Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

and most people in marriage WOULD CHEAT if the opportunity arrises. sad but true.

2007-04-09 10:37:53 · 14 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i'm 22 years old. i think i have hit my sexual peak!! i want to do it all the time. i think about it all the time.. at work in the street at home!! every where!! but the good thing is that i only think about my bf. he turns me on soooo much. the scent of his skin makes me go crazy!! so i am always telling him i want to do it and when we do it's great!! the problem is that i don't think he wants it as much as i do. it's like a chore to him or something. i am too sexual and i want to try a lot of things but it's like he doesn't like to. i am an attractive girl and i know he wants me but why is he like this.... am i the one who isn't normal? what can i do to stop thinking about sex? i just want it all the time..... i don't want this becoming a problem.... can anyone help?

2007-04-09 10:36:59 · 8 answers · asked by gaby5 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband had to work in another country four months ago. We kept in touch by long distance calls. Lately he has not been calling frequently as he used to. When I asked why he did not call, he said he missed me so much, and that my voice would turn him on but he could not see me. So it would be painful to him to talk everyday to me
I don`t think this is a good excuse, because I feel better after I speak to him on the phone.
Guys, do you think he is telling the truth, or he is just not missing me enough to call me everyday?

2007-04-09 10:35:39 · 14 answers · asked by ☆Dana☆ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont get it too many boys really want to use girls for sex and not just actual be girlfreind and boyfreind it dont make sense??

2007-04-09 10:31:47 · 21 answers · asked by mulangatsungai 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy online, He started emailing me, after I responded I didn't hear from him for 1.5 weeks so I emailed him again. He wrote the next day & apologized for not writing sooner & said he couldn't wait to talk to me. After about 2.5 weeks I hadn't heard from him so I decided to end my membership with the website & I emailed him on the site & told him that I wasn't able to continue my membership so I left him my email address & told him if he wanted to still communicate my email was the best place to get me. About a week and half later he emailed me at the dating site & said he was going to close his account too but would like to continue to chat with me & told me I could email him or call him so he gave his email address & phone number. later that day he sent me an email at my regular email address saying this is his email address. 2 days later I wrote back he emailed me the next day 3 days later I wrote him, 3 days later called him. 4 days passed and I haven't hear from him yet.

2007-04-09 10:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by JK27 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious: How long did you date before getting engaged or married?

My boyfriend and I have dated three years and we want to wait another two before getting engaged/married. We're in no rush...

Just wondering if others have waited that long or longer... And, what do you consider too long?

2007-04-09 10:19:06 · 37 answers · asked by eliza8 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a wedding that is coming up in less than a month. I have some family who isn't going to make it. One of my cousins states she can't make it because she doesn't have money. The other cousin took a last minute spring break trip to Mexico, and now she doesn't have money to fly out. I feel very disappointed ($120 roundtrip flight.) I told them about the wedding last July. So it's not like they didn't have time. And the first cousin lives in the same city as the wedding. It's not like I expect them to come bearing gifts. I would be fine with just them showing up. I'm sooo pissed off I'm pretty much ready to cut all ties with them. Am I being unreasonable.

2007-04-09 10:17:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend occasionally sleeps with his 12 year old daughter when she stays with him. He and the girl's mother recently got divorced and she is having a hard time with it.
I have no reason to think there is anything inappropriate going on but I don't know if this is ok or not.

2007-04-09 10:14:40 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex from long ago rang me out of the blue to ask for a friend's (whom we both know) telephone number - It was a really awkward conversation - We split over five years ago - What is he really up to?

2007-04-09 10:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by NO1TOPICS 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 10:09:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-04-09 10:08:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 24years old and I think there is a problem with me my fiance's wee wee is big like 6" because it does hurt allot of time and it feels good but I just cant seem to climax I want to be able to explode like a 1/2 a cup or so please help I anly climax through oral Sex I want the real thing

2007-04-09 10:06:44 · 28 answers · asked by Brenda A 1 in Singles & Dating

I am deeply enamoured of a guy at work; we flirt and I believe there is some attraction on his part, but I have no idea how deep it goes--flirtation is a dime a dozen.
There are several complications:
(1) we work together
(2) i think he's about 7 years younger at least
I don't want to ask him out because for me this backfires 100% of the time, and while normally I'd say failure is a part of life, I would find that kind of rejection intolerable since we work together. Can i ask a co-worker if the guy likes me or is that so cowardly it will backfire? I feel frustrated that all i can do is smile and wink.

