Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

I'm in a current LDR........but my boyfriend never calls anymore, emails, ect. just ignores me. I don't want to end the relationship but i know i have to because of all the ignoring i suspect he's cheating......how do i get over him? i love him alot and am so torn right now (and please no one suggest that i date other ppl because i just don't want to right now)

2007-04-02 15:22:26 · 7 answers · asked by Lula 4 in Singles & Dating

Now, be honest...what you say, stays right here.

1) go rifling through your partners' text messages?
2) read their e-mails?
3) rummaging through your partner's pockets?
4) covertly listen in on your partner's conversations?
5) secretly record you partner's telephone conversations?
6) use web cams or other tracking devices?
7) checking up on your partner by following them?
8) OMG!...All of the Above??

Ok, here's what the Brits do...
http://www.cnn.com/2007/WORLD/europe/04/02/britain.spying.reut/index.html

2007-04-02 15:22:25 · 12 answers · asked by GeneL 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

i broke up w/ my ex and im starting to kind of miss him and think i can deal w/ his annoyingness which is why we broke up but i know i cant man please someone i need tips to focus on the ews of my ex so i can move on. i always end up thinking something bad and then im like well he was so nice klsdfjfdsjkfklsd!!!!! help please

2007-04-02 15:19:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's completely moved on with his life and yet I cannot shake our love no matter how HARD I try. We just had that special magical power to our interaction.. that certain chemistry but with UMPH... that brings out creativity and passion.. the kind Michelangelo used when he painted the chapel.. the kind Robert Browning had when he spoke of his wife, Elizabeth. Will I ever shake him? Does this mean I am sentenced to a life of wishful thinking forever lost in my own thoughts of him? I am so lonely...

2007-04-02 15:18:35 · 25 answers · asked by Jane Doe 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm italian i currently live in united state
why every girl that i meet in everyday life think i'm hot and they will do anything to be close to me but they dont say anything to or they dont give me there phone numbers without me asking for it . they just make eye contact. most of them say to mebecasue i good looking they dont trust me, they say cuz i good looking i cheat on them and so on. and most of them they have lack of self confident. which means they think there ugly when there hot .

is that what all of them think?

2007-04-02 15:18:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't feel that we connect emotionally. He's 3 years younger than me, he's 24 and I'll be 27 this year and he's immature and is doing his best to please me but it's so hard! We're both Christians and want what is best for each other in our lives. I'm not so sure my future is with him but I am sure that I love him. We've been together over 2 years now and we haven't even met each other's parents-he's always got some excuse (shows the immaturity) and I've been wanting to meet his. We live together in Florida his parents in Maryland and my family in Iowa. *sigh* HELP ME! :o(

2007-04-02 15:15:22 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 15:14:02 · 30 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 15:12:07 · 7 answers · asked by exquisitered 2 in Friends

Don't they know that if a man doesn't put a ring on their finger, he doesn't want them to have his baby?

2007-04-02 15:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to try this line out a girl I know, only casually. We are friendly, but not friends. We just see each other from time to time. She'll ask me how I'm doing, and this will be the answer:

Me: I have good news and I have bad news.

Her: What's the good news?

Me: I found the girl of my dreams.

Her: What's the bad news?

Me: It's you.

An attention getter I'm sure. But is it lame? What do you think?

2007-04-02 15:08:18 · 8 answers · asked by boss2U 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy. everyone makes fun of him but i dont care what they say. he is cute to me. we have basicly nothing in comon. except we both are school losers, we are both nice, and we both cant dance. But i dont know if he likes me should i ask him out.

