Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

I like this guy and I fell for him (he knows this)...I haven't seen him in about 5 years but we can't communicate often because he is in the army (he is not in the US...he is not an American we are both in Asia now) He is really nice guy and he aways tell me he could never be angry at me...I gave him some BS because I got confused with him and another guy so I gave him a PSP...he doesn't earn a lot in the army over here...its different than the US...anyway he didn't ask for it I just gave it to him. But my friend's BF told me he didn't think the guy was good and I should forget him...I was devastated by this and told the guy I wanted to go back to the US because I was so hurt..its not that I believe the BF but it shattered all my hope with the guy and I felt so hurt...that the BF felt this way and told me. I told the guy on IM what the BF said but he won't answer me to say goodbye..I told him it wasn't that I believe the BF but I was so hurt by what he said that I had to leave..

2007-04-03 23:56:58 · 6 answers · asked by iaskmyselfhowmuchdou 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my husbands sister and her daughter has been with us for four days and Im at my limit my daughter is being humiliated by an unpleasant ,boastful child and its not being checked by my husband or her mother (his sister) we have taken them wherever they have wanted to go and my child has remained polite and well-behaved. the niece has tried to make my daughter go into the deep end of the pool even when I have have told her that shes not allowed and my little one has said that she said so too..The niece then went to the deepest end of the pool with a friend to exclude my child.PLEASE advise !personal experience would be very helpful..

2007-04-03 23:54:44 · 15 answers · asked by gadriel 3 in Family

ok my step daughter, has only just spoken to me and she used to say she loved me and wanted to talk to me but since her dad told her that i will become her mum oneday she doesn't want to talk. she is only 5 but is this normal. some help please

2007-04-03 23:42:48 · 9 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Family

What are you freakin guys looking for? I mean I'd like to hear what some of you see in women you admire. What makes you love a girl or even simpy notice her? Be honest, because I am a woman and would really like to know some thoughts.

2007-04-03 23:42:27 · 17 answers · asked by Reese W889 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 23:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You broke up with your girlfriend. But you were reunited four months after. Everything was going fine until you found out that she's pregnant. The sad thing is, the baby isn't yours and the father is her ex-bf, who was there the time you broke up with her. What would you do?

2007-04-03 23:36:59 · 27 answers · asked by chanz8teen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what would be your ideal date, and where would it be...?

2007-04-03 23:29:17 · 6 answers · asked by v. 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has just split up with her boyf of 9 months. He ended it right out of the blue, saying that he didnt love her and couldn't imagine being with her the rest of his life. He's probably just running scared. She said that they had an amazing 9 months together. What advice do i give her?

2007-04-03 23:24:12 · 9 answers · asked by mr_o_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

Since Im sociolistic I tend to get on well with all kinds of people.I dnt have a prob with shyness.I have to many friends and im not complaining.They just never give me time for myself.I cant seem to say no to a goog time thats the prob!!!!!!

2007-04-03 23:18:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was raped when I was 9 and have 10 sexual relationships with boyfriends and my partner realli want to use me for sex. I have me hurt by him and i cant get away. he put things in my mouth and makes me suk them. HELP WHAT SHOULD i DO?

2007-04-03 23:17:24 · 20 answers · asked by Hollz 2 in Singles & Dating

my sons father wont pay child support, he only calls his son maybe once a month and has only had him over for the weekend 6 times in the last year. for most of that it was because his new girlfriend did not like our son and would not have him at her house. (my son is 4) now he is not living with her so he wants to have him over, but he refuses to tell me where he lives. i have told him no because he wont pay child support or tell me where he lives or make an agreement to have him on regular basis AND STICK TO IT. he says that im stopping him from seeing his son and that he will hate me for it when he grows up. i dont want to stop my boy from seeing his dad but its hard to see his dissapointment when his dad says he will see him and then cancels at the last minute.

am i doing the right thing? will my son hate me when he grows up?

