Family & Relationships - 6 April 2007

I can see and feel his sincerity with his feelings towards me but to give you an idea i don't look like 37 i asked my friends they said that our appearance look the same. This is my insecurity my age number.Please give me some motivation to uplift myself, thank you very much!!!

2007-04-06 23:48:29 · 2 answers · asked by Angel Yrra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

stop putting in the effort once they are married. Time and time again, friends complain that they no longer get hugged and their husbands just become lazy with the relationship. I won't be getting married!

2007-04-06 23:32:14 · 24 answers · asked by clairejgray1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 23:28:03 · 9 answers · asked by Bridgette A 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for five years now, and have been with my wife in a relationship for 10 years. The thing is I honestly don't think I've ever loved her. I met her at university and she was my first girlfriend. I remember trying to break up with her at university, but I wasn't prepared for her emotional response and I freaked out. Over time I decided that we got along very well, and I adopted a sort of fatalistic approach to life. I ended up marrying her due to a visa issue - I had to move to another country for work reasons. Things were going fine until recently. I met someone at work that sparked some emotions inside of me that I didn't believe I was capable of. My new friendship hasn't stepped into the physical realm, and I don't think it will. However, I can't stop thinking about her, it's become obsessive. When these feelings developed, I explored my life and realised that the last 10-years of my life have been a blur. My wife is a saint and I feel terrible. She is 31. No kids.

2007-04-06 23:24:26 · 16 answers · asked by MightyJoe1977 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my fella used to be close with his exes in laws, and he told his ex mother in law that he didnt want to know them now they have broken up but they could always see his son, which is fair enough because i dont really want his ex inlaws hanging around the place all the time, and for some reason his ex mother in law wouldnt tell his ex father in law, but my fella still handed the phone straight onto his son when they called, and then the calls stopped for ages and they didnt seem to want anything to do with him and on occasions his ex motther in law called only to speak top martin when i said he wsnt there to talk to she never asked for her grandson my fella promised he would t6ell his father in law soon and then when they came to pick up their grandson to go see them this week the father in law came in and martin just spoke to him like anything and they even hugged! its really upset me cos they are in his past and his ex wife is trying so hard to split us up and then he went mad at me!

2007-04-06 23:24:25 · 5 answers · asked by charley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-06 23:16:20 · 15 answers · asked by deedee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When you look at happily married couples, the ones that do have some problems but are in general very much in love with eachother and have loving children and then compare them with "pathetic" singles, who can never find someone to be in a relationship with, what is the major difference between these people? What are your thoughts on this?

2007-04-06 23:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by stargazer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this 80 years old elderly friend, i met him 2 years ago, he has no friend, no children and a widower, only one sister and a nephew but they never visit him. He is house bound because he fell recently, i do shopping 3 times a week and takes him to doctor appointment, i am 29 years old and i am really tired of doing all this, i have my own life to live, he wouldn't ask help from his family, he also refuse social worker, or nursing home, or any assistance, he doesn't trust people, even i was never allowed to go inside his home. I work full time, and i really don't have time for all this, i used to love him but his bitterness and skeptism (even towards me) has made me very depresing, I want to stop seeing him but don't want to be mean, what should i do?

2007-04-06 22:54:38 · 7 answers · asked by saegiie 1 in Family

i m very fond of sexual activity, and i have no problems with my sexual capabilities also, however my wife harrasses me , always discarding my request, what should i do. i m frusterated, is it fair to go for paid sex?

2007-04-06 22:05:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

then how would a woman who chooses to do this repeatedly, right infront of the dude, want to be approached?

2007-04-06 21:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 21:43:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why u seldom see this scenario happening?
a man leaving a younger woman for an older woman
but its always a man leaving the older woman for a younger woman

2007-04-06 21:42:50 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At age 8 your dad buys you an ice cream. You thanked him by dripping it
all over your lap.

When you were 9 years old, he paid fo music lessons. You thanked him by
never even bothering to practice.

When you were 10 years old he drove you all day, from soccer to football to
one birthday party after another. You thanked him by jumping out of the car
and never looking back.

When you were 11 years old, he took you and your friends to the movies.
You thanked him by asking to sit in a different row.

When you were 12 years old, he warned you not to watch certain TV shows.
You thanked him by waiting until he left the house.

When you were 13, he suggested a haircut that was becoming You thanked him
by telling him he had no taste.

When you were 14, he paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked him
by forgetting to write a single letter.

When you were 15, he came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked
him by having your bedroom door locked.

When you were 16, he taught you how to drive his car. You thanked him by
taking it every chance you could.

When you were 17, he was expecting an important call. You
thanked him by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, he cried at your high school graduation. You thanked him
by staying out partying until dawn.

When you were 19, he paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus
Carried your bags. You thanked him by saying good-bye outside the dorm so
you wouldn't be embarrassed in front of your friends.

When you were 25, he helped to pay for your wedding, and he cried and told
You how deeply he loved you. You thanked him by moving halfway across the
Country.

When you were 50, he fell ill and needed you to take care
Of him. You thanked him by reading about the burden parents become to their
Children. And then, one day, he quietly died. And everything you never did
Came crashing down like thunder on YOUR HEART.
If you love your dad, Just write down your feeling after reading this..
If you don't...then shame on you!!