2007-04-09 10:04:15 · 8 answers · asked by beatrice 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious. I know a few married people and just people who are in relationships who have a myspace account and who have found old flames, friends and new flames and friends and..... you know the rest. What do you all think? I'm engaged and I have an account, but it's set to "private" so everyone can't view. I think that can help alot. My fiance' doesn't care if I have one. He doesn't have one. As a matter of fact, he didn't even know what it was until I told him about it. LOL! What you do you all think, could this hender anyone's marriage?

2007-04-09 10:01:20 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well, there's this guy that i met in college last year & we started hanging out a bit & talking.....we liked eachother but things didn't progress because he was moving far away to go to another school....

we've kept in touch for a yr now, he'll call randomly & leave messages and txts saying things like "i need a gitl like you" but that's it, he never asks me out & he only calls once in awhile.....

recently i told him like it is while we were on-line, i was like "you need to figure out what you want & stop confusing me" he said he was going to & that he would call me the next day......but never did....i don't know if he's shy, doesn't wanna be bothered, or if he thinks I don't like him....I wanted to know if i should call even if he didn't call me???

2007-04-09 10:00:59 · 36 answers · asked by ava l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am the poster from last Thursday that was in a pickle over meeting a beautiful couple on a swinger site. Well, i met the couple this weekend and the wife was prettier than her pictures showed. I told them that my wife was in Europe. We had drinks together and they took me home.

So is this cheating when hubby approves?

2007-04-09 09:59:27 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Saturday my friend had a party and this guy followed me outside on the balcony and we got drunk and went into my friends room and he asked me to cuddle with him.Then we made out and almost had sex.Then nhe kept grabbing my hand like we were together and he told me that if you feel good with someone your meant to be.I felt good with him it's just I think he is kind of gay cause he hangs with lots of my gay guy friends and not too many straight guys.Then he said it's nice to be around a girl because he feels right around me.I like him alot but I want him and I dont know when to call him.Please help me.

2007-04-09 09:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by Hotmom1216 3 in Singles & Dating

I am the oldest of 6 and my mother put me through hell when I planned my wedding, but she is at it again with my youngest sister. She is insisting that she needs to invite a number people that we don't know; but they are freinds of my mothers. She is also refusing to offer the monetary help that they offered for all of us because she wants to have her reception at a place that my mother insists is way too over priced. (the difference between the two was about 1,000 dollars).

The place that they selected is close to the church, but of course it is not the church my mother is picking.....

2007-04-09 09:50:23 · 25 answers · asked by kam 5 in Weddings

I have 4 children with my husband of 9 years. We have been through hell and back together. The problem... he lets his dad control our lives. He has to ask his dad for his opinion on EVERYTHING. He will ask mine and then he has to go make sure it is ok with daddy before doing anything. To make matters worse they work for the same company and we live across the street from them. I didnt want to move here and I can't handle the stress of living this close to the inlaws. (We moved her in October) I told him I didnt want to move here but he REFUSED to look anywhere else and we had to move out of the house we were at. I don't believe divorce is the answer but I also don't believe my children should think this is healthy. What would you suggest? How do I make things work when I am sooo sick of trying without him trying? Thanks

2007-04-09 09:49:45 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5 in Marriage & Divorce

so for awhile me n this girl became good friends. she had an ex that wouldnt let her go (also her first bf.) she was considering both of us and it caused arguments and things like that. I finally said idc anymore, and her and the ex stopped talking for another reason. now that hes gone, and i didnt care about a relationship, we became good friends again. Then a few days go she told me she might have feelings for me, n when she asked me i only told her the same thing. Then we hung out together and she let me hold her a lot and things which she didnt let me do when she didn't like me. The problem is she's not sure if she does have feelings for me or not. but it sounds like she does more than she doesnt. How do i keep her interested? and get the attraction to build up more? I also only see her on weekends. shes questions herself a lot about her feelings and doesnt believe theyre always true. mayb some ladies can relate to that and give me insight

2007-04-09 09:48:09 · 11 answers · asked by kkong25 2 in Singles & Dating

I see nothing wrong with an open marriage as long as you still love each other but need sex on the side for fulfillment of the sex side of marriage.

