Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

If no...why? I always did. I don't understand why some don't...

2007-04-09 11:28:29 · 7 answers · asked by kayboff 7 in Family

I am married and have 2 little children (4 yrs and 18 months) and i was invited to go to vegas for a friends bday. If you were married how would you feel if your wife asked to go away friday-sunday with the girls to vegas???

2007-04-09 11:27:19 · 26 answers · asked by jalalyne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok. There is this person in your family, that you really dislike. But you have to keep peace with this person for the sake of other family members, so you can't talk to anyone, not even the person you dislike. And everyone told you that you could trust the person that you dislike, even if you didn't even want to trust them. And, you needed a babysitter. There was no other option but to trust the person that you don't like, and come to find out, the person hurt what they were supposed to take care of and betrayed you...and another thing that hurts is you can't do anything or say anything to anyone!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-04-09 11:26:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

do i have to live a holy life from now on so that I could have her as my wife in the future?

2007-04-09 11:23:54 · 1 answers · asked by kennethau03 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The term "let" as used in this post, is intended to infer that her doing so against your will is a knowing decision on her part to terminate the relationship.

2007-04-09 11:21:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Assume for the sake of discussion that doing so is permitted by law at the beach you happen to hypothetically be visiting.

Also, the term "let" as used in this post, is intended to infer that her doing so against your will is a knowing decision on her part to terminate the relationship.

2007-04-09 11:19:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What if your HUSBAND never wanted to spend any time with you? What if he hung out with YOUR children all the time on the weekends and never said, "Hey, honey, let's spend some "couple" time together?

Just because my boyfriends kids aren't mine, don't take me for a bimbo who is selfish and shallow.
We both work all week, and I don't even get home until 9:00pm every night....the weekends are ALL we have, unless we just want a quick bang and then "good night".........

I'm NOT a selfish person.....the kids and I do a lot together, and I don't resent them....I DO resent that I cook and clean and pay bills and basically run the whole house but I can't get any appreciatetion for it.....what the hell is wrong with me wanting some "grown-up" time with him?

And I'm sorry, but HE can go on weekend fishing trips without me or the kids, but he can't take ONE DAMN WEEKEND to make some time for just the two of us?

2007-04-09 11:16:58 · 3 answers · asked by spun up's evil inner child 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A few months ago I wrote a letter to my dad. I told him how much I hated him for splitting up our family, and for just being a low-lifed dirtbag. My parents split years and years ago. I live with my mom, but 2 years ago we moved. I hate it down here. I had to leave all of my friends and I've made friends here... but they just aren't the same. I want to move in with my dad because that's where I want to be. But how can I say sorry... he was pretty hurt by my letter, and I have refused to talk to him since. What can I do for him to forgive me?

2007-04-09 11:16:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have known my fiancee for six years and we met in College. Throughout our college years I was solely committed to him, although he was not the same. He cheated and had other girlfriends (unbeknown to me at those times). We have broken up, gotten back together and now since being engaged... I question one.. if he will be faithful, but most of all... if because I never dated anyone else if I am missing out on someone else. I've always had this friend (a guy) and he's always told me I deserve better and he's always been so sweet to me and we've always talked about being a couple jokingly... and now I wonder. Is it cold feet? I've tried talking to him (my fiancee) and he says that he loves me more than anyone and his commitment of proposing is his end all of all the cheating and it would kill him if we break up now. I don't know what to do... any help would be so greatly appreciated!

2007-04-09 11:15:25 · 17 answers · asked by SmileyAngel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't speak english but :

Why is there racism towards latin people in english-speaking countries? I want to know, because I asked this question a long time ago, but later deleted, and I got plenty of insults just because I'm latin. Why is this?"

Tell me our opinions

2007-04-09 11:13:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Does it make a difference to YOU if she rewashes her face, maybe reapplies her makeup, a squirt of perfume and out of those house clothes and just overall makes an effort to look and smell decent? Or could you care less if you walk in her hair in a knot, scrubby clothes, greasy face? Serioiusly, are our efforts noticed enough to make a difference?

2007-04-09 11:08:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just reading a topic about "Why do men stare at pretty women?" And the truth is, all men don't. I have to give it to my fiance'. When we're out and about he gives me his full attention. One time while we we're out, a beautiful young lady walked by and he turned to me and said, you are so beautiful to me. It's like they're not even in the room :). Yeah, sometimes he may glance, but it's not a "DAMN" glance, it's a "another person just walked in the door" glance. You feel me? I don't stare either. I think it is very disrespectful and rude to your partner. Yes, God did make beautiful human beings out there, but if you are married or in a serious relationship, that doesn't mean you have to lust after every women or man you see. I hate to be out and see a man who is with his lady stare me down. YULK! Grow up!!!

2007-04-09 11:08:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would u prefer a sporty sexy girl who is a blond haired blue eyeed girl who knos what guys want or a girl into homework
im the sporty girl if u want to im me go ahead

2007-04-09 11:08:18 · 1 answers · asked by kmuentener 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 11:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by Mary J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was with this guy for 4 months and we was cool and then things went out of hand. i start paying for stuff and he was talking to his best friend which was a girl and they still do. so i want an advice if i should take him back or still talk to him.

2007-04-09 10:58:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But saying the same things gets old and tired though....how do you spice it up with word play?

