Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

I have a big problem. My girlfriend has feelings for my brother. I've always been the "provider" type guy... the one women claim to seek out for marriage material... AFTER they've had their fun with the "bad boys". Boo hoo for my girlfriend, she never really dated in high school so I'm her first boyfriend really. My brother is a little younger than me (I'm 21, he's 18, she's 20) and still looks like a punk/emo kid. He's always flirting and dating around plus he seems to have way more in common with my g/f than I do. Problem is I've been with this girl over a year. I practically live with her and I take care of her. She and I both know if she ever went out with my brother, it would end in heartache because he's a womanizer. But for some reason, she can't stop dreaming about him and wondering what it'd be like to be with him. Anyone else been in this situation? Oh btw, it's not just a little phase. She's felt this way about him from the moment she saw him.

2007-04-09 00:22:07 · 12 answers · asked by Jay M 2 in Singles & Dating

hurts to type

2007-04-09 00:16:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so this guy. i wrote him a note asked him if he still likes me and for the truth. he didnt answer me for like 2 weeks. but now he wrote me and email telling me that he still like me. i want to believe that. i really do. but what if hes lying?

2007-04-09 00:15:37 · 13 answers · asked by eva d 1 in Singles & Dating

I try to do as much as i can sometimes to show my girlfriend that i love her. But sometime i miss out in doing the little things for her like leaving her just an i love you note or flowers just because. My question is what are somethings that have been done for you that you thought was the best little somthing that your someone did for you.

2007-04-09 00:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

i think it will be better tan married in god house and going to get divorce nex mounth/ why don t they test them before delivrer they are accor to the marry?

2007-04-09 00:09:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf has been lying to his mum about me. heres the lies he told her
i live just outside his city (i live 200 miles away)
i go to his college (i dont)
we met at college (we met on the net)
he also not told her that we engaged and that im moving in with him and his sister in 4 months
he says it coz she will flip at him when is the best time for him to tell her the truth (shes not likely to find out though shes not that bright)

2007-04-09 00:05:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost two months. Ever thing was great for about a month but then i got deployed to kuwait for 6 months. Before i left i sugguested we think about seeing other people while i was gone cuz i thought it would be asking her alot to put her life on hold for me. But she said she wanted to stay together. so i left and three days later my friends e-mail me saying that they seen her all flirty with someother guy at my friends bar-b-que. So being a man i call her and ask instead of just flippin and breaking up with her. Of course she say's nothing happened and there just friends but she gets all mad at me and hangs up which leads me to believe something is really going on. What do you think??

2007-04-09 00:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by prettytony 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my (ex) boyfriend split up a couple of weeks ago after us not working out, he would talk to other girls on the net, arrange to meet up with them (but never did) and he was just unfaithful. He wouldnt do anything for me, he hated having to take me places, he never bought me anything ect. We was together about 13 months, during that time i opened up to him so much and he was my first love. We went through so much together. Even though every one sed im better of with out him, and even tho i knew that i cudnt leave him, and now we are carrying on as normal, he says we should still '' make love'' becuase we still love and care for each other, he still wants sex with out the realtionship part - he wants the freedom he says. Im confused, i dont know what to do. Im finding it so hard.

2007-04-09 00:03:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i am 19 and have a boyriend and we are going to meet up on wednesda night and we was planning to have sex i een we are ready for it but the thing is i stearted my periode and i dont no what to do should i still have ex with him or leave it but was really looking forward for having it we where planning this for a long time

2007-04-09 00:00:42 · 7 answers · asked by Suzanna G 1 in Singles & Dating