2007-04-03 23:15:11 · 13 answers · asked by princess_cheeks09 4 in Family

i always dream my ex husband lately i dont know why? im still care of him and love him..his living with someone else right now because i cant take him for cheating me and so much to pain he gave to me.we have two kids and he doesnt give any child support and never say hi or hello to our kids...i can say i forgave him already but the fact the pain still here...i dont know how heis right now his in america right now and me and kids in other country...thanks

2007-04-03 23:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Theres a girl in my year at school that i like alot...and ive already told her how i feel. but now i feel like shes always avoiding me, she walks away from me and doesnt talks to me at school (she never used to but ive talked to her alot on msn and i think she knows me a little bit, but it feels like shes avoiding talking to me). i told her a little ova 3 months ago just so u know... and i just want to b friends tho cos i know she isnt interested in me, but i dunno if she does. Should i tell her that i want to be just friends but closer friends then what we are now or what should i do?

sorry this question doesnt sound that important but it means alot to me. plz any advice would be appreciated thanx. (also i should add i have talked to her in person but i dont often, and i dont think she hates me).

2007-04-03 23:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 23:10:02 · 17 answers · asked by KarenHeaven 1 in Singles & Dating

Right from the very beginning, i already knew that its forbidden to fall for your teacher.But as time past,i came to found out that i likes him more than a teacher! I really feel very dejected and confused now. I wanted to tell him how i feel but i am scare because i knew i would get into trouble by doing so(& he may even be blamed). I dunno what to do now,my friend all tells me to forget about him but i just cant do it! Because i dont wan to.(actually i had tried a few times but i just cant force myself to hate him because he is always so good to me even though how i tried to ignore him.) I know i am bad and very wrong to like him but i am just crazily in love with him. Can anyone pls help me! This crazyness must finds its end!!

By the way, I am 18years old and he is 34years old (this is another problem of age-gap... *sign =/ )

2007-04-03 23:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 23:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Day before yesterday my boyfriend forced me to kiss him, I played sick to run away from his kiss. What that mean?

2007-04-03 23:04:22 · 15 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Friends

3 days ago:

my ex been seein my best mate for 8.5 months now we went out before for 7 months 3 days ago he told me how he felt about from start to finish like and i was up-set about it cos he was seein me best mate and i had a bf he was goin to dump her for me

2 days ago:

me and me ex was muckin about he nicked me bobble so i tryed to get it back i gave up in da end so he was on his back on his bed and i was on my belly liein on his side (ish) really odd. he kissed me on da head and he said "i have no idea why i did that" so i turned my head cos i seen its happin again he kept askin me whats wrong untill i turned around and kissed him and said "that" then from them we started kissin like mad!

1 day ago:

yesterday this is now, my ex told his gf (witch is my best mate) she fliped on me and asked for my side of the story (so i gave it to here) even tho he kissed me 1st she said "i don't ever want to see or talk to u again do u hear me!" and now she's not talkin to me

2007-04-03 23:04:10 · 10 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a relationship but made the nearly fatal mistake of asking my girlfiend if i can trust her. I didn't think i was insulting her but she reckoned so and immediately went on the definsive, just from that. is that the trait of someone hiding something or am i just be selfish and insulting to her. I know the answer myself kinda anway and thats you never really know if you can trust someone, you just gotta take the chance and not be hung up about it. So i guess i have answered my own question there!. Anyway if any women wanna chat i'm online!

2007-04-03 23:01:45 · 6 answers · asked by Huggie Bear 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean that we don't only care about how we look, we don't "select" guys according to their backgrounds!
We are not stupid! I finished school with B++,
now i study at the university and i AM one of the most progressing students!!
I have many thing people can talk to me about!
I am not at all boring! I've got the crazy life-style, i try to combine my studying, work, and love!!
the beauty is inside, the beauty is in the look!
so this has a lot to do with my last question!!!!

2007-04-03 23:01:01 · 14 answers · asked by La Tanya 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 23:00:23 · 14 answers · asked by Life&Death 1 in Singles & Dating

Here is a friend, a girl, who after a few days of our summer vacation never sent me messages anymore nor replied to mine. We'll we used to keep in touch through our cellphones. And I don't know any reason for her not to continue w/ that.

Then after a few days more, she invited me and some of our friends at their house for the celebration of her sister's graduation. I asked her then if she has any hard feelings or if she is angry w/ me and she answered no but she was not answering when I asked why was she not replying.

Then after that, she still continued that way. I was trying to call her but she won't answer the phone. She was refusing my call. Then when we met again, I asked her if she just don't like me(for that was the only reason that I, one my friends, & my brother knows besides her being angry w/ me) & told me no.

