Family & Relationships - 9 April 2007

Would you chose a thin man, stalky man or fat man?

2007-04-09 15:39:49 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which love is most like you and your fiance/husband/boyfriend?
1. Rachel McAdams and Ryan Goseling in the Notebook
2. Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie in Mr.&Mrs.Smith
3. Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis in That 70's Show
4. Billy Cambell and Jennifer Lopez in Enough
5. Hilary Duff adn Chad Michael Murray in A Cinderella Movie
7. John Stamos and Lori Loghlin in Full House
8. Tobey Maguire and Kirsten Dunst in Spider Man
9. Mandy Moore and Shane West in A Walk To Remember
10. Jennifer Lopez and Matthew McConaughey in The Wedding Planner
11. Matthew McConaughey and Kate Hudson in How To Lose a Guy in 10 Days
12. Omar Epps and Sanaa Lathan in Love & Basketball
13. Amanda Peterson and Patrick Dempsey in Can't Buy Me Love
14. Reese Witherspoon and Josh Lucas/Patrick Dempsey in Sweet Home Alabama
15. Jesse Metcalfe and Brittany Snow, Sophia Bush, Ashanti and Arrielle Kebbel in John Tucker Must Die
16. Ashton Kutcher and Zoe Saldana in Guess Who
If Other list them and where from :-D

2007-04-09 15:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend stands me up all the time and always had an excuse as to why he did it. It got to the point where I got tired of it and broke up with him, but we decided to still try to friends. However, now he says he wants try and make things right so we can get back together, but he still stands me up constantly. I mean what's up with him? I told him to erase my number out his phone and he asked me if thats wat I really wanted and I told him yeah and we got off the phone, but he called back and asked me again if I wanted that and convinced me that it was a misunderstanding as to why he stood me up again. At that point I didn't know what to do so I was just like whatever about the whole thing. I mean I know I have feelings for him and he says he loves me but I don't believe that and I tell him that, but he keeps saying it. We're not having sex but I don't know what he really wants from me.

2007-04-09 15:31:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating 5 years, living together 3 and a half years and a month ago I asked him to move out. We were having communication problems, I had issues with him 24/7 on call for work, how he didn't make enough effort to get to know my friends/family when I always hung out with his, and I was bothered by his constantly getting angry and blaming me for problems when I never did anything to warrant it. He's 7 years younger than me and this is the first adult relationship for the both of us.

I asked him to move out under bad circumstances - we were fighting and it came out. I see a balanced picture now but I still think its good for him to move out - it'll be his 1st time living with roommates, learn to handle problems on his own versus lashing out at me b/c I'm convenient.

I want to maintain a relationship or at least a friendship with him. I can understand he's still mad at me and frustrated, but a lot of ppl date w/o living together or we could be open to dating others too.

2007-04-09 15:30:08 · 4 answers · asked by charles is a girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 15:19:12 · 25 answers · asked by triestobekind 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance's ex still won't back off. She still contacts his sisters weekly and asks them about my fiance and if he's happy. She even called his cousin asking him to call my fiance and find out if he thinks about her and if he still has feelings for her. Wtf? They've been broken up for 2.5 yrs and him and I have been together now for 1.5 yrs. Shouldn't she have gotten over him by now? She found out we were getting married and has been emailing him lately asking if he was really ready to get married and telling him not to rush into anything. He won't respond to her emails or her questions, but she won't stop. How do I get rid of her?

2007-04-09 15:16:44 · 1 answers · asked by DRE 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-09 15:16:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Need to get to sleep.. want to sleep well..as I am love sick, and am trying give my girl the space she needs right now, limiting 1 call a day, so I feel a bit lonely. Want to sleep well, any ideas?

2007-04-09 15:15:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things have been going on between my bf and I and he says that everythings fine and he's not mad. Now i don't know if he's just saying this cause its true or jus playing games so that i don't ask any more questions. Should i believe him or not. I just don't want to be the one who knows shits going dwn and not do anything. ( i don't know if this is going on ). He usually drives me and today he asked if i can get a ride in. Now he ususally drives me and always jokes around and ask me to get a ride and i ask him that i would but he says NO. I asked him that i don 't mind getting a ride by some1 i just don't want him being mad and this is why he's asking me to get a ride. Should i be worried?

2007-04-09 15:11:51 · 1 answers · asked by ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

I was aske a dating question by a guy I know and before I could answer him he said to me I shouldn't have asked you because your a girl and you wouldn't give me a fair answer.
please girls back me up on this one.

