Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

I fell out with my close female friend-we didn't speak for 4 months.(We got too close-I wanted a break,never a couple)We have patched things up slightly(she said we are still friends) and are barely on speaking terms!Only communicate via email-rarely though!

1.Her best friend has recently got in touch with me via Facebook-she wanted to add me as her friend! Considering that I fell out with her BEST MATE - IS THIS ODD?

We've exchanged 3 emails in a few hours, asking me how I am, what I'm upto - also suggested we can all meet up in a group and she said it'll be good to catch up! Her mate that I fell out with wasn't mentioned once!(Am sure she knows everything that happened bwt me and her mate).I hardly know her mate!(ONLY SPOKE TWICE!)

2.Why get in touch now? WHY WOULD HER MATE WANT INFO ABOUT ME-HOPING I MENTION HER?

3.Why is she being friendly/nice towards me - WHILE HER MATE (the one I fell out with) DON'T SPEAK TO ME???

2007-04-02 23:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i met this girl last summer and we automatically clicked and was attracted to eachother, the only problem was that she lived in another country and she was going back. Anyways she left and went back and we started speaking to eachother on the phone. We grew a relationship over the phone very fast in the space of 8 months, she told me how she could see herself marrying me and she even named kids she wanted to have with me in the future,and from then we talked about dating because she's coming back this summer to live here in america. Well the phone conversations were getting shorter and then we started chatting on msn and then all of a sudden jealousy started coming between us and now she has a boyfriend because she claims i made her do it because she was hearing things about me and i also found out she liked him before they dated and i said hurtful things to her. She still tells me she wants to be with me when she comes but now she ignores my messsages and claims to be busy with work.

2007-04-02 23:44:26 · 7 answers · asked by mr discreet 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 23:44:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't do that. I respect my hubby's privacy , i have never checked his e.mails either and would be very upset if he checked out mine. I like my privacy and therefore find it unthinkable that people can even think of doing that, UNLESS, they feel they have good reason to.:)

2007-04-02 23:34:38 · 22 answers · asked by Duisend-poot 7 in Singles & Dating

plz !!!
make it fast !!!
through chatting which is the best chatroom for finding good girls or website (like orkut)

2007-04-02 23:27:40 · 2 answers · asked by Venkat N 1 in Singles & Dating

or is it more of a threshold thing?

2007-04-02 23:10:19 · 17 answers · asked by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend is coming round tonight and she has something to tell me. Usually this means she has done something bad and recently she has been flirting lots with this guy lets call him M. My friend has a boyfriend lets call him R who is also my friend. My friend has broken up with R before and snogged M while they were broke up. Anyway last night we had an all girls night in and my friend got drunk and she kept ringing M. I think when I left she might have done something cause I asked her to text me later and she never did (which is odd). Anyway its a very special birthday for R in 2 weeks and if she has cheated on him it will spoil his birthday what can I advise her if she tells me this?

2007-04-02 23:09:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I love life. People tell me I have a great sense of humor and generally a good person. I'm not especially pretty, but not ugly either. I don't normally whine - tonight is the exception. So what is so very wrong with me that no guy is even remotely interested in getting to know me? I'm tired of being alone.

2007-04-02 23:05:10 · 7 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Singles & Dating

he's studying a lot this time because he has to sustain a very difficult exam...so we don't spend too much time together... what can i do when we are seeing each other?!

2007-04-02 23:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my partner of 3 years broke up last night. I initiated it and i'd been thinking about it for a while, but it hurts so bad. I took for granted that I could kiss and hug him whenever I wanted and now that I can't, it feels terrible. I do still love him but there was no sexual attraction and I was more attracted to other men. I now have to sleep in a different bed, and I hate that I won't be able to reach over and hug him. I love him but I don't have any physical attraction. I just want the affection and love. What do I do???

2007-04-02 22:57:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to get someone to fall in love w/ u???

2007-04-02 22:56:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u paid a visit at ur bf's office and u saw on his desk a souvenir that his ex-gf gave him a long time ago, wat wil ur reaction be??will u be mad?

2007-04-02 22:49:13 · 11 answers · asked by a_girl_from_ipanema 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 36 and have been with a 20 year old for the last year. we get along great but i wonder if we really have a future together. he will turn 21 in May and we do tell each other we love one another but what are the benefits/drawbacks here? do You think it will last?

2007-04-02 22:42:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm getting so sick with this thing called love...no matter what i do or how hard i try to make my relationship work- it's all underappreciated...i'm a beautiful girl wit a really nice personality but for me to find the one guy, i've been through 3 relationships and only god knows how many more...is this world filled with jerks and liars n cheaters?

2007-04-02 22:42:48 · 11 answers · asked by frantic! 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out Sat night with a couple friends. A friend of my buddies came along that I had met a few times. He got really drunk and may have been on something else. He ended up trying to fight like 10 bouncers and a few guys on the street. I tried to settle him down and ended up choking him and slamming him against the concrete and holding him down. He did not apologise for his behaviour. Is this guy ******* nutz? My buddy thinks he may have been on meds. He was acting like he was on coke or something. Should I try to get my buddy to get this guy help?