P.S. i dont want my feelings hurt

2007-04-02 15:06:11 · 10 answers · asked by poorprincess94 2 in Singles & Dating

i see this guy daily and am falling for him he is cute, funny ... what do i say to him to get him to notice me ... nothing innapropiate that is wrong to say in a working environment and not hey whats up something past that it is not like i dont talk to him and completly dont know him ... i just want things to go to the next level

2007-04-02 15:05:15 · 2 answers · asked by tyty456 2 in Singles & Dating

For the past three (almost four) years I have been heartbroken over a love that I had had since sixth grade. He had a crush on me then, and I got my first kiss from him in 7th grade. Eight years later, we considered getting married, and we broke up about a month after that. I had known him for eleven years, and it seemed like he just evaporated from my life. Although I have dated frequently since then, it seems like all the people i date are similar to him in personality. My current boyfriend and I are thinking about marriage as well, and I am a bit hesitant about the whole thing, though he is wholly ready. I feel bad that my current boyfriend is not receiving as much pure love as he should be because I continue to think about my first love. Is it true that people never get over their first love, or is there hope for me?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-04-02 15:03:19 · 22 answers · asked by sarasugar 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yrs old, and have never been in a relationship. I am young, but I feel like I can not mentally connect with some people. Im sure it has to do with trust issues and bad instances in the past with friends. I feel like if I cant trust friends, what makes me think I can be in a romantic relationship and build trust. Also most guys I really like dont like me, and the guys that like me I dont like in a romantic way. Apart of me is getting desperate and hopeless. I would like to experience a healthy relationship, and experience vulnerability, love, friendship, and passion. I think for me to experience this I have to just give in, to the next guy that asks me out. Also I can get really shy, and im afraid this puts people off and they see me as akward, or cold.
Am I being dramatic, or are there people out there than can relate, and give advice?

2007-04-02 15:01:52 · 3 answers · asked by happyfeet133 2 in Singles & Dating

My mother was never there for us and left my to raise my two younger siblings. She comes and goes as she pleases these past 10 years. Well now she is back and says it has all changed, wants to be with us again. She done this before and left, so i dont know if i can trust her to even for give her? i believe in second chances but how many after that are you suppose to give?

2007-04-02 15:01:32 · 29 answers · asked by papillongirl 3 in Family

I went to my schools dance with a girl i REALLY liked but shes not allowed to date. I got a little cocky with her sisters friends and told them we were going out. The friends told her sister who told their parents and the girl got in trouble and hates me now. I need a girls advice!

2007-04-02 14:59:07 · 8 answers · asked by steve 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-02 14:58:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the guy i liked found out that i liked him, he doesnt know that i know that he knows. and i have no clue if he likes me back because he doesnt act too different just a little and how can i figure out if he likes me with out asking him straight out " do you like me?" is there anyway to do that? and if he doesnt like me i still wanna be friends with him sooo what would you do with this?

2007-04-02 14:56:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my best friend, we always have such great times together. But she has a habit of putting others down in order to make herself feel better. She does it in a jokey way, so I can't really tell her off. But it is starting to get to me.

2007-04-02 14:55:38 · 10 answers · asked by carmen 2 in Friends

2007-04-02 14:55:19 · 47 answers · asked by LaLaLaa♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

hey guys i appreciate any responses that i may receive.
okay so here is the deal. i've known this girl for about a year now and sometime between then and now, we have become good friends. we used to talk a lot, she would stop by my locker, wait for me, you know, the whole deal. whenever we talked, she would look directly into my eyes and smile. so i wanted to ask her out pretty bad, but my parents are adamant about not letting me date. we are indian, so apparently getting into a relationship would ruin my valedictorian status and whatnot. however, lately, this girl has not seemed too interested in me. she no longer takes the initiative to start conversations, she no longer waits by my locker, no longer looks at me and has a complete conversation. i did ask her out to a dance, but she didnt give me a straight answer. she respondedly vaguely and changed the topic. now she doesnt even say hi, and it seems that i have to start the conversations now. so whats the deal? what should i do?

2007-04-02 14:52:09 · 5 answers · asked by Jason V 1 in Singles & Dating

I jst put on weight recently. I am married for 7 months and since then i have gained weight, very fast.. i am 22 years old.

Since i have a advantage that i am tall.. My fats are not that obvious. But i jst hate myself being big.
I wana lose weight.. Now.. i mean from today.. i am gona take a cup of nescafe and 2 slices of bread for breakfast..Only 2 or 3 types of fruits for lunch and dinner.. No supper.
I reali hope i can workout like for an hr of brisk walking after i have cooked dinner around 9pm plus.
What do u think? Do u think i can lose weight?
By not doing workout and jst continuing on this kind of meals.. Do u think i can lose weight? I think my weight is 73kg and height at 1.73m
i wana go down to 55kg(my old weight wen i was 14 or 15 years old)!!

