why do allot of young boys just want to use girls for sex??

Question

I dont get it too many boys really want to use girls for sex and not just actual be girlfreind and boyfreind it dont make sense??

Answer 1

Because a lot of young girls will let them, so these young boys never learn to respect themselves, or other people until they mature- if they ever do.

Answer 2

To answer this question, you need some background info about the human male.

If a male had no desire for sex, the human population could easily be too low for survival. Animals in nature have cycles for mating to ensure the survival of the species. The male of the species is usually visually attractive, for the female, thus the female won't attract predators when nursing their young.

In humans, the only way to ensure procreation, is to have the male extraordinarily attracted to the female, but how? Part of the answer is to make the female visually attractive to the male. The other part of the answer, is to make the male attracted to "any female". Nature HAS to ensure that procreation is 'very probable' within the human race. This is how nature has evolved to protect the human race for future generations to exist.

If the tables were turned, and girls were overly obcessed with sex, and the only task for the men was to look good, then accomplishing sexual intercourse may never occur. Why? Well because men have "the plumbing" that needs kick started. Women can't rape a man who isn't ready. Women can't rape a man who is ready. Nature has already fine tuned this process, and we have to live with it.

Many men, througout history, have started and fought wars, over women.


Now, if boys (and men) had no sexual desire, or attraction, they'd actually be repulsed to have sexual contact with women. If you think about it (all sexual references and desires disregarded), why would a guy even think of engaging in such "nasty" physical contact? It would seem unsanitary and disgusting. For general purposes, women would then be like "one of the guys". A punch in the shoulder. "Hey buddy, what's up?"

This also explains why guys just get up and leave after sex. Nature "stops" after a guy has fufilled his part. There is no more need to further this mission of procreation. Here's where women get confused about men. A women, needs to be ready all of the time. Even after the sexual encounter and climax, she still needs to be ready because she does not control the male's process of semination.

Since nature is "cruel to men", by abruptly ending the desire for a sexual encounter, after he has fufilled his duty, he has "no desire" for a while. A combined feeling of satisfaction, depression, 'no desire' and tiredness follow. Something women can't understand, just as much men can't figure postpartum depression or menapause.

If you have the chance. Watch (download or rent) the TV mini-series called "The Human Animal". It explains a lot about this topic and many more.

Answer 3

Because men are biologically geared for sex.

Look at it form the point of view of the genes. The best way to reproduce is for the male to have sex as often as possible, as quickly as possible, and with as many women as possible. Once men discover the idea of sex then sex is on their minds at least 60% of the time. Sex isn't just important to a man it is critical. Few women realize this though and are confused by their behavior.

The best way for a woman to reproduce is to met a man, have a relationship with them and keep that relationship going so the man will help to care for the woman and her child. When the woman is pregnant and after the child is born she needs a lot of help, which she gets from her friends that she has relationships with. So to a woman the most important things in their lives are their relationships.

Two men can go for over a week without saying more than 12 words to each other and still consider themselves to be best friends. If two women tried that before the week was out they would be thinking, "What is wrong with her, why won't she talk with me? I am not going to be the first to talk, I didn't do anything wrong. In fact when I see here again I am going to give her a piece of my mind." And all of this will happen in just a few minutes.

Look at the porn for each sex. Men only need a picture of a hot woman to get them aroused and sexually excited. A woman needs the relationship, which explains soap opera and romance novels. To a woman those are her Playboys.

When men first discover sex they are like butterflies going from woman to woman. They have a problem committing to one woman because that will close the door to possible sex with other women. This attitude continues until their early 20s at least. Some men can stay with a single woman for a while, but they will always be tempted. It isn't because men are hound dogs, its because sex is always on our minds and very near to the top of it.

It doesn't take a lot of maturity for a man to reproduce, so they don't mature as fast as women do. It takes a lot of maturity to be responsible for caring for a child so women have to mature faster. A woman will be ready for a relationship long before most men are.

Don't give up hope though I am talking about out instincts, and our default thinking. We are intelligent beings and we can rise above our instincts, just don't be surprised if it doesn't happen too often.

Answer 4

Let me just put it this way...

Boys are just biologically wired differently than girls.

That just the way boys are! Horny, impulsive, showoffs, competetive, etc. You know what I'm talking about. And I'm sorry, we can't help it. It doesn't change until we get older... say... 25 or more... Even at 34 I'm still constantly thinking of it.

It makes sense to us because when we are young we are only looking to have sex, and with as many ppl as we can, I'm sorry, it's not like we feel like this on purpose.

It gets better later on. Guys settle down and want to "have relationships"

Answer 5

you see, its like this. boys have 2 brains. 1 upstairs and 1 down. and only one can work at a time or the system will crash. sometimes young boys forget to turn on the upstairs 1 for years at a time and it sits there and rusts into a pile of glop, which is why you have old guys that only want girls for sex.

Answer 6

Men and women are "wired" differently on a genetic level. Men for the most part are programed to spread their genetic material as many times as possible with as many different women. Where as women are programed to be choosy in order to have more fit children. Obviously the urges can be overcome and emotions are important as well but in young men they pretty much just go nuts on hormones and don't think.

Answer 7

Guys are horny. All the time. That's why. It's not just young boys either. It's all men, if they get free sex, they dont want a relationship.

Answer 8

Their fathers didn't sit them down and have "The Talk". My father told me to always respect women and that sex is for two people who love each other. Most kids now dont get that kind of direction. They get what they see on television. So, sex and disrepecting women is the way to go.

Answer 9

reputation and pleasure prolly... theres the guys who like relationships, the ones who just wanna kiss & cuddle or watever, and the guys who wanna have sex. my ex's sister just acts like she is a religous fanatic who won't have any of that to get boys that just want her for sex off. i wouldnt have guessed it was an act but i became good friends with her and when she's alone with people she can trust she drops the act completely... sais it works perfect, she only gets the guys who actually like her lol.

Answer 10

well a bad guy would do that but not all guys guys are usually just in a relationship for the fun where as women more look to connect emotionally some girls do the same thing but guys do it more often