2007-04-09 10:57:19 · 15 answers · asked by JoeFriday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend broke up with me (hes 14) and i was all depressed and sad, so today i was talking to my friend about dating other guys and he turned around rly fast and was like "Oh so ur gonna date other guys so im gonna date other girls". Then in 3rd hour he flirt with me REALLY bad like worse then he ever has. And i said i had the perfect quote for him and wrote it down "dont tell me you love me unless you mean it because i might do something stupid like believe it" and he was like "You didnt think i really loved you" and i said no and he goes "oh well i did and i still do". Why is he acting like that??

2007-04-09 10:56:35 · 14 answers · asked by Lets play Russian Roulette 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex left me for another girl. He was my first love and even though that was ****** up I still love him and want him back. Doesn't look like he wants me back though. We kinda still talk but not really. It hurts like ******* crazy and I don't know how to move on...Should I move on or hope that we might get back together again?

Please don't give any smart *** answers and make me feel worse. I'm asking for help to feel better not worse.

2007-04-09 10:56:16 · 6 answers · asked by Vexi_Lexi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 10:53:03 · 30 answers · asked by space_occupied 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there is a colleague, in my work ..! a funny girl very open-minded and kind ..!! she's single, ..just broke up from a relationships ..as I do ...we've always been friend and telling each other 's adventure ..but, since a few days, I'm coming to realise how great this girl is, ..and I would like to try ask her out ...but, I'm hesitating, because, she's my colleague ...!! not from the same department ...can I tell her I appreciate her ...!! ? what do you think could be her reaction ...? but, weel, she seems to appreciate me too, but I don't know if it is as a friend, or someone she can go out with ...!! I am really starting to like her ...!! what should I do ?

2007-04-09 10:52:16 · 8 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband always managed to come up with some sort of explanation why we should not try for a child now. It's only until last month that he admitted that he did not want me to get pregnant because he did not think our relationship was good enough. Surprise-surprise. Well, I knew we had to work at it, but had no idea that he made such decision solely. We have been together for 6 years and I feel like he manipulated me. I feel sad and can't help resenting him. How can I forgive him if I feel so betrayed? How can I trust him if he was not forthcoming with the truth? I am not that young now.

2007-04-09 10:51:41 · 17 answers · asked by Alyssa Macey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is catholic and I am christian UCC. We do not attend church regularly so as we were dating it didn't seem like a big deal. now that we are talking about marriage and he told me everything i have to do to marry him since i'm not catholic...it's scaring me a little. he is very traditional and as I think thats great...there's just some things i'm uneasy about like...I think we should live together before we're married, he doesn't. he thinks it's important that he gets married in his church and thats a little uncomfortable for me... I always wanted to have a small wedding on the beach somewhere...he says catholics only get married in the catholic church or it's not recognized as he is married. Anyone have any insight? how does it work to get married to a catholic when i am not one?

2007-04-09 10:50:09 · 18 answers · asked by Jax 3 in Weddings

without hurting anyones feelings or damaging a potentially great friendship.

2007-04-09 10:48:37 · 11 answers · asked by mya t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A married couple I know were having problems. They decided a separation might help and the wife left the state with the children and went across the country for about a year to live w/her parents. The husband supported this seperation, but had an agreement w/the wife and the inlaws that the children would only live with their grandparents, and that the wife and kids would return at the end of the school year. At no point did the father consent to let his children move across country indefinately. This was a verbal agreement between the father, the wife and the inlaws. Well, the couple have decided to divorce, but the wife appears to be refusing to return the children back to their home state. Does the father have any right to make his wife return with his children to their home state so he can have as normal a relationship with them as possible? They are still married and he never agreed to allow the children to move away indefinately.

2007-04-09 10:46:36 · 19 answers · asked by kidskidlet 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems they give some importance to that ..!!

2007-04-09 10:46:05 · 16 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 10:45:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am so confused, and hurt. okay i've been married for two years almost, i love my husband, and i believe he loves me. there have been a few occasions where he'll get into a blind rage and he'll hurt me. once he busted my ear drum, but that was the worst of it and that happend two years ago. it would randomly happen every so often, a couple months then it stopped for about a year, then last saturday we got into an arguement and i got socked in the back of the head a couple of times. well he does his song and dance routine, where he swears he isn't ever going to do it again, i told him already last time, that if he ever did it again, that i would leave him, and i don't. i told him i don't want to be a statistic, i don't want this to happen anymore, blah blah blah, he always says the same thing, should i just leave it up to stress, or should i file for a divorce? or is it just random occurence,

2007-04-09 10:43:18 · 43 answers · asked by Nan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my best friend of 3 yrs we went out of town for her daughter's dance competion and I rented a car...well as of last sunday haven't heard from her??!! ROYALLY PI@#$%^!! i feel liked i was used!!! OMG!! she know my past about trusting others because crap like this happened to me before and now she does it???!!!! What's up with that??!!!

2007-04-09 10:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by crazydoggielover 1 in Friends

2007-04-09 10:41:49 · 19 answers · asked by Wondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know men have worries and fears that they keep to themselves. I would just like to know some of the things that bother you that you keep hidden most of the time. Thanks for any insight!

2007-04-09 10:40:37 · 10 answers · asked by casey308 2 in Marriage & Divorce