What do you think is her reason for that?

2007-04-03 22:59:28 · 3 answers · asked by Rhine 3 in Friends

I've been dating with a Japanese guy for 8 month, I really like him, but he is complicated with his family issue, he married once and told me he alreay divorced. but sometime he still says" my wife" when he mentions her. he told me they didn't end up the marrige on Japanese said(this guy has two nationalities, they married twice both in Jap and Canada.) and also he says he loves me but can not manage to marry me for now, even promise a quit of relationship when there is someone else showing up. He said he couldn't give me what I wanted, I deserve better, he just stay with me in my gap. this really bothers me cz I falled in love with him, not just sextually or materially. I don't even know whether he is my boyfriend or not. what should I do? I need suggestion.

2007-04-03 22:58:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:54:09 · 11 answers · asked by wvandyk09 1 in Singles & Dating

Basically, my last boyfreind was a complete loser, cheating, lying and he manipulated me. He made me fal in love with him and then he pulled away and started being nasty. So i can understand me being needy to him cos i kept trying to make things right and had to constantly work at getting his attention. I then left him.

Now im with an absolute star of a boyfriend who treats me well. At first i was confident and i thought- if he left me, he left me, but 9 months later, ive fallen for him and he wants to be with me, i feel like im feeling needy again! Its peeing me off cos i hate feeling like this. Im confident, im determined in my work life, and i want to change. I odnt stop him doing stuff or anything, its just a feeling i have. Its like i want his attention a lot, and i want him to think of me all the time (which is pathetic i know) Ive spoken about it to him. And ive stopped texting him etc..Anyone else feel like this? what did u do?

2007-04-03 22:54:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok...heres the sitch. I have just recently broken up with my bf. We are still good mates and he says he still likes me. Then about 2-3 weeks ago this guy told me he likes me...hes cool and all but i dont really like him, hes also 2 years older than me. Now i have just found out that my friends ex who is also 2 years older than me likes me too. Im so confused b'cos ive always been the tom-boy and never really thought of myself as real gd lookin and stuff. but i like this other guy who is from another country. lol so as you see...im in a hard possy...any suggestions? plz...it would really help. XxX

2007-04-03 22:52:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you have read my last question you would know that my boyfreind has passed on. But i have found out iam pregnent with his baby. I dont wont to be a single mum.

2007-04-03 22:50:27 · 15 answers · asked by no_ugly_boys 2 in Singles & Dating

3 days ago:
my ex been seein my best mate for 8.5 months now we went out before for 7 months 3 days ago he told me how he felt about from start to finish like and i was up-set about it cos he was seein me best mate and i had a bf he was goin to dump her for me

2 days ago:

me and me ex was muckin about he nicked me bobble so i tryed to get it back i gave up in da end so he was on his back on his bed and i was on my belly liein on his side (ish) really odd. he kissed me on da head and he said "i have no idea why i did that" so i turned my head cos i seen its happin again he kept askin me whats wrong untill i turned around and kissed him and said "that" then from them we started kissin like mad!

1 day ago:

yesterday this is now, my ex told his gf (witch is my best mate) she fliped on me and asked for my side of the story (so i gave it to here) even tho he kissed me 1st she said "i don't ever want to see or talk to u again do u hear me!" and now she's not talkin to me????

2007-04-03 22:47:16 · 2 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Friends

all right so i'm 19 and my girlfriend is 13...don't give me any sex offender crap because i didn't force her to do jack...we met like a year ago and she agreed to be my girlfriend and we did it like seven times and the last time was two weeks ago and it was great except for one thing...it was three days after her period and she got dizzy so i had her take a pregnancy test and it was positive...and she wants to give birth. now i really want to dump her because i'm just an auto mechanic living hand to mouth and i can't deal with a kid. i thought we were really in love and the sex was awesome but a baby's taking it too far. how can i dump her?

2007-04-03 22:45:59 · 27 answers · asked by Eleven Inches 1 in Singles & Dating

actually he is my best friend that i ever had...he always support me..n always be there for me when i need him..he can be my confeter that will confet me...but in the same time i care about him so what need i do???

2007-04-03 22:41:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends