bored

2007-04-09 07:12:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She would like to go out with you again, and she understands this weekend is her weekend to pay (an agreement that have to many details to explain) so instead she invites you to her place for dinner.

Also what would you think if after dinner she told you that a show both of you wanted to watch was only recorded on her DVR in her bedroom because she was going to watch it one night by herself when she had some free time, but it was a show you wanted to now see as well, and she actually invited you up to her room to watch it.

Would you think she had this whole night planned out to have sex with you or is this the way the series of events played out, and guys would you think she was easy if this was just your 2nd date in a month but you talk to each other everyday.

2007-04-09 07:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay guys... whats the truth about dating a single mom? I am separating from my husband and eventually will look to date again. How do guys these days really feel about dating someone with young kids? I also had my tubes tied and connot have more babies. Are there men out there that would date a woman and accept her kids and the fact that she cant have more?

2007-04-09 07:11:07 · 16 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy (he's not my boyfriend...think almost friends with benifits, im not looking for attachment) and we went out for drinks at a local bar to just hang out and talk. His roommate shows up because we were all going to go out together later that night. His roommate was really sweet to me the whole night, he bought my drinks for me and opened the doors for me being a complete gentleman. I really started to kinda like the guy but was respectful and kept my mindset on who i was actually on the date with. when my date went to the bathroom, me and the roommate ended up kissing and eventually we got caught. The guy i was on the date with said he really wasnt all that mad because he's not my boyfriend but if i want to continue to see him at all i cannot have any contact w/ his roommate but at the end of the night his roommate gave me his number under the table saying he wanted to get to know me more. if im interested in his roommate more than him, do i call his roommate or let it go?

2007-04-09 07:10:42 · 14 answers · asked by invictusaflak 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been together a year, I am his first relationship, so he want to have a break to experience other girls, he says he love me, and knows he will come back, should I think anything of it, am I waisting my time with him?

2007-04-09 07:09:58 · 6 answers · asked by amanda d 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay. So, lets say you know a guy or girl and have really strong feelings for them. He or she has those same feelings. However, you 2 can't be together. With this in mind, and wanting to keep him or herself from getting the feelings he or she already has, he or she leaves you. (For whatever period of time). You 2 reconnect,and those feelings come rushing back-I mean RUSHING back! Only for you to find out that this special someone got together with another guy or girl.

Now keep in mind that this is a completely metaphorical. So this relationship could've been going for, lets say, 3 months minimum, 2 years maximum? They could be engaged, casually dating, it could be 1-sided, nothing but physical, whatever.

After being with you for, (whatever amount of time, and as a frined), this special someone breaks up with his or her boyfriend, girlfriend, or fiance. even tho you 2 still can't be together. How would you feel if this happened to you? how would you react to the shock, and after?

2007-04-09 07:08:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 07:07:08 · 23 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a guy for about 7 months now, about 3 months ago we hit a rough patch, he had a real problem with me talking to an ex of mine from about 4 years ago, I tried to convince my guy that we were only friends but he wouldn't budge. We wound up taking a breather for about 2 weeks but continued to talk and work on things. Just when I thought things were going really well it came to my attention that he had started seeing someone else during this time and basically hid it from me. When I confronted him about it he said that he wasn't sorry because I hurt him by talking to my ex. HE claims to have completely cut this woman off now that we are completely back together but I know for a fact that they are still talking. What do I do?

2007-04-09 07:05:26 · 6 answers · asked by msmarin 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfreind for 5 year think i aways messing arould on him and i never once cheat on him

2007-04-09 07:03:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

That someone would put their lives on hold while you get your head together?

2007-04-09 07:02:08 · 27 answers · asked by Drama Queen FoxyFoxy V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been dating a girl for a while and i really love her and i thought she loved me untill today. i asked her whats on her mind and she said her best friend (a guy) asked her out. i was taken aback and asked her what her answer was. she made it very clear to me that she didnt love him and just wanted to be friends. later she was a bit off so i asked her whats wrong she said that she feels really sorry for her friend. i asked her if she loved me she said yes. i asked her if she still wanted to go out with me. she said she wasnt sure. i was really taken aback. she acted on the rest of our date like nothing had happened and as you can imagine i was really sad. i think she is letting me down gently. but weve been thrugh a lot because her ex gave her a lot of trouble recently and we got through it. she has been a bit depressed recently because there is a few guys that have asked made passes and i puttheminthereplace.she said well get through this but wat do u think is she still intrested???

2007-04-09 07:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by ciaran e 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 07:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 06:58:54 · 20 answers · asked by Neil 3 in Marriage & Divorce