Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

i have just had a knee operation and i have a frame on my leg that doesnt look nice at all. the thing is that my boyfriend dosent seem as into me for sex. i will have this frame on for 3 months. do you think it is because he doesnt find me sexy any more or is it because he is scared of hurting me? plz help!

2007-04-03 22:39:27 · 14 answers · asked by tinkerbell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-03 22:37:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In these times it seems that the old rule of men being the hunter is not applicable anymore. I have heard many of my female friends complaining of the same thing:men just don't ask us out anymore!!! We have to use all kinds of tactics to get them to understand that we want to be asked out!!! So, do you guys think badly of a girl who is brave enough to do the asking. Us girls are becoming more and more confident and and hate being the traditional 'wallflowers'

2007-04-03 22:35:22 · 7 answers · asked by Smippy 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having a problem with planning my wedding. I really do not want children at my wedding. There are various reasons, cost of $30 a plate, I want this to be elegant, I don't really like kids and the big one I am wearing a strapless dress and I was at a wedding where this group of little girls kept following the bride everywhere and finally one of them stepped on the dress and down it came to reveal that she was not wearing a bra that day! Anyway I don't want to invite children however there has to be an exception for a few of my close relatives. It would only be maybe 4 kids total. My problem is how do you say no kids and then when your guests arrive and see that there are a few choice children? Another problem I have is some of my cousins, who I am not close with, have children that are teenagers. We decided that inviting the 2nd cousins is a bit much and there has to be a line drawn somewhere. Neither of us want a wedding where there are people we don't know personally.

2007-04-03 22:33:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

love life moves in cycles? Do you find the same things (Good and bad) happening to you over and over? So that when you stand back and think about it, it's almost spooky like deja vu?

And even the periods when you are alone seem like they are pretty much the same. Until you meet a new person and it starts all over again?

2007-04-03 22:32:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:30:13 · 6 answers · asked by himansh_7 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:29:38 · 14 answers · asked by don_9310 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so today we where e-mailing each other and i was telling him how ah-mazing he was. and she said no hes not ah-mazing..n then outa nowhere he was like your to good for me. and we kept like disagreeing,but playflully. and i was like ok lemme make a deal..if your ah-mazing then im to good for you?. and he said well if your to good for me then why are you talking to me? so then i said "well then im not to good for you! haha" and after that he was like ok i have to go i'll ttyl got to go to bed night night. but usually at the end of his e-mails before he leaves he says i love you! and this time he didnt. but the night before he was sayin that he did love me and igave him 3 reasons why he was ah-mazing i said "he was funny, sweet, and he cared about me" and he said "all but one is right=)" so i asked him which one, and he said "i care about you alot" so was he just mad at the time when i was e-mailing him or does he not want to talk to me any more!?! please someone help me i rly love him

2007-04-03 22:26:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It gets boring to always just watch DVDs and have dinner at home, especially on the weekends.

2007-04-03 22:26:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't understand men! I'm 20, slim, ok looking, GSOH, very kind and giving so why can't I get/keep a b'friend? I don't nag, I never say no in the bedroom... Seriously, what more can I do?

2007-04-03 22:25:13 · 29 answers · asked by Me! 3 in Singles & Dating

Me an my partner split up two weeks ago.. He made it clear he dont want me back. But for to move on i wanna go to his to pick my own stuff instead of him posting it. I wanna Re-place the memory of when i last saw him when he loved me and re-place it by sayin our goodbyes nand taakin my stuff, But he said he cant cos it will make him feel worse then he already does.. Why is he feeling bad? He dumped me.

2007-04-03 22:25:02 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it ok for girls/gf if their bf rarely picks them up from ofc/school!?

2007-04-03 22:24:15 · 12 answers · asked by a_girl_from_ipanema 1 in Singles & Dating

(1) Rate your looks, from 1 to 10, and
(2) List some of the qualities you want in a guy.

I'm trying to see if there's a correlation between appearance and desired traits.

2007-04-03 22:19:01 · 5 answers · asked by Queue XIX 1 in Singles & Dating

I have had a very special relationship with my b/f, we have always been very open and we are so close and best friends also. About a year ago, we started dating seriously and quickly got engaged. I’m 20, he's 21. He’s not the player type; he has low self esteem and bad self image even though I always try to build up his confidence. Lately, I have been felling low myself and my normally high sex drive has gone (no, I’m not pregnant). Anyway, he had been complaining that he doesn't think I find him attractive anymore and that I never make a fuss of him...

Then on Monday night, I found a txt on his phone (which I never normally go though) asking a girl to come to his place, and have sex for a few hrs while I was at work. Then I found txt's directing her how to get to his flat. He say's nothing happened and that he just did it o see if anyone would show him some attention...

I know he needs help with his confidence, but I have been nothing but faithful... what should I do? HELP!!!!!

