to try and forgive and forget? or forget and move on?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, i love him dearly; a few monthes ago he didn't cheat on me, but, while on a school trip we got into a bit of an argument; it wasn't anything serious, but another girl from the trip who had a boyfriend back home used it to get as close as possible to my boyfriend and he ignored me for the next few days and spent most of the time with her, he didn't cheaet on my but he started to fall for her and she wanted him, now, he apologised, but i still do forgive him, what should i do?

Answer 1

Well your never to young to learn about emotional cheating. Welcome to the grown-up world, you guys are doing some pretty grown-up things if he didn't sleep with the lady. But that was completely unfair! But its your life to live, understand that for one it isn't alright to ignore someone you love just because you have a disagreement, thats just mean and cold. You deserve more then an appology to you need an explanation. For one, why he would choose to ignore you during a nice wonderful experience like that, just to get back at you for an small argument? Another is why chill with a girl who obvious has more in mind then being friends, I mean you can tell that kind of thing, then he sure as heck can tell that kind of thing. Another thing is this "falling for her" thing, is that your reading into it, or did he actual say that? If your reading that in, be careful, everything well come out when you ask for that explanation. If he said that, OUCH!!!! Thats a burn alright, might want to start to think seriously about if this guy is really showing you all the actions of a man in love. The steps from there are a whole new question thou...