2007-04-09 09:45:24 · 28 answers · asked by Rick D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

sister disinherited, now she is calling and leaving crying/nasty messages on answer mach, cellphone, and by e'mail, and had her 16yr old daughter write a nasty letter and sent it through the mail saying how much she hates us?

2007-04-09 09:35:27 · 22 answers · asked by tamilynn 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i like this guy and he used 2 like me but he only knows i USED 2 like him but i still do im in tha 6th grade and so is he... he went out with one of my friends and says it was just a dare 2 go out with her but weve been spending alot of time 2gether and i think he likes me... but u tell me r these sighns that he likes me...ok first of all whenever i wear my hair down he brushes it with his warm hands and when we were in computer class i was playing a game and he was teaching me how 2 play it and he put his hand on my hand n it felt like i was in heaven and he sayed he would only go out with 2 girls in 6th grade and i sayed who and he said the first one starts with an L and my name starts with an L and then i sayed idont know but then he sayed um.......and it ends wit an A but my name ends with an S and i right away sayed this 1 girls name and he sayed ya but he would not tell me the other 1 so i made him an e-mail address and sent him an e-mail that sayed ''who else would u go.....

2007-04-09 09:29:10 · 7 answers · asked by lexus s 2 in Singles & Dating

if so, what does is say about their feelings towards their partner?

2007-04-09 09:26:15 · 30 answers · asked by anamaye 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-09 09:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by varriecitany 1 in Singles & Dating

We live across the street from my husbands father and step mother. I HATE it here. The house is tiny and there is NO yard. Now the neighbor next door is doing construction on their house (just sold to an investor) and my kids can't play outside in our driveway because they are making it too hazardous. I don't want to stay here any longer. The landlord makes us pick up her mail for her and calls with less than 30 minutes notice that she will be by to pick it up. Now she is out of town for 6 weeks and TOLD me I was to deposit her rent check in her bank on the first of May. I am due to have my baby that week and may be in the hospital. How do I make my husband of 9 years see that I can't take this anymore and I want away from my inlaws (who are VERY controlling)? Any ideas? Thanks I am just about to give up.

2007-04-09 09:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5 in Family

i know my husband loves me but it hurts me when he is looking at other woman! He thinks its no big deal because they are on Tv or the internet. But its not okay with me!! And like one of the shows he watches is Taping of a night club we used to go to a lot, that is not that far away from us. And he likes to watch it to check out the half naked woman.......I hate this, What can I do?

2007-04-09 09:22:16 · 51 answers · asked by Beautiful Disaster 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 09:22:10 · 34 answers · asked by michael m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A week a go I found out that my fiance had started having a fling with a girl online. We are in the Us and she is in New Zealand. SOmeone we play cards with. It lasted for 3 days and had stopped 2 days before I found out. He told me that with me being on meds for my tooth and sleeping (they makde me sleep) that I wasn't having time for him and wasn't giving him attention. As soon as he gave me my meds and I was out of it he would go to her. He told her things about us that he shouldn't, including that he wanted to call the wedding off but didn't know how and that he thought about just up and leaving. He also said he loved her. They exchanged nude pics and she was even calling his cell. My family says to let it go that she was just a fantasy and that he was there with me. He says she means nothing and that he will never talk to her again. He says he's sorry, he just needed attention. So now I don't know if I should just let it go or if I should be concerned. He's never done this before.

2007-04-09 09:18:44 · 6 answers · asked by my_own_frog 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you respect a girl more if you know that shes a virgin?
And is saving herself for the right guy (not necessarily religious)
Whats your overall opinion? Do you think of her in a more positive light? More negative light?

2007-04-09 09:17:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating