Family & Relationships - 3 April 2007

how can we spell it in different languages?

2007-04-03 21:49:45 · 3 answers · asked by Raji 1 in Friends

2007-04-03 21:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by flopguru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have you? was it what you expected it to be? you lucky so an so's :O)

2007-04-03 21:47:02 · 26 answers · asked by Liam 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so today we where e-mailing each other and i was telling him how ah-mazing he was. and she said no hes not ah-mazing..n then outa nowhere he was like your to good for me. and we kept like disagreeing,but playflully. and i was like ok lemme make a deal..if your ah-mazing then im to good for you?. and he said well if your to good for me then why are you talking to me? so then i said "well then im not to good for you! haha" and after that he was like ok i have to go i'll ttyl got to go to bed night night. but usually at the end of his e-mails before he leaves he says i love you! and this time he didnt. but the night before he was sayin that he did love me and igave him 3 reasons why he was ah-mazing i said "he was funny, sweet, and he cared about me" and he said "all but one is right=)" so i asked him which one, and he said "i care about you alot" so was he just mad at the time when i was e-mailing him or does he not want to talk to me any more!?! please someone help me i rly love him!

2007-04-03 21:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am getting married in june 2008 because that is a better time for both my fiancee and myself. my whole life my goals have been to get married and have children, but i am finding that although my fiancee has the same goals, he wants them later in life, while im ready NOW.
and then, alll the sudden, my brother gets married to a girl he knew 5 months prior to marriage. 10 months later, they decide to have a baby and now the baby is due in a week or so. i have been growing more and more jealous and my fiancee gets upset saying i should be happy for them and that he feels he isnt enough for me....i want him for the marriage and the babies. which is the FARTHEST thing from the truth......i love him with all my heart. thats why i am waiting...its just....i feel so unfulfilled. everyone i see has kids or is getting married. heck....they even get the car i want before i have a chance to go down and get it.
i dont know what to do. i want to be happy too.... but everything is so faaaar away

2007-04-03 21:45:52 · 12 answers · asked by audrey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean when a guy you like (who also knows you like him) gives you a hug after you wish him a happy birthday and when talking to him on msn he compliments you on your d.p. like 'looking really cute in the pic' and 'you look cute in that pic' ?

also, would cute be attractive cute or baby cute?

i read in the thesaurus it is a synonym for 'pretty' and 'attractive'

what does this behaviour mean?

2007-04-03 21:43:28 · 10 answers · asked by the sweet escape <3 1 in Singles & Dating

i might be acting like an emotional fool but can't help it.Tears dnt stop and to add up i cant even cry in front of others i really need a help.

2007-04-03 21:43:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19yrs old, and live on my own, completely independent. i pay my own bills, pay my rent, do my own grocery shopping, laundry, everything! my parents divorced when i was 5, n my mom left me, but took my sista later on. my dad took me to a shrink at like 3, n i have no problem but severe depression n severe anxiety w attacks. he would beat me cuz i didnt wanna go to church, he aint christian eitha. he always got ppl to stick up for him, n they tell me that his problems r my fault. he sent me to school one day w blooody nose, n didnt care. he made me out da bad guy. he started to ruin my future till i took control last year. he n i dnt agree on anythin, he pro-bush, im anti-bush, he rich, im poor.he dont support me bein independent at all.talks bad about to me to his coworkers.blames me for everythin.he racist, but im only halfwhite, he htes my mom. i aint talk to him in 3months n he want pitty, he messed up my comp n wont fix it, n gamme beatup trash furniture n say "oh,well".

2007-04-03 21:42:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they often make fun off me they tell ihave no maturity.its always like this every time every body i meets i hav e similar or worse condition iamin aconfusion how to deal with people wthis also deppress me it affects my studies also it is a long lived problem of my like ie from my choild hood onwards ihave consulted aphychiartist also he had given me somemedicines also but this could not help my situationplease give me any usefullsuggestions

2007-04-03 21:40:40 · 7 answers · asked by anish_tvm122003 1 in Family

hi i am a 16 year old boy from india and this incident happened to my family 2 weeks ago .we live at saudi arab and visited back home for a small vacation. me, my mom a 37 year old housewife and my young brother aged 12 was staying at my aunts house when this inciident happened.at night when we were sleeping i heard some noises and waking up saw 3/4 guys standing near me and my brothers bed and they quickly tied our hands behind our back and stuffed our mouth with dirty cloth and wrapped some cloth around our mouth. then they took us to aunt and mom's room and jumped on them and over powered them. soon they tied mom's and aunt's hands behind their back and tightely tied their mouth too. they thretened them with knief to gave all the money and jewelery they have and open the almira key and ransecked the plase.not only that ..2 of the guys removed aunt and mom's blouse and unhooked their bra and fondeled them while others looted the house. they left us after taht ..but we are shaken.

2007-04-03 21:39:24 · 2 answers · asked by past victim 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-03 21:37:42 · 12 answers · asked by Ashooo 1 in Singles & Dating

How should a couple go about to engage? I mean what is the process and how long usually a couple got married after their engagement?

2007-04-03 21:31:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Do man really fall in love in their 30s - And if they do - how different is it from when younger man. What makes them fall in love with a younger woman? Examples?
What makes them fall truly in love with a younger woman

2007-04-03 21:30:29 · 20 answers · asked by priyasham 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When do people stop having sex? When they just can't anymore? Do grandparents have sex?!

2007-04-03 21:30:28 · 35 answers · asked by YourLocalGP 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It all began when i clled my saas for the delivery of my first baby(un aware of her motives) we are living in a foreign land. my husband used to leave for work and she used to harass me by abusing me very badly, compelling me to give her son divorce and also made attempts to beat me . As a result i ran away from home to road sides with my 11 days old baby and i returned only when my saas return was confirmed. All her grown up kids (including my husband) and her RELATIVES are favouring their mother and they all think me a bad woman bcos they don't know the truth..
on the other hand my saas is gathering GOLD Jewellaries from my hsband by making demands from time to time---thus we have no savings also.
now its my saas's youngest son 's marriage abd i don't want to go. Please tell me what to do ???

2007-04-03 21:29:44 · 12 answers · asked by saara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I always feel lnsecure about my fiance talking to female friends online

2007-04-03 21:29:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Right well, last year i met a guy on the internet, Ive seen him on cam.. we've sent things to eachother so i know hes not a pedo.
Anyway we went out in june and he broke up with me 4 months later claiming he dident love me but he still wants to be friends. Why say Yes to me when i asked him out? i know your probarbly thinking whats a girl doing asking out a guy but he was too shy.. He said yes to me. He was smiling all the time and he even came back 1 night and said he could hardly eat anything because he was thinking of me. We are still friends and we seem to be getting on really well. Were always laughing and joking, he trusts me, he smiles with me.. I still love him and ive tried everything in the book to try and let him go but i just cant.. I know there has to be somthing still there..
Im being myself around him and i seem to make him laugh alot. We have the same interests too, I asked my friend sabrina to ask him what he liked about me. He said i was cute funny and cool. So how?

2007-04-03 21:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

met a guy 3 years ago.We gelled & clicked right from the start we were like best friends as well as lovers while seeing each other, discovered that he didnt want a serious relationship at that stage. During the space of time of us seeing each other he had messed me about with broken promises due to his inability 2 commit. So I gave him 1 last ultimatum of what he wanted and that I was going to start seeing someone else. He still said that we should be friends for now as it wouldnt be fair to me as he isn't in the frame of mind etc and that I deserve the best. He was still calling me after 2-3 months to keep in contact to see how I was doing, but I just cut off all contact. Fast forward to 3 years & we have got back into contact, he's 32 and I'm 26. I have just brought a new house & am doing well so is he. Now we hav started talking again he really wants something serious and I have said no & he is gutted & has asked again? Do I say no after he messed me about b4 & had his chance then?

2007-04-03 21:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf just broke up with me bc he feels that he can't do anything for me, which is true. But I don't expect for him to do anything for me. Anyways that was his main reason for breaking up with me and then he basically told me that he doesn't want me to love him. I was already hurt that he broke up with me but the fact that he said that he doesn't want me to love him was even more hurting. And I want opinions as to why he would feel that way.

2007-04-03 21:23:04 · 3 answers · asked by gesh8815 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a misunderstanding with my "important someone"
he wanted me to attend his graduation yet i don't want to go...

I keep on telling him I don't want to just because...
But he keeps on insisting to tell him why i can't go...

He said it means much to him that I'm there on that day...
I understand what he is trying to say but...

His parents are going to be there, and I'm not that comfortable staying with his parents, noting from a fact that we're just new.

I met his parents once, but he was there with me all the time when I met them. But this time, he's not going to be around me.
I just can't compromise to go to a place or rather a scene I'm so uncomfortable..
It's a girl thing I guess... being around with your "importan someones" parent.

As of now, he's mad at me and we are not speaking.

is it right to stick to my decision?
Or just go even if I don't really feel secure?

2007-04-03 21:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married for 20 months,no children.i don't feel like i love him anymore.he has said during fights that he regrets marrying me but later apologised.he rarely helps out around the house unless i fight him about it.we both work long hours.he suggested getting help but we haven't been able to find any.we spend less time together.i suggested counselling but he bluntly refused.i have started individual counselling,but i feel like it's a waste of time cause of his refusal to work with me.should we end things now we're still in our twenties?

2007-04-03 21:16:56 · 15 answers · asked by mallamO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 21 years old and married.
My husband and I have our own home.
I try to be very morally correct.
I waited until I was married to have sex.

But last week I did something so disgusting. Let me explain last week my parents went on a cruise for their 25th anniversary.. and asked my husband and I to house sit, you know come over feed the plants and so on.
Well when I was feeding the plants in my parents room... we kinda ended up having sex in their bed, neither of us were thinking we were just making love and I felt so bad afterwards, I even trashed their sheets and shampooed their matress with the carpet cleaner, but I still feel bad that was my parents bed... I would feel violated if i knew someone was having sex in my bed and I want to confess so bad.. my husband takes me as a joke... either I confess are buy them a whole new bedroom suite and make it an extra gift theyre not due back until saturday.. what should I do?
Im very serious..
Thanks alot!

2007-04-03 21:13:16 · 12 answers · asked by proudvirgin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2 yrs ago, I made friends with a 43 yr. old who makes no attempt to better her life. She moved in w/ her verbally abusive mom 4 yrs ago to save $. All she does is complain of mom & drink more... up to 15 beers/night & she's only 5' tall! I collected apps for 8 hrs @ a job fair after she got laid off. She didn't fill out one. I've helped her many times w/ e-mailing resumes. Now unemployment is running out, she bugs me daily. Her 22 yr old nephew moved in 3 mos ago w/ a PC. She cries he won't show her how to attach her resume to an e-mail, that he said, "You should know that." I told her she wouldn't know e-mailing unless someone showed her, but since she's using his PC right there, she needs to ask him again. She refuses to ask him again. Now she's calling me abusive, falsely accusing me of what he said (if he even said it). She's begun counting favors she's done for me & throwing in my face, forgetting what I've done. I really can't stand her anymore. Would you end it & how??

2007-04-03 21:10:11 · 6 answers · asked by amazonblondeum 2 in Friends

I have a b/f that is into paranormal studies, vampires, etc. He is a really sweet gentle guy. I have no money though, and I want to do something romantic for him when we go to bed later on tonight. What do I do?! I suck at this kind of thing.

2007-04-03 21:09:29 · 2 answers · asked by J B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-03 21:08:56 · 20 answers · asked by trouble 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love art, but it goes in spurts. i love sports, but they seem to be seasonal. i LOVE to dance, but you don't find many opportunties doing that here. i love to play and joke and be the center of attention. my kids are young and i don't want to lose any passions that i might have already while waiting to pursue them. but if you're not certain any of those things are really your passion, what's a good way to discover it? and how do i hang on to the small one's with other important priorities that come first?

2007-04-03 21:07:16 · 2 answers · asked by laura t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am really really bad tempered.
I get on my mother's nerves for 3 days as minimum wearing her down.
I know I must not do it but I cannot help acting against my true nature.
I wanna say I am sorry the next minute but I can't.
Am I seek? or Should I blame my mother for missing something out when I was a kid?

2007-04-03 20:52:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My man is really mad at me and I do want to get married! we are just broke how do I get to ATL fast? He asked me to learn Italian so havent learned enough.

2007-04-03 20:32:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I quarrelled over small matter. After then, he did not look me up for 2 months already (I'm staying at my mum's place now). I did called him up one month ago, asking him what he actually want. He did not say much and hang up the phone. I start paste thinking guessing during these 2 months did he ever betreat me. What he want now? A divorce? or want me to call him again? I dont know what should I do now. I keep thinking our problem day and night. I couldn't fall asleep. I intend to file a divorce but i scare will hurt my son. How? What can I do now?

2007-04-03 20:02:31 · 11 answers · asked by hbg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so this one guy likes me...but doesnt ask me out. i'm NOT gonna ask him out....so how do i get him to do it?

2007-04-03 20:00:47 · 24 answers · asked by Alie 1 in Singles & Dating