2007-04-06 21:41:58 · 14 answers · asked by SHAHZAD K 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm soon to be deploying to Iraq and I am engage to a beautiful woman back home. Me and her are still a very young couple and I was wanting to know other people opinions on if we should try getting married before I leave or if we should wait tell I come home.

2007-04-06 21:27:01 · 19 answers · asked by Detective Dick Davis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for answers from the viewpoint of the guests... how many of you actually WANT a 'wedding favour'?

How many of you actually keep them, and how many of you throw them out or relegate them to the junk drawer?

I'm trying to find out if they are actually worth all the effort and expense many brides put into them.

2007-04-06 21:24:26 · 23 answers · asked by endorable 4 in Weddings

I hate every member of my family so much. I don't even live with them anymore but whenever I get in contact with them I always dislike them.
www.shiseidocity.blogspot.com

2007-04-06 21:24:05 · 6 answers · asked by Bergdorf 1 in Family

Obviously women who wear rings on their ring finger are married. The single women have took this up so creeps and freaks don't hit on them. As a man what is good way to approach a women with a ring? It's a crapshoot, married or not. It could be anybody's guess.

2007-04-06 21:21:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are in the process of getting to court to get primary custody. CPS is in the middle of their 5th investigation my step son who lives in a bad situation with his mom. Each time CPS comes she puts on a show. He has been removed before however. His mom will not him call his dad, me or his siblings, and won't answer his dad's cal. We only see him on our standard visits. Once he snuck a call while his stepdad was sleeping, whispered the whole time and said their fighting scares him. My husband said if he feels he is in danger call 911. Apparently step dad was listening in and later him and his mom forbid him from calling 911 and he got in trouble for talking to us. Also he got in trouble for telling CPS the truth about things at their home. We have to take him back Sunday, he is scared to go. Our atty in out of town till MOnday, we are scared of taking him back. It seems like it should almost be illegal to forbid your child from 911, is it? Must we return him?

2007-04-06 20:58:36 · 5 answers · asked by okydoky 1 in Family

2007-04-06 20:47:48 · 11 answers · asked by abina s 2 in Singles & Dating

If I hold my palm out to my crush and he walks right over without me saying a word...does this mean anything?
as far a relationship potential?
Every single time I hold out the palm of my hand, he walks right over. Sometimes he even rubs the entire length of my hand which is hot! So have I got him "trained"? And is this rubbing a way to flirt? Oh! And I get much better results by holding out my hand than I do when I say "Hey, Brodie! Come over here."

2007-04-06 20:47:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend is 13 and had some trouble in his past but he won't tell me what is up its like he is hidding it from me.like if he tells me ill dump him but i would never hurt him and i told him that and also he smokes weed (ENDO) to be specific and i keep tellin him to stop but all he says is its hard to stop. i told he needs to try cuz when we are on the phone sometimes he will sit there and smoke it and i can hear him cough all the time i have lost so many ppl in my family to smokin and i don't wanna lose him and when i ask him why he does it he just says it feels good i tell him to stop but he just won't im scared for him I LOVE HIM but just don't him to burn off his brain cells and gettin high when talkin to me wat do i do and how do i help him

2007-04-06 20:46:48 · 13 answers · asked by Kamaria G 1 in Singles & Dating

he still lives with his parents at age of 33?

He has a good paying job and is finacially indepedent. He is kind, nice, fun and well travelled. He stays home because he is saving up for down for a house and he does not believe in renting.

2007-04-06 20:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by FR 1 in Singles & Dating

She's really good at sports, but still smart
she's not hot but not uggly
tomboyish
teenager

2007-04-06 20:39:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 20:38:17 · 8 answers · asked by Kal-El 1 in Singles & Dating

i have low self esteem, been to self assertivness classes, they didnt work really, i always look on the negative side of things and i hate it!!! i have been hurt so much in the past by men, so i dont trust them, i have a partner of 7 years and he finds it difficult to put up with, i keep saying ill change but then i go back down the same road!!! i want to change i really do, my relationship is at stake here, any suggestions???

2007-04-06 20:32:26 · 14 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Trying to prove a point here

2007-04-06 20:31:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He's barely an ex. We "dated" 2 weeks before realizing it wasn't working out. He broke up with me first, but if he hadn't, I swear I was going to.
We're friends with all the same people, so we've ended up in the same place a few times since the break-up. I've been completely over him since the moment it was over, and I don't doubt that he's over me as well. And yet, every time we end up in the same place, he leaves because of me. We have a class together, and he purposely ignores me the whole time. And, 2 months later, he still has me blocked on instant messenger.
I have not harassed him or given him any reason to think he needs to block me. The most contact we've had is an e-mail I sent him 2 weeks after our break-up letting him know I don't hate him, or even dislike him, and I'd like it if we could be on good terms for when we see each other in the future.
I'm friends with ALL my exes but him. Why can't we be friends? What can I do to try and get him to be comfortable around me?

2007-04-06 20:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 in Singles & Dating

"love means lying".Do you agree?

2007-04-06 20:31:15 · 16 answers · asked by want_to_know 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-06 20:24:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Sex so much ??

2007-04-06 20:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by Derby 6 in Singles & Dating