2007-04-03 22:17:21 · 23 answers · asked by natasha l 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.So today in class two girls started crying, both of them r really good frnds of mine so naturally i went to console one of them and told her that the other girl had attitude problem and to forget her.
Somehow the other girl came to know abt this(attitude problem bit) and she came to me and started crying there and then!!!
She told me that i didnt care for her and i went around saying whatever the hell i want.I tried to tell her i did not mean wat i said bt she just walked away crying.I tried to stop her bt she did not listen to me and walked away with all her friends.Now, i really dont know what to do....???? Can anyone please help me with this.
i would really appreciate it....

2007-04-03 22:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by the lost sam 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, she's depressed and lonely and she feels like she needs to occupy her self to hide her depression.

2007-04-03 22:14:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im having a problem with my now as of yesterday ex. During a break we had for a month she dated another man while I was single. I hooked up with a girl she did not like because of a previous incedent I had with her during a complicated time I had with my gf while we where not together. I felt guilty and told my gf about it at the time. So now onto present time. Im back with my gf and she has done some investigating and assumed I had sex with the girl she did not like. I told her yes even though before we went back out again I told her no only because I feared she will not go back out with me. I told her that situation was in the past and should not effect whatever outcomes we have in the recent relationship. My gf said she could not forget the past when I told her she should because she is getting jealous of any female presence within 5 feet of me. She kept concentrating on the past and it was effecting our relationship/trust. Should she forgive what happened before tomake things work?

2007-04-03 22:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started dating this girl and I havent felt about anybody like this for a long time I dont want to move too fast and ruin things but at the same time I dont want her to think that im not intrested because i am She is wonderfull any advice?

2007-04-03 22:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example: when u see a gorgeous girl and u tell her I am attracted to your breast, u get a kick in the bum , but that's the 100% truth. but if said to a man , he becomes flattered

2007-04-03 22:10:03 · 12 answers · asked by wvandyk09 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:08:54 · 6 answers · asked by ristic15 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:07:38 · 33 answers · asked by sonu s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is a man's love, same of that of a woman?

2007-04-03 22:03:56 · 6 answers · asked by Flower 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-03 22:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by sonu s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a long time friend that is female, I jokingly said she gained a few pounds...so she got angry with me, then the next day while I was out with her & a girlfriend of hers, she stated that she is getting fat, and they both just laughed????? I'm confused here.

2007-04-03 22:01:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am getting married soon and have been discussing the future with my fiance. We both have very good, high-earning careers but will want to have kids too. We plan to take out a big loan to buy the house of our dreams…this is ok providing we both work and pay off the house loan (mortgage). However, although I want my dream home, I have always dreamt of being a stay-at-home mum too. We definitely want a child. Although my job would give me maternity for a year…I know deep inside I want to stay with my child until he/she is old enough to go to kindergarden..i.e. 3 years old and 3 years at home. The problem is this: If we decide to do this, we would not be able to go for our dream home and this would be very very disappointing. I know it may sound greedy, but I want my nice home and to spend the first 3 years of life with the child too - I think it is important for the baby. We don't plan to have kids right away but we need to think about this when buying our house soon. Help please!

2007-04-03 21:58:54 · 12 answers · asked by Fluffy ♥ 4 in Family

I am just curious because I really like European guys, and I am going to Italy this summer for a study abroad program.


About me:
-I am 19 and in college
-I am tall(5'8) and thin
-I have blue eyes and wavy light brown hair
-I am Swedish, Russian, African American, Portuguese, Native American, Brazilian, and French (I know its alot)

Thank you for your help :)

2007-04-03 21:55:23 · 8 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Singles & Dating

I noe this indian-chinese guy for almost 7 years now.
We've been datin for 5 years.
But my dad, he hates other races except his own.

Years ago despite his repeated violent objections,
I carried on datin him on the sly.

My bf's the kind of guy who's ur best friend n lover.
Both of us share a wonderful r/s.

My dad now insists that Im lyin and being unfilial,
wen he found that I have been dating this guy AGAIN (my uncle saw us),
he scolded vulgarities (calling me a f*cking idiot) n threatened to disown me.

My dad forced my cousins (whom I recently had a huge fight with) to tell him all tt dey know abt me.
Now he found out that Im going to the same uni as him.

My dad wont let these kind of things go easily. He would probably transfer me to another uni, or even force me to migrate.

He blames my mum for my bad upbringing.
I loathe him for that.

Its been a few yrs since he knew abt us, but he refused to give in and accept him.
I dont know what to do.

2007-04-03 21:53:13 · 3 answers · asked by shirley_lurve 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am always afraid that i am going to do something in order for my fiance to break up with me

2007-04-03 21:51:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did when I was about 12,and I still do sometimes when I'm extremely desperate .Life is misery

2007-04-03 21:51:43 · 16 answers · asked by ♡Ling♫ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what pick up lines have u used or have people said to u and what was their response

2007-04-03 21:50:38 · 8 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Singles & Dating