why are guys so shallow and go for the skinny girls making the big girls feel bad about themselves?
2007-04-09 14:52:16 · 24 answers · asked by Becca 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are such a$$wholes sometimes. They dont realize that Karma is a bitchhhhh and will bite back at them. What goes around comes back around.
2007-04-09 14:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Big girls feel bad about themselves NOT because of shallow guys. Big girls should not want shallow guys. If those are the only guys you're meeting, better find a place where nice guys hang out. If you're big and are ok with it, then forget guys who don't like big girls!! Why do you want someone who doesn't want you? There are a lot of guys who like big girls. Be patient, the right guy will come... the wrong guys are always around :)
2007-04-09 15:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by tr1ewq 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is a very stupid question- so as I type, I wonder why I'm even bothering.
A) I forgot- you're right. Every single guy that has ever existed only goes for the skinny girls, and makes SURE that they insult the larger ones. After all- what else would anybody do? (Act normal? SURELY NOT!)
B) Don't forget, ALL guys (And I mean ALL) guys think that big girls don't have feelings. So we like to make them feel bad.
C) Actually, I'm out of ideas. Well, except for this one:
D)Why don't you grow up and look around. Instead of extrapolating your stupid pre-teen experience with ONE guy to assume all guys are like that, maybe you should like... TALK... to some of the other 7,300,000,999 guys on the planet?
2007-04-09 15:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by chrisser665 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello pot meet kettle.
Why are women so shallow and only go for the guys in shape making the heavy guys feel bad about themselves?
Next time think first, write second...it works better that way.
2007-04-09 14:55:49 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
although that is true about many guys, it is also a general statement. For the guys that do act like complete jerks, skinny girls aparently get their hormones raging more than not skinny girls. Now making over weight ppl feel bad is a jerk problem, not a boy problem! and remember to just be yourself. dont let the ppl around you bring you down! simply ignore the mean comments and build on the encouraging ones!
2007-04-09 14:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
... How is it just us Guys? Girls only look at hot guys and the ones who are not in the best shape you push them to the side. You always go for the *** wholes first. Then when you get a Little chubby and those same guys who you were all for you don't want you anymore because your not as hot you come back to us. However, we do not want you anymore. We moved on and are looking for someone better.
However, there are guys who are *** wholes who will not give a chubby girl a chance. Its simply because guys want something to brag about. For me a girl who is to over weight only shows she has a lack of ambition and does not take care of herself. Most girls are over weights because they are unhappy about something. Make yourself happy first and take care of yourself. If you want more guys to look at you then go to the gym. Losing 10 lbs will make a huge difference in the way you look. But you also need to make sure that you five that not so hot guy a chance to. Remember how you felt.
2007-04-09 15:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess in my opinion, when guys see a big girl, I guess they think of the "What you are is what you eat" and obviously the guy thinks that they eat twinkies and ice-cream and probably thinking that they can't take care of themselves. But when they look at a skinny girl (Sometimes I think their Anorexic) they think that they're all healthy looking and cares for themselves.
2007-04-09 15:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by A_Well_Dressed_Pickle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls can be just as shallow.......if one guy drives a Mercedes and the other guy drives a Toyota Corolla guess who gets the date. It's a two way street
2007-04-09 15:04:20 · answer #8 · answered by miester44 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't mean to make the big girls feel bad. Men tend to forget what's inside a person, and not what's outside. Take my friend for example, she's a total slut, but he's going out with her anyway b/c of her appearance. I can't help it either. I want that body, but I don't want her. I hope i helped.
2007-04-09 14:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are much much shallower than men, because they can afford to be, men take what they can get usually, guys have NO shot with a good looking girl unless they are nice looking, in shape, have money , etc,
2007-04-09 14:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by swenjj 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those guys are fools, I know big girls are more cool more fun in bed a just better ppl. they are more considerate of other people because they know how it feels to be left out
I would date a big girl before I would a skinny one.
2007-04-09 14:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