hey guys i appreciate any responses that i may receive.
okay so here is the deal. i've known this girl for about a year now and sometime between then and now, we have become good friends. we used to talk a lot, she would stop by my locker, wait for me, you know, the whole deal. whenever we talked, she would look directly into my eyes and smile. so i wanted to ask her out pretty bad, but my parents are adamant about not letting me date. we are indian, so apparently getting into a relationship would ruin my valedictorian status and whatnot. however, lately, this girl has not seemed too interested in me. she no longer takes the initiative to start conversations, she no longer waits by my locker, no longer looks at me and has a complete conversation. i did ask her out to a dance, but she didnt give me a straight answer. she respondedly vaguely and changed the topic. now she doesnt even say hi, and it seems that i have to start the conversations now. so whats the deal? what should i do?
2007-04-02 14:50:42 · 13 answers · asked by Jason V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow thanks for all the responses guys...i really appreciate it...wow im so damn depressed...i cant even seem to forget her :(
2007-04-02 14:58:02 · update #1
It sounds like she liked you than change her mind.
2007-04-02 14:58:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but this thing happens all the time in Girl World.
People change, and make new friends. While I'd love to have all my friends from 3rd grade still with me, people develop differently at different times, and friends grow apart. I'm not saying that you need to 'grow apart,' I am just saying that maybe she isn't interested in going out with you anymore. There's plenty of other girls out there, and you two could still be friends. Just don't push her too hard, but give her a call, text her, do whatever and maybe you can become closer friends.
2007-04-02 14:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by JM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to no longer manage the area lots. If he does such as you he would be receptive to chatting with you for any reason in any respect. Ask him a pair of type, or if he's in a interest, ask him whilst the subsequent interest is, or how the final one went. point out a mutual pal. something will do, do no longer attempt to be all wonderful, talk with him like all and sundry else, which will supply a greater effective impact which you 'are in his league' and not a wanna be for use and tossed aside.
2016-10-02 02:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by gazdecki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might have thought of you as just a friend and now that you have asked her to a dance she might not want to hurt you because you are what she thinks is a great friend.
2007-04-02 14:58:24 · answer #4 · answered by cat12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah. It sounds to me like she's moved on. I'm really, really sorry because I know how that feels. But if she wasn't willing to wait until your parents would let you date, then she probably wasn't worth your time, anyway.
2007-04-02 14:55:46 · answer #5 · answered by swimmer2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably got sick of waiting for you to ask her out seriously and just gave up. Or she could just be disgusted with you... its wierd...I like a guy for a little while and then I start avoiding him.
2007-04-02 14:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE COULD BE SOMETHiNG GOiNG ON. SHE COULD HAVE KNOWN ABOUT YOU TWO BEiNG TOGETHER WOULD RUiN YOUR VALiDiCTORiAN STATUS SO SHE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO GET iNVOLVED WiTH HER. MAYBE SHE CARES ABOUT YOU THAT MUCH. OR MAYBE SOMETHiNG iS GOiNG ON iN HER MiND BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TELL ANYONE. YOU SHOULD ASK HER iF SOMETHiNGS WRONG OR iF THERE iS ANYTHiNG SHE WOULD WANT TO TELL YOU. : ) THAT WOULD MAKE THE MOST SENSE TO ME
2007-04-02 14:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even do anything. Even if you think you know the answer this this girl's problem, it sometimes takes you by surprise and it will make things worse.
2007-04-02 14:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to ask her what has changed. Maybe she thinks you really have not interest in her.
2007-04-02 14:54:10 · answer #9 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably feels like you're pushing her away and probably for too long so shes trying to move on but go talk to her before its too late and shes gone. good luckk =]]
2007-04-02 14:54:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