Ok so this one guy likes me...but doesnt ask me out. i'm NOT gonna ask him out....so how do i get him to do it?
2007-04-03 20:00:47 · 24 answers · asked by Alie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe he dont want to ask you out.. maybe he just wants to be a friend..
2007-04-11 19:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Wait Don`t Get Yu`r Hopes Up... If He Still Doesn`t Ask Then Make A Signal That Yu` Wanna Go Out...
2007-04-04 03:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mary Jane D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him in a group situation, like "me and a couple of friends are going to this movie or party you wanna come? this way you will give him a chance to know you are interested and it won't be as forward as inviting him out alone on a date. and it will give him a chance during the group outing to make the next date. if he doesn't then maybe there is a good reason, like a gf already tucked away somewhere. just give it up.
2007-04-04 03:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by jewelmatch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does a guy have to ask a girl out?!?? It's no longer the 1900's! You can ask him out...maybe he's shy and doesnt want to make the first move. What have you got to loose???
ASK HIM OUT!
2007-04-04 03:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by d_khar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is 2007. If you want something and you don't go for it, you will probably lose it to someone that does. Don't be afraid of taking a chance. Nothing was ever gained by sitting back and watching an opportunity pass you by. Be brave. Good Luck!!
2007-04-04 03:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really sure that he likes you then tell his friends to convinse him to ask you out. If nothing happens then maybe you should take a chance and ask him even though you dont want to. If you dont want to ask him in person send him a note that you like to go out sometime!
2007-04-11 20:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him there is an event going on this weekend ( find out about a party, concert, whatever) and tell him your friends are busy. Stop there . If he doesn't ask to take you , he is just not too bright.
Good Luck
2007-04-04 03:04:44 · answer #7 · answered by Georgie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, ask him out. Asking us how to make him ask you out... Not even one date yet and you seem to be playing games... Not a good way to start. If you don't want to stick your neck out, imagine how guys feel, they are "supposed" to be the ones to do it all the time, that's not fair... If he's worth it, ask him out...
2007-04-12 01:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him very casually and in a friendly gestive way, "call me sometime".
or "I'm going to the movies, wanna come?"
Guys are shy about these things sometimes and they need a little assurance to help them out.
2007-04-04 03:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
set your pride aside and ask him out. stop being so lame... you must still be in high school if you are over thinking this much. welcome to the real world, if you like him and he does like you as well, don't wait around for him to do it. especially if he's too shy or what not. if one of you doesn't step up he WILL eventually just move on.
2007-04-04 03:07:57 · answer #10 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DROP LITTLE HINTS LIKE I HAVE BEEN WANTING TO GO SEE THIS MOVIE BUT DONT WANT TO GO ALONE OR I HEARD ABOUT THIS GREAT RESTUARANT BUT DONT WANT TO CHECK IT OUT BY MYSELF AND SEE IF THAT GIVES HIM THE ENCOURAGEMENT THAT HE NEEDS TO GO AHEAD AND ASK YOU. HE MIGHT SAY HE WOULD GO WITH YOU AND THEN YOU CAN GO FROM THERE. IF THAT DOESNT WORK THEN JUST SIMPLY ASK HIM IF HE'D LIKE TO GO TO A MOVIE
2007-04-11 12:47:55 · answer #11 · answered by flipfloplover44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