Even though I love him, I love to do my work alone, I love to meditate, relax and do my stuff without anybody interrupting,
but he is always trying to help me, I know he thinks he is helping, BUT I JUST can't stand this anymore!!!
2007-04-09 14:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by MARIA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well tell the poor bastard he doesn't know
2007-04-09 15:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by dad 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do, tell him that you love working with him but that when you are working you would prefer to try things by yourself and then if you need any assistance you will let him know, that way he can take care of what he needs to do and you will both finish your work faster so then you can have more together time... If you love him and he loves you he will understand just be honest and communicate the way you feel in a loving manner...Remember he is your best friend, your partner, your lover if you can't tell him your feels who can you tell... I'm sure that you will be fine....
2007-04-09 23:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by evepineda02 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't do anything in your workplace because there is no possible way to evade him. but if you want to relax and meditate do it outside of workplace and home. go to spa or hang out with your friends for a new face and new environment. be understandable that he is your husband, he o wants only you to help, because he loves you, maybe for him its a one way of showing he loves you and he doesn't like to see you in hardship situation. try to put your place in his shoes. explain to him you like to be alone sometimes and he has too. just a matter of communication. if you deliver it right for sure he will understand you..good luck
2007-04-09 22:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by taurust_girl27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a third person to talk to him about it. Someone you both know and then your husband cannot give logical answers that you cannot reply to. Sounds like you need to have help explaining what is going on.
2007-04-09 22:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by thisbrit 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him you need space. Be really nice about it and make sure you are ready to hear his side of the story. Good luck!
2007-04-09 21:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going to have to tell him, when you are not asphyxiating....calmly so his feelings don't get hurt; I know people who do it (work together) and I don't know how they do it....I love my guy, but I don't want to see him 24/7..... and frankly he doesn't want to see me 24/7 either (we work together also......but, if he works from home, I go into the office, if I work from home he goes into the office)
2007-04-09 21:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you have to find something for him to do.Make him think he's really helping but in reality he's out of your space awhile.If that doesn't work, tell him how you feel.The only other thing I can think of is continue the way things are.
2007-04-09 22:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by chris19947 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Make a fake project that will demand your attention and time and emphasize to him how important it is for you to get your thoughts together to concentrate blame it on someone else that they are distracting you so that is why you must work alone Good luck
2007-04-09 22:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tiff 4 Tatt! 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Office door and a lock!
2007-04-09 21:56:19 · answer #9 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are going to have to communicate this to him in a tactful way...... Do you think you can do that? If you do not, nothing is going to change.......
2007-04-09 21:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