Right from the very beginning, i already knew that its forbidden to fall for your teacher.But as time past,i came to found out that i likes him more than a teacher! I really feel very dejected and confused now. I wanted to tell him how i feel but i am scare because i knew i would get into trouble by doing so(& he may even be blamed). I dunno what to do now,my friend all tells me to forget about him but i just cant do it! Because i dont wan to.(actually i had tried a few times but i just cant force myself to hate him because he is always so good to me even though how i tried to ignore him.) I know i am bad and very wrong to like him but i am just crazily in love with him. Can anyone pls help me! This crazyness must finds its end!!
By the way, I am 18years old and he is 34years old (this is another problem of age-gap... *sign =/ )
2007-04-03 23:05:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's too complicated...... try to do some stuff that you will enjoy or go out and have fun..... it was really forbidden to fall in love with your teacher and you were too young for him.... i guess you just like him and you thought you love him because may be of some reasons the made you like him a lot.... enjoy your age and wait for the right time that your right man would come after you and tell you what he feels... there's always a right time and all you have to do is enjoy while waiting for it.....
2007-04-03 23:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by JOY 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ITS NOT LOVE. This is a typical teenage crush. You don't even know this man. No decent 34 year old is ever going to be involved with an 18 year old kid. The feelings can be very overwhelming, I don't envy you those or all the upset that goes with a huge crush. Take some time out, calm down and do other stuff to take your mind off it. I promise you, in three months it will feel very different.
2007-04-04 06:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing new under the sun, that's normal, some people have the same your case. But you should think deeply before doing, will it work or not. I know you are ready for your romance in your age, but that kind of love is likely hallucination...., you will forget when you calm down...That kind of this case is very rare come true. Wait and see
2007-04-04 06:21:39 · answer #3 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r not a bad person..u have to know that.Falling in love with a teacher is not very uncommon.Though yes,it might bring trouble.As u said,if u express it u both will end up in trouble.Now,do u know whether he is married or not?If he is married then u have no other option but to move on..hang around with your friends...do fun things to keep your mind off him..do things that u want to do.
If he is unmarried and u just cant get him out of your mind,wait till u finish school.When u r out of school...u r free to become friends with him and then u may decide.
good luck:)
2007-04-04 06:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just infatuated with him. I would say stay away from him because he could get into alot of trouble even though you are at the age of consent. walk away. I liked a few teachers in my time, but it always went away. You will be in college soon and you will forget about him.
2007-04-04 06:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is try and have your class switched see if that helps but don't try to pursue a relationship with him because you could jeopardize his job and his life he could be married with kids
2007-04-04 06:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by D.Marie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this happens a lot...maybe you need to change teachers. This is definately forbidden until you have graduated. Don't persue it yet....
2007-04-04 06:12:07 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Minnie Mouse♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 18 so i supposse you in matric? you need to focus more on your work.. his a teacher i highly doubt his interested in his students.. how come you in love with him? how much about him do you know?
2007-04-04 06:20:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its more of infatuation.
once u find some other mate or move to new place, u r likely to forget him.
2007-04-04 06:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...I only have one suggestion for you...If you are going to fall in love with your teacher, I hope he teaches English...good luck
2007-04-04 06:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