2007-04-02 22:36:04 · 1 answers · asked by Becker 2 in Friends

on sunday nite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! after vodka frenzy, all i know is i got 3 violation notices!!!!!!!!! ooooops!! sorry if i caused offence to anyone out there

2007-04-02 22:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by oldybutgoody 2 in Family

Before you all get mad and hate me I hate myself.
I have been married to my husband for 8 years we have 2 children together.
When we first got married i kissed another guy when i was drunk and than again when drunk about 4 years ago and than again drunk a year ago (no im not an alcholic).
Well anyway last night i told my husband cause i could not live with the guilt of kissing another man and of course he got angry with me cause i did betray him.
I told him it ment nothing it always happend on a girls night out and to be honest i dont realy know why i let it happen i love my husband very much.
He has said he forgives me but i really think he doesnt and i really want to make it up to him to show him that i would never betray him again and need some ideas on how i can make the situtaion better.
He doesnt want to leave i dont want to leave and we are a happy family i feel really low and bad for kissing other people.
Please help i need to fix my marriage.

2007-04-02 22:27:15 · 34 answers · asked by La diva R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has threatened to take 1/2 the house many times. Since then, he has abandoned me and I cannot even file divorce because I don't know his address so he can be served. What should I do?

2007-04-02 22:22:32 · 10 answers · asked by hydewithpride 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has known his friend for about 12 years and I met them 5 years ago. She and I arent close but we go out as couple friends and she is in the same book club as me. We are in a circle of friends. She is quite thick skinned and blunt.

Last week at one of the other people's house she asked me when I was intending having a tummy tuck. I was feeling quite thin that day and said I wasnt. She went on and on about it as did the other women so I went to chat to my husband and other people. When she eventually came and asked me what the matter was with her hands on her hips I told her that she would be so lucky to look like me in 8 years time as she is younger than me and that if I need plastic surgery then she needs a face lift (which she does).
Anyway we left on a bad note and although I sent her an emial to "clear the air" and apologise for saying that to her I havent heard anything. I feel bad because of the guys.

2007-04-02 22:22:05 · 15 answers · asked by jaygirl 4 in Friends

So, when im with my girlfriend she likes to sit on my lap. Well when she does so I get an erection and its very embarassing. We've decided to not have any type of sex so as days go on I find it harder to keep myself not think about it.

Right now im open to any tips so I just dont think of sex and so that wont happen.

2007-04-02 22:21:21 · 2 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 29 year old single mother of 3. My oldest he is 11, my daughter is 9, and my baby he will be 3 in May. I do everything for my children! Unforgelly they are ungreatful. My major problem is my 11 year old and his mouth. All day non stop always has to have the last word. Mummbling under his breath... or smacking his lips ... I fill like he's telling me F_ _ _ Y_ _. It hurts PLEASE HELP

2007-04-02 22:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by 11 yearold getting out of contro 1 in Friends

does a woman feel bad if her husband younger than her wth 2 years is it a fact or a fake

2007-04-02 21:58:13 · 11 answers · asked by Y! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everybody, i'm a french guy from Toulouse and i would like to be in contact with some american people to learn a little more the American way of life, the country etc....
if somebody is interest, contact me!
have a nice day

(sorry for my english !)

2007-04-02 21:43:37 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet 2 in Friends

2007-04-02 21:40:30 · 16 answers · asked by tinklefaerie88 3 in Singles & Dating

I've always found that non-Asian girls are hesistant to go out with a Chinese guy....even tho I am not the typical Asian guy (I am 5'11, part French and Indian), I've always found girls to be hesistant to go out with Asian guys...why is that?

2007-04-02 21:32:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 21:29:39 · 9 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Singles & Dating

I hate this question...but here's my story...

I met this girl few a months ago, I like her, i dont know if she likes me the same way or whatever and is stayin away from it because well even though we live somewhat close together when at home, she goes to school out of state, so like, what is the point you know? my biggest fear is that if i try to become her good friend, will she only ever see me as that? do i have any chance to become her potential boyfriend in the future or more if i am her friend right now? she wants me to visit her at her college...i mean its amazing how much she texts me and stuff even though she is states away...dont know if shes interested or not...

its funny we hung out and she texted me the same night saying to def come visit her at school, so i dont know what this means or is hinting...does she like me? can we be somethin in the future? i hate figuring it out. i dont want to tell her i like her because i heard thats the wrong way to go. maybe hints are good?

2007-04-02 21:22:33 · 6 answers · asked by Wayne D 1 in Singles & Dating

will he be of my choice or i would be forced upon/

2007-04-02 21:19:09 · 14 answers · asked by Nishi D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So there are other girls trying to flirt also. But I'm sure he's interested in me too. How do I win his attention over the rest of them?

2007-04-02 21:18:31 · 6 answers · asked by sweetlovespell 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife is in her 40s and after 13 years decided I was too old for her. She discovered the bars and being very good looking and resembling a 30 year old, she received more attention than was healthy. She wants to find people her own age and have fun. Is that it for me? Do men my age normally find someone else to share their life with? I like movies, music, acting in local theater. I have my own home, a successful business, and am pretty much free to come and go. Do women find any of that attractive or should I resign myself to being alone? Incidentally, I just found out tonight that the wife is already seeing someone and I feel as if I'm not going to make it through tomorrow. Help

2007-04-02 21:16:02 · 30 answers · asked by homeless_320 1 in Marriage & Divorce