Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

can i get a tat w/o parents permission when im 16?

2007-04-09 14:31:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Are there any surefire ( or near) ways to get the girl. Im not one of those hopeless guys who admires from a far, but, rejection could do some damage.

2007-04-09 14:28:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is not making out or anything any more so what do i do also i forgot how to get me and my gal making out and stuff so how do i get me and my gal to make out and stuff again???? plz i need help befor i lose my love life

2007-04-09 14:27:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a big problem with this.
They got divorced in 05, we got married in Feb 07,when we financed a car together I found out that his ex never refinanced the car that she got in the divorce so my husbands name is still on the car loan. They also closed a credit card but she later reopened it and charged over $2000.00 on it, and his name is on that credit card.
He says that I am over reacting and I shouldn’t be upset, he don't see what the problem is and feels that it is no big deal!
I don’t want to get a bank account together or finance anything with my new hubby until she take care of this. The divorce papers say she needed to pay off the credit cards with the sale of the house and refinance the car into her name.
Now her mail is coming to out apartment!
Am I over reacting and what should I do?!
We live in Washington State

2007-04-09 14:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in a relationship

2007-04-09 14:14:48 · 1 answers · asked by yung joc 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend cheated on me before. What should i do? I wanna stay with her and i love her so much. Im afraid of it happening again. She says it wont but should i believe it?

2007-04-09 14:14:06 · 17 answers · asked by psycho_kid61 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married 7/7/07 in Vegas and then redoing the whole thing in Jan.... long story short... she is going to have the whole traditional wedding... and wants a shower and everything. I wanted to do something nice to recognize her eloping.... but I didn't want to spend a lot of money since I'll be buying her gifts in the future... plus I have my own wedding to pay for. Anything other then a card that I can do or give her to recognize her first wedding day? I tried calling the chapel to buy them a drink or something but they want a freaken $100!! Or is a card ok?

2007-04-09 14:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

hey all hi I am andrew I am dating a guy older then me im 18 yrs of age he is 40 yrs. of age he is very nice trustworthy,honest, a very good mentor to me. He tells me he cares about me which I have never even had anyone care about me. The story is when I feel me and him is drifting apart I will write him in the emails I sent him. When I call him he is always trying to make me laugh, I wonder why is he trying to do this when I think him and I is drifting apart. He tells me I am a hopeless romantic and he says he is one too. that sweet I mean I am happy and not very happy like I used to be.
why i think him and I are drifting apart is cause he usually doesn't call me any sweet names like he does before.
now he calls me sweetie pie tells me he is thinking about me and he also told me he cannot wait to fall in love with me what is going on with him and what is he trying to tell me will you guys please help me out I am desperate.

2007-04-09 14:10:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i went out with my home girl friday night and i met this guy at first i wasnt interested but after talking to him, i think i feel in love. we ended up making out and I gave him my number. He called me the next day and he agreed to come pick me up and hang out that night.(saturday) He also said that he really liked me and that he thought i was beauitful etc. but anyways later saturday night I called him to see if he was still coming. he said yes but he had to drop off his sister and go to fullerton first. he said he would come get me after. so i told him if he couldnt make it to call me and he didnt. he didnt come or call. I didnt call him the next day which was sunday and he didnt call me either. so this morning (monday) i called him and he was sleep. i asked him what happened saturday night and he said he fell asleep. he seemed sleepy so i told him to call me when he woke. that was at 9am its 6pm now and he hasnt called. what should i do? should i call him?

2007-04-09 14:10:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to knotts this guy ask me to be his partner for the trip and i kinda like him and he likes me too should i flirt or kiss him or tell him that i like him or asked him to be my boyfriend.I need tips of what to do on the trip!!!! HELP ME

2007-04-09 14:09:15 · 14 answers · asked by Nathaly s 1 in Singles & Dating

The other day i called him, but couldnt say a word. Just heard his voice n hung up. Im sure he knows it me. I feel v guilty yet tempted to try again. Shud i?

2007-04-09 14:07:50 · 9 answers · asked by Bombay B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a 54 year old male, currently separated for over two years from a partner with whom I lived for nearly 22 years before getting married. The marriage took place despite the fact that we were having extreme stresses and difficulties at that stage of our relationship. After the marriage, I was unsettled and unhappy about the relationship, and I resented the marriage, but I went along because my wife thought it was the right thing to do for financial security reasons. I then had an affair which precipitated the separation. I think I'm still very much in love with the other woman, but I can't face divorce because of the pain I will cause, but I also know I will be resigned to the marriage. What steps should I take to resolve my conflict?

2007-04-09 14:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Fletcher G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are going to dance our first dance as Husband and Wife to "This I swear " by Nick Lachey. After the second verse is finsished we want the DJ to play like 10 seconds of scrambled music (like he messed up the song, but really its all an act), then cut in with "The way you make me feel" by Michael Jackson, then we will dance a rehersed dance. We think this will be a really cool idea to get the guests in party mode. Do you think thsi is a good idea?