2007-04-09 15:08:42 · 17 answers · asked by setfree 3 in Singles & Dating

this isn't some high school situation or anything.. cause i'm looking everywhere and nothing seems to pertain to my situation. about a month ago a friend, who i've had a crush on for some time, had broken up with her bf. Immedietly when I found out I sent her flowers and things seemed really great and finally a couple weeks ago she came down to visit and we had an amazing weekend together and ended up kissing. But since then it seems like she's distanced herself from me and I don't know why. Like we'll still talk, but it doesn't seem the same as b4 that weekend happened. So finally I just came out and told her exactly how I felt and that didn't help much.. was that whole weekend a mirage? should I let this whole thing go? please help me.. it's killing me inside.

2007-04-09 15:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by vaflip 1 in Singles & Dating

why dont my brother get no girls

2007-04-09 15:05:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-09 15:05:10 · 38 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my parents are divorced and my dad is remarried and has annother kid. well me and my sis go over there every other weekend and we went for a week for spring break and so we came home yesterday. my dad and them brought me my stuff i forgot and we asked if my lil bro (10months) could stay while they were in town and he couldnt. he has once before but now he cant and he always goes toother peeps house. and i know my parents dont really like each but me and my sis cry cause we hardly get to see them and our lil bro dont get to see us that much. could you tell me sonmthing to cheer us up or bring our parents closer or sometihm were 12 and 8 and reaally sad plz help us!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-09 15:03:10 · 6 answers · asked by heyyall 2 in Family

2007-04-09 15:02:03 · 24 answers · asked by bustnloose_2000 3 in Weddings

okay me& my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship right now for a few more months, so most of our time is spent talking online&on the telephone. So sometimes it can get a little boring which sometimes causes arguments. So anyways, I need a list of questions to ask him that can get good conversations started, please help!

2007-04-09 14:59:16 · 12 answers · asked by Need Help ASAP!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay i've been with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and he lives with me. We get along great at times but i was talking to his friend first and he really liked me when we were talking but i hurt him by going out with his bestfriend, he still loves me, and i still like him, but i love my boyfriend and his friend. i dont know what i should do, his friend and i secretly talk and it kills me to lie to my boyfriend but he doesnt want me to talk to him because the way he talks but we dont talk about anything wrong... what should i do stay with my boyfriend, soon to be husband... were engajed kind of... or should i go back to his friend

2007-04-09 14:57:58 · 11 answers · asked by i love rednecks 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically I used to be friends with this girl and we drifted apart what with going to different colleges. But we kept in contact by phone. Now I only give out my mobile number and that is to friends. But when my teacher said my phone number out loud she wrote it down and now has my home number. She also knows where I live because she watched where I went home. This didn't make me think anything different until she started phoning constantly since last year. Not just me but my whole family, talking to them individually. Also she started prank calling the house and she got other friends involved, shreiking down the phone and chatting loud. This annoyed me but I let it go, the final straw came when my auntie had just died and she knew this. I'm at my auntie's house and she is prank texting me and pretending to be someone else. So I phone the number using a number she doesn't know and she answered, when she heared my voice she hung up. So it was obviously her. So I phoned her auntie who...

2007-04-09 14:57:07 · 4 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Friends

ok the list is to long to tell you everything she has done to us but here is the latest."john" has a 8 yr old son with her who she uses like bait to get what she wants.when she wants john to pay for something(he allready pays her more than the court orderd)she has his son call and ask his dad to buy it.now john buys toys ect for his son for our house but stuff for his moms house is to come out of the child support john pays her.but if she wants something for her house she has his son call and ask his dad to buy it.john allways does too(and im talking about things that cost $100 or more)this drives me nuts as money is tight for us and he will not say a thing to her.

2007-04-09 14:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by kellyheth456 1 in Singles & Dating

Even though I love him, I love to do my work alone, I love to meditate, relax and do my stuff without anybody interrupting,
but he is always trying to help me, I know he thinks he is helping, BUT I JUST can't stand this anymore!!!

2007-04-09 14:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

why are guys so shallow and go for the skinny girls making the big girls feel bad about themselves?

2007-04-09 14:52:16 · 24 answers · asked by Becca 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I now live separate...4 hours away from each other. He lives w/a friend & I live w/my parents. I live in Texas & I can't file for divorce until I've lived in this county for at least 90 days. I also can't file for separation or child support b/c Texas doesn't have separation. I can only file for the child support after I file for divorce. I have given my parents money for rent, utilities, etc... but they don't use it. They said that whatever I give them they are saving for me for if I ever need it. I don't want to live here for free,though. He doesn't know what I give my parents or that I even give them money at all. I work full time & I do have other bills to pay....credit cards, etc.(from stuff that I bought us when we were together..furniture, etc..in my name) I don't want to seem like I am after his money b/c we aren't together anymore but I don't want to let him get off not helping either. If I do ask for money I don't know how much to ask for.

