Never had an orgasm how can I get one??

Question

I am 24years old and I think there is a problem with me my fiance's wee wee is big like 6" because it does hurt allot of time and it feels good but I just cant seem to climax I want to be able to explode like a 1/2 a cup or so please help I anly climax through oral Sex I want the real thing

Answer 1

Good Heavens girl you are stressing to much about having an orgasm. Stop thinking about. It will happen and when it does you might want to be tied down. and its not the size of anything that matters. ReLaX!!!!

Answer 2

try stimulating the clit while he plugs you the problem is your body is trainned to only climax through oral get a dil-do and
practice with that while working the clit after a while the signals in your brain will connect the 2 pleasures together and help you finish the real way

Answer 3

he does not know what he is doing it seems and he is normal average size regardless what you read or hear anywhere or on here...you should go see your OBGYN bc you may have a minor female problem..seriously.
..when you are by yourself you need to find out if you can have one with a toy... or self stimulation...some women can't at first...some neve do...read some information about it ..I'm sure there are hundreds of thousands of web pages on this topic...
Womens mags are good also.
good luck and of course, call me...lol
I'm not bragging at all here, just a little truth...
I just taught a mother of 5, 5'4" -115lbs, believe it or not, how to do almost eveything bc her life was stolen from her at 14 by a child molester and he din't know nothin either and he just did his thing to get off and was basically a sperm doner. he even molested 2 of his girls...so sad....I had to tell you (and others)this bc things happen in life and some need to know to have knowledge as to whats going on out there in this world...and why some women and men are the way they are..(not you)...things are not always as we think they are or as they seem in this world...
knowledge is power....

Answer 4

hey brenda. ok so you enjoy each others company that is great. its not a problem if you cant but perhaps get your self all tensed up and excited for the big moment i guess. 1/2 a cup better tell him to get out of the way when that is coming!!

Answer 5

Try combining both types of pleasure oral and clitoral. You can do this by using a "bullet" vibrator while your fiance is on top of you. Ultimately relax, stop pressing for it more and more, the more you relax and let it come to you the more readily it will come.

Answer 6

If you are on top, lean into it---if hes on top tip your pelvis up a little depending on where hes going with it. If you get the right spot keep it there! Sometimes you have to help these things out.

Oh and if you squeeze your muscles in that area it can add to it too

Answer 7

take away ur inhibitions, loosen everything up. actually it's the size of ur partners dick, but on the performance of your partner. concentrate on what both of u r doin.
there's a forum where you can find a lot of this kind of stuff, i'm sure this could help you a lot.

www.kalibugan.org

email me if you have reached this site

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goodluck

Answer 8

I would say its impossible to have an orgasm w/out stimulating the clit and i cant have one eithier from oral or regulaar sex so your really lucky.

Answer 9

Im not sure if this answer would fit.

Can you try not to control the situation? just let it in you and feel. Breathe deeper and relax.

It will come when your no longer conscious of what your doing.

Answer 10

I have an article on the subject of female ejaculation on my website. It includes the different types of female orgasms and how to achieve them. Don't feel bad though. You are one of 65-75% of the female population that have this problem, but it's easily fixable.