2007-04-09 14:01:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-04-09 14:00:59 · 1 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter goes to college. Well her semester is over April 20th. She has a bf that also goes to school with her. It was to my understanding we all 3 were going to get an apt together. Well he does not want an apt with us and says he will move back in with his mom. In which she does not appreciate him in any way. He comes over to my daughter's on campus apt (which he has one to) and spends the night with her. As she goes over to his also. Now he wants no apt with us, and says if he moves in with his mom, He can still like to come and go over to our place whenever he likes to. Now she is heartbroken cause he wants to break up with her if We decide to move back to Texas instead of living up here in Oklahoma. I think he is treating her unfairly. They have been together for almost 2 years and see each other everyday. My job is in Texas and that is why I have went through so much troubles to find a new job here and find us a place. She is deeply hurt over this. And he is very lazy about it

2007-04-09 13:58:47 · 11 answers · asked by Debra H 2 in Singles & Dating

Does it really make a difference whether or not a girl really does nething to her sacred spot....do guys stop in the process if a girl isnt shaven????

2007-04-09 13:58:39 · 14 answers · asked by Hott Mommy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have some serious drama going on so listen up and don't be a azz when answering my question.. Well I am always giving out advice about what people should do but I kinda got myself in this situation and I am having a hard time getting threw it. Here it goes!! I ran into an old friend of mines whom I used to date and well the only thing good in the relationship was the sex. Not to get grahic but he is so into me when we are having sex and he just takes me out of my element like one night he took me out for dinner when it was warm out and the sprinklers was on well he put me on his back and carried me across the wet grass to keep my toes from getting wet I mean we have ruff sex, make love and cuddle he even licks my toes. Well the problem is we both met other people while we have been apart and yes we hooked back up even though we knew we were with other people but I think I may love him.. What do I do I mean how do I stop thinking about him when I really want him?? I so attracted 2 him

2007-04-09 13:56:54 · 2 answers · asked by Jazzie 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this guy who is a navy seal. He has told me that as part of his training he had to undergo "interrogation resistance" training (or something like that). He said that during one of the exercises, several of them were tied down in only their pants - bare chest and bare feet - to padded tables and were tickled by senior officers until someone broke. He said their underarms, stomachs and feet were tickled mercilessly until one of them shouted the 'code word' for surrender. Not until then would the tickling stop on any of them. He said this took place over a couple of days and each time the tickling went on for 2 or 3 hours non-stop. Apparently, guys who aren't ticklish were removed to do some substitute exercise.
I know this guy is pretty damn ticklish. He can't stand it actually, especially his feet. So this must have been hard for him. He said that he wasn't supposed to be discussing it.

My question is, has anyone heard of such a training, or is he making this up?

2007-04-09 13:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tried asking this question yesterday but it didn't register right away or something and I only ended up with one answer...so here it goes again...

Guys, what is your favorite eye color/ hair color combination? Do you prefer the blond hair/ blue eyes that seem to be so popular? I have dark brown hair and greenish-blue eyes. Just curious...

2007-04-09 13:55:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with him for about 2 yrs now...and we got engaged when we was together only 6 months....i wanna marry him and spend the rest of my life with him..ASAP...i know i cant rush things but i wanna...im 19 and hes 20...i love him so much we been through so much together and everything means alot...he says he is going to marry me soon..but doesnt wanna tell me when...he says its going to be a suprise? should i let it be like that? you try to find out more...

2007-04-09 13:54:51 · 14 answers · asked by Kristy 2 in Weddings

2007-04-09 13:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Lexi 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband of three years had a big fight this weekend which resulted in him leaving. He works outta town so he went back early. We have 2 girls one is almost 2 yrs and the other is 5 months. He called today and told me that he's decided to just leave us all behind and move back to Nigeria. I don't know if he really is or if he's just playing games with my head in order for me to just cave and give into his ways. I've been lied to so often that I just don't know wat to believe anymore. I don't want him to leave the country cuz he won't see the girls anymore but I don't want to be the submissive, passive wife either. I need help desperately!!!!!

2007-04-09 13:52:49 · 16 answers · asked by Aimee B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 13:52:42 · 7 answers · asked by Erin 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 13:52:28 · 38 answers · asked by cool dude 1 in Singles & Dating

What women feel knowing that so many other women are doing pornography? What do you gals feel toward these women and why do you think so many young women are doing this now a days?

2007-04-09 13:52:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recieving divorce papers is something that most married, engaged and even single individuals (like myself) hope to never experience. Such a traumatic event can kill the most loving relationship/friendship between two lovers and toss the individual on the receiving end of the divorce into a whirlwind of confusion.

Q 1: For those of you who are divorced, did any red flags and/or warning signs pop up early in your relationship that made you feel that things might not go well in the future?
Example:Your former husband/wife became very controlling at one point or another during the marriage.

Q 2: For those of you who are currently married, engaged, and/or cohabitating with a potential long-term spouse, have you noticed any red flags popping up in your present relationship?

Mature answers are strongly desired and appreciated. Thanks.

2007-04-09 13:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-09 13:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-09 13:49:25 · 23 answers · asked by babygurlprecious 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 13:46:06 · 7 answers · asked by neal 1 in Friends

2007-04-09 13:45:25 · 11 answers · asked by patrick n 1 in Marriage & Divorce