2007-04-02 14:52:08 · 3 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Your boyfriend is 6’2” 185 lbs of shredded muscle. He makes any Hollywood star look bad. He also earns $1.4 million a year running a hedge fund. Additionally, he has the best personality you have every known. There is a problem. He is somewhat handicapped. He has a 12” meat pipe and the girth of a Slazenger tennis ball can. He wants to be intimate with you. Do you kick him to the curb or say OK?

2007-04-02 14:51:52 · 8 answers · asked by I socket 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys i appreciate any responses that i may receive.
okay so here is the deal. i've known this girl for about a year now and sometime between then and now, we have become good friends. we used to talk a lot, she would stop by my locker, wait for me, you know, the whole deal. whenever we talked, she would look directly into my eyes and smile. so i wanted to ask her out pretty bad, but my parents are adamant about not letting me date. we are indian, so apparently getting into a relationship would ruin my valedictorian status and whatnot. however, lately, this girl has not seemed too interested in me. she no longer takes the initiative to start conversations, she no longer waits by my locker, no longer looks at me and has a complete conversation. i did ask her out to a dance, but she didnt give me a straight answer. she respondedly vaguely and changed the topic. now she doesnt even say hi, and it seems that i have to start the conversations now. so whats the deal? what should i do?

2007-04-02 14:50:42 · 13 answers · asked by Jason V 1 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that a man and a woman will not marry unless they have this "FANTASY LOVE".

When you get somebody pregnant, I say you give up your future right then and there. From now on It's not about screwing some random chic...its about PROVIDING and BEING RESPONSIBLE.

I don't care how many women want to be indipendent and don't need a mans help...but in this situation BOTH the male and female need to take FULL RESPONSIBLITY for the child to ensure that he/she is more sucessfull than the both of you losers.

This is the creed I live by. Of course this isn't the most ROMANTIC thing to do, but the most PRACTICAL.

So answer me this MEN, why do so many of you run out on your chic so you can continue to sow wild oats?

2007-04-02 14:50:35 · 18 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am currently 13 years old and for the past two months, I have been crying every single night. At school, I am always grinning ear to ear and joking and am so relieved when the weekend gets over(because schools back). I stay as long as possible after school, because I dread coming home.

At home, I am always frowning, and my parents are always yelling at me. Sometimes, I feel like I fall into a depression right after I arrive home from school. For the first half an hour its ok; my sister doesnt get home yet. But after that half an hour, I feel like im in hell

I have stopped eating at home, to avoid my family, and am usually locked up in my room. My dad doesnt talk to me anymore because I didnt want to eat that much.

Is it possible that im in a half-depression? I am jolly and happy in school, but sad and frowny at home

2007-04-02 14:50:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

me and my sister are locked out and my sister really needs to use the bathroom. reasons why she cant....
1. were locked out
2. we live near woods in an unpopulated area so not alot of neighibors
3. our parents arnt home

She really needs help (i have my laptop)

2007-04-02 14:48:18 · 20 answers · asked by cutiek 1 in Family

So, we were on his bed watching a movie, just like we always do, and we both just kinda forgot about the movie and started playing with eachothers hands, having a bit of a tickle war (that sort of thing). then he told me my hair smelt good. THEN, 2 weeks later the boy was holding me close and looked into my eyes and said "you are my best friend". Im just so confused about what i should do, because he acts like he likes me as more than a friend, but he says the complete opposite! Help!!

2007-04-02 14:42:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My little brother is 9 years old and I am 13, and his hobby is annoying me. And it always works, and it always amuses him. What can I do to stop him from annoying me?

2007-04-02 14:38:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she nearly sucked me dry during the marriage.

2007-04-02 14:36:07 · 11 answers · asked by just hanging around 5 in Marriage & Divorce