Right well, last year i met a guy on the internet, Ive seen him on cam.. we've sent things to eachother so i know hes not a pedo.
Anyway we went out in june and he broke up with me 4 months later claiming he dident love me but he still wants to be friends. Why say Yes to me when i asked him out? i know your probarbly thinking whats a girl doing asking out a guy but he was too shy.. He said yes to me. He was smiling all the time and he even came back 1 night and said he could hardly eat anything because he was thinking of me. We are still friends and we seem to be getting on really well. Were always laughing and joking, he trusts me, he smiles with me.. I still love him and ive tried everything in the book to try and let him go but i just cant.. I know there has to be somthing still there..
Im being myself around him and i seem to make him laugh alot. We have the same interests too, I asked my friend sabrina to ask him what he liked about me. He said i was cute funny and cool. So how?
2007-04-03 21:25:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cute, funny, and cool-- but do you have anything in common? Do you like any of the same things? What can you build a relationship on? oh one more thing-- NEVER send a friend to ask personal questions.
2007-04-03 21:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cute, cool, funny--that is what you base a relationship on?? How old are you??? Love??? you love what??? He is fun and you laugh?? That's what you love??? How old are you two?? If you can be friends and keep it light--fine--but constant BS about a relationship that is over and done with--that's out and knock it off. You sound like you better find something else to do besides sitting on a computer with this guy...got homework to do?? Find a young man with self confidence that can take you out, have fun, be respectful, enjoy a nice time and then get on with your lives----A deep relationship is made of words you have never used or heard of--get informed and start looking for men with dignity, manners, a job , integrity, respect, caring, communication skills--tolerance, support, --GET WHAT I AM SAYING ???--these internet geeks are hiding behind a keyboard--they aren't mature or grounded---find a man!!
2007-04-03 21:37:09 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're just his type of friend, not girlfriend. I also have people I have fun with and laugh a lot, that doesn't mean I love them. Or maybe you look better on cam than in real life and he liked more to see you in your room than on the road. Well, who knows? But if he said he didn't love you, that's it. He trully meant it, so live with it and be a friend only. Don't act like a desperate, no guy or girl likes desperate friends trying to be lovers. I personally detest if any of my friends claims he loves me and wants smth more than friendship. I cut it right away and keep him on my permanently offline list.
2007-04-03 21:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main question is, do you want him back? Seriously, maybe you guys are just not meant to be.
2007-04-03 21:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Emma E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT!! Have patience.. Continue the friendship and one day it will turn to love... Don't smother him.
2007-04-03 21:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him out again.love is worth fighting for.
2007-04-03 21:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by kidscorpio 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