2007-04-09 14:51:54 · 11 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay guys, this is not a joke. My friend is 19 and still in tenth grade because she has "too much to do that doesn't involve school". She's "pressured" into sex with multiple partners (unprotected), and yesterday she says she was "peer pressured" into smoking weed for the first time in two years. Honestly, I don't believe in peer pressure - no one can control YOU but YOU - right? I mean, people have tried to "make" me smoke weed all my life, and I've never touched the stuff - I've had past boyfriends try to "make" me have sex with them - I'm 20 in June and still a virgin - and on top of that - I'm going to be graduating next wenter with my B.A. in Fashion Design and Business Marketing - I don't understand how she blames other people for her downfall! What can I tell her to make her turn herself around because this situation is just sad!

2007-04-09 14:51:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am having trouble getting my husband to help me with the house chores. I work 2- 16 hour shifts on the weekends, pregnant w/#4, and just graduated from college. Eventhough I have been a busy lil bee, he doesn't lift a hand. I had thought it would be easier and less stressful to make a chore list, that he agreed upon. Didn't even last one day. I have tried everything from great sex to yelling at him. Nothing is getting through his skull and I am too worn out. I have only 4 more weeks to go; playing with the kids is so much work this days. I just don't want a screaming baby plus 3 wild indians, and a hubby come home and ask whats for supper.

2007-04-09 14:48:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My relationship with my mom sucks. She dropped me off at grandma's house when I was 4, & never looked back. Granny was the greatest. I was loved, cared for and spoiled rotten. However, when my sister was born, I was 8 & couldn't believe that mom snuck back to California and left my 2 week old baby sister with us, while she resumed her responsibility-free life. Later on, I went to college & later joined the Army. Mom decided that at 19, I needed some harsh, motherly advice. I just wasn't receptive to her after all these years. Since then, we have exchanged hurtful words with each other. She was diagnosed with Cancer in 2004, so I decided to bury the hatchet. For the 1st time, it was cool to spend time with her, but in time, she got mad at me, this time for choosing my 5 year old daughter over her. I've had it with the emotional rollercoaster. I purposely shower my kid with the love and stable home she deserves. Why is my mom tripping after all these years of having her way?

2007-04-09 14:46:00 · 17 answers · asked by boppycat02 2 in Family

my ex-best friend and i have'nt spoken in about 8 years ,but we were best friends before that all our lives our parents were friends when we were born anyway my grandmother pasted away a few weeks ago and she came to her furnel but we never spoke I was wondering should Icall and ask her to go to lunch some time or no I really do miss her

2007-04-09 14:40:16 · 6 answers · asked by candy 1 in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, i love him dearly; a few monthes ago he didn't cheat on me, but, while on a school trip we got into a bit of an argument; it wasn't anything serious, but another girl from the trip who had a boyfriend back home used it to get as close as possible to my boyfriend and he ignored me for the next few days and spent most of the time with her, he didn't cheaet on my but he started to fall for her and she wanted him, now, he apologised, but i still do forgive him, what should i do?

2007-04-09 14:38:25 · 1 answers · asked by Maureen M 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a steady relationship now but I've had really bad luck with men - I have no problem speaking to them, but I can't interpret what they say. I'm well endowed on both fronts (breasts and bum), and guys spend most conversations staring at my breasts. Then they take my number, but never call, or if they do, they're only after ........... I'm a bright final year college student and intelligent, and I want a man as friend who is interested in my brain and not my breast. Why is that so difficult ?

2007-04-09 14:36:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone else think that men are the reason some women are crazy? I know some people are going to say it's because we let them do it to us, but they can also learn to grow up a little.

2007-04-09 14:33:30 · 9 answers · asked by dvnlady 3 in Singles & Dating

I know lately there have been a lot scandals involving some Catholic priest with children and so forth. In Scotland a priest has been implicated with the murder of a Polish student Alegika Kluke he admitted that he had sex with her prier to her murder but DENIES her death the murder case continues in Scotland. Now would you not agree that Catholic priests should be allowed to marry priests are just like other men they have sexual feelings just like everyone else do you not think the Catholic church should change it views on celibacy and allow priest to marry. I am a Roman Catholic and proud but if I were having marriage problems and you wanted to talk to priest how can he understand when he has no experience of what married life is about how can he advise you when he has no experience.

2007-04-09 14:32:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce