Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

Is it? I think thats an awful thing to marry when you don't love the woman>>>>>>>>>>>>>.

2007-04-02 13:28:29 · 28 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

yes its possible. and i am so lonely i can't even explain the pain. I have tried lowering my standards at guys, but i just can't force myself to go out with some of these people. I know for a fact that 4 guys like, and i don't like either of them. There just no way i can even give them a chance i know it wont work out. How much longer do i have to wait for its driving me nuts? I can't hope for the guys i like cause i know they are way out of my league, but the people who do like me, just have absolutely NOTHING in common with me. I'm not even close with them. What should i do, im tired of having sex with myself, and i am too young to use dating sites. (17). Is there any hope??

2007-04-02 13:27:17 · 25 answers · asked by Colon 2 in Singles & Dating

He forgot our anniversary last year, i got him nice gifts and when i came home he was sitting there clueless. So it totally ruined my mood to celebrate our anniversaries. Do you think I should do something for him this year?

2007-04-02 13:23:19 · 26 answers · asked by beautiful bird 3 in Singles & Dating

if i already told him that i would have sex with him, and he's all happy about it how can i tell him im not ready? i mean i know he'll understand im just scared to tell him. he's been talking about it for a while now and both of us have it well planned out. how?

2007-04-02 13:21:21 · 45 answers · asked by ninacoqueta0817 2 in Singles & Dating

We are set to get married in 12 days. I found (by snooping) emails from him to other women talking about meeting them and getting busy with them. I dont know if he actually did it, but there were plans for him to meet these women and "hang out" and do other stuff with them. I am so sick to my stomach. I don't know if I should confront him or just let it go. I shouldn't have been in his emails anyway. Help me please...

2007-04-02 13:19:47 · 23 answers · asked by Danielle 2 in Weddings

I met a girl through a group of friends that know her. Since then, I see her about 1 or 2 times a week during meals or on weekends. I talk to her but I havent gotten alone time to judge whether she's attracted to me. I also havent had a chance to drop any clues. This has been going on for about a month. What do you think, ask her out or not?

2007-04-02 13:19:00 · 11 answers · asked by elvatoloco2025 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 28 year old woman who just found out a month ago that my husband cheated on me with my younger sister in the past. We have 2 beautiful boys and been together for ten years. There is just so much going through my head right now because i love him so much and trusted him, i never would of thought of this happening i never thought he had it in him. My own family can't believe it, because he was such a great man, i myself can't believe it. Well this is what happend our first child was born in 1999 so this affair started in late 2000 and continued until the middle of 2003. I had my second child in 2002 so this was going on before, during , and after the birth of our second son. I want to fogive him because i do love him and because we have alot of dreams together, but at the same time i feel wrong to even stay with him and kinda get made at myself. I would really appreciate everybodys opinion on this matter it would really help me out. thank you.

2007-04-02 13:17:46 · 27 answers · asked by meow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in love with my female flatmate and i can not tell her anything cause if she's not interested,it will ruin our relationship and we have common friends as well...
Until now i was able to hide my emotions.Recently i've got that vibe(she "touches" me with an "innocent" way) that she's testing me if i really want her.Maybe she wants me as well....
The thing is what should i do in case she asks me something about our relationship straightforward?
Cause i want to be sure that she has emotions for me as well in order to move furthermore

2007-04-02 13:11:43 · 9 answers · asked by dblackjohn 1 in Singles & Dating

When ever I talk to this lady (she is a christian) about stuff she cuts me off right in the middle saying i gotta go when i start bringing up stuff about my situation. Does she do that because she don't wanna hear it or does she really gotta go? After the phone call i always feel aweful.

2007-04-02 13:04:53 · 6 answers · asked by shyhonney 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and i have been married for 10 years. we have been taking care of 2 kids that his ex-wife didnt want for 6 years now &they are 8 and 9) she comes around when she feels like it, which isnt enough. she calls the house when she needs something but never asks about the kids much less to speak to them. about a month ago, she demanded to spend a weekend with her kids. because her request was rare, my husband went ahead and allowed them to go. he said that he knows they want to spend time with their mother and that they would see what type of MOM she really was. when she dropped them off she complained about how we are raising them and them calling me mom. she told them never to call me mom which upset the boys. because i saw how upset they were , i couldnt control myself, i called her and tried to speak nicely. she went off so i told her how bad of a mother she was. this has started a war between her and i. was i wrong to stand up for MY BOYS? my husband supports me.

2007-04-02 13:04:30 · 20 answers · asked by o m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My e-mail friend stopped corresponding after 5 1/2 years. I don't know what I said or did to hurt her. We shared so much...I love a woman I've never seen!

2007-04-02 13:02:49 · 17 answers · asked by blackeagle 1 in Singles & Dating

He threw 2 quarters at me, but he wants them back. Should I give him back the quarters even though he threw them at me?

2007-04-02 13:02:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-02 13:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by prisondoors25 1 in Weddings

girl i like said that she and i were going to have a cat and dog fight but she wanted me to be cat only beacuse she said, she hates cats but she had a cat as a pet. why did she wanted me to be a cat?

p.s when her cat died she was so sad and was crying for days.

2007-04-02 12:53:25 · 2 answers · asked by Showstopper 3 in Singles & Dating

a 21 yr old to date a 16 yr old.... i'm asking if its wrong..not illeagal. i know that it is illeagal.... but age is just a number right?

2007-04-02 12:47:54 · 4 answers · asked by ~Angel Face~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I think its really gross, and my guy wants me to give him oral. I really dont want to. Is there any other alternative?!

2007-04-02 12:46:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my ex of a month has moved on to another girl that he knew i hated....I can tell that they will never be as close as we were......she parties and hangs out with different people....and he is totally not like her at all.....so is he trying to show me something? and how should i act around him if i still have very strong feelings for him?

2007-04-02 12:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 12:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by rashmi 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the 1st 3 things a guy notices when he see's a girl or meets her for the 1st time?

2007-04-02 12:42:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for example: yesterday we just came back from a lovely holiday. today i haven't heard from him all day. i know i can call him for a chat anytime but i do ask myself why he doesn't do it naturally. a lot of couples call each other three times a day. once i tried to ask him about it and he said that he thinks about me but he just doesn't send random text messages etc... and that i could have called him , and he said that i shouldn't play stupid games. he would call me next day...
well i'm not playing games but i sometimes wonder why??

i have to mention that he is not very talkative about his feelings and stuff like that.

do your boyfriends behave like that? or guys do you behave like that and why?

2007-04-02 12:42:07 · 14 answers · asked by petr 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 12:40:24 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to be open with my husband about what makes me unhappy in our relationship. The thing is, I feel like this may come off as being overly critical. I would prefer to tell him how wonderful he is everyday... but wouldn't be honest. I thought we both had the same idea about what being married meant. Now he seems like a different person.

I don't want to be so negative... but how can I tell him what I need from our relationship so that it sinks in?

2007-04-02 12:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by Some Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ladies... guy with muscle, small "member" OR big "member" big gut?

2007-04-02 12:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by Kimberly D 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is indian. We love each other. My parents get along with him just fine...but they don't want their daughter married to an indian guy... to make matters worse, he is somewhat hindu, and they are christian.

He told me his family would prefer him with an indian girl.

What do you guys think? Should i hold on to this relationship? I really love him and im going to college soon. I would like us to continue being so close.

If you are indian, would you marry a black person? Would you let your child marry a black person?

If you are black, would you marry an indian or let your child marry one?

2007-04-02 12:32:51 · 25 answers · asked by chocolate_sateen 2 in Weddings

Hello again friends!!! I did not make it clear.I'm not just looking for my credit report.I'm looking for everything there is about me in this world.I want to know what the world knows about me and why.The who,what when and where.so to speek.I want my history from birth to know.School, birth,car,work,jail,etc.ALL HISTORY.If thay have it I want it. Can you answer that?

2007-04-02 12:32:13 · 1 answers · asked by ahhacowpie 1 in Friends

When I was in high school there were a group of girls that made fun of me because I was fat, nerdy with glasses, and a social outkast. Since now it has been 3 years in high school and I am the man. I now lift weights and wear the baddgest urban wear. I also have alot of women after me. When I went back home I rejected and disses some of those same girls who now wanted me after being mean to me in the past. Is this great revenge?

2007-04-02 12:19:30 · 14 answers · asked by Shawn G 1 in Family

My mom is a single parent of 2 (including myself), never married. I moved out of her house 3 years ago. I live 2 hours away from her. As of January, my half-brother also moved out of the house, only until June, and lives 2-3 hours away from her. Him moving out was hard on her. She'd cry a lot and told me she thinks she depressed. She has thought of going to a doctor for depression pills, which I think is not neccessary.
Now, she comes home from work, to an empty house.
As of November, she has been talking to a guy, 5 years older than me, who lives in India. She called me up last week and told me that she is thinking of marrying this guy, and moving to India to be with him! She has never met this guy in person.
Is she going through a phase? What should I do? Should I tell her that I think she's going through a mid-life crisis? Any thoughts or advice?

2007-04-02 12:18:30 · 27 answers · asked by Red 3 in Family

My husband is a good man. He also has OCD and is a compulsive gambler. Right before Christmas, he hit my 8 yr. old (his step-son). I called the police and he is on probation now because it was a first offense. We are trying to patch things up, but he refuses to admit to his gambling problem. He blames our financial difficulties on me "talking him into major purchases"- which may or may not be true. I think it is really all the "little things" like hitting the drive-thru every night on his way home from work, and the like. He does nothing around the house. His attitude is that he earns the money and I do EVERYTHING else. It is not that I am perfect- far from it, in fact. I know there are things for me to work on, but I am really stuck on this right now, because he wasn't always like this. When we first started dating, he made me feel more loved than anyone ever had-even my parents. I struggle with Major Depression, and that I began to like myself again was a big deal to me.

2007-04-02 12:15:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Husband of 17yrs has clinical depression, he is not happy in relationship but says he wants to stay wih me and work things out.we dont fight and i have tried to be very supportive and loving even though this is very one sided most of the time.We have four children.I love him deeply and dont want to end this marriage.I believe he still loves me but just cant see it through the depression.

2007-04-02 12:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by mareeL 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How many have tried to walk away but were persuaded by their spouse to stay ? Can a marriage survive after one person has attempted to leave ? What if they only stay out of pity ?

2007-04-02 12:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by tenno1234 4 in Marriage & Divorce