Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

I am 26 yrs old and my hubby is 40 have been married 5.5 yrs now getting a divorce.I signed a pre-nup the day before we got married it was handed to me by his lawyer i signed it without reading it.This afternoon i will meet with my lawyer but was warned that fighting a pre-nup could take a long time year or more.He feels that since i do not at present have the means(a job) to fight the pre-nup that i should except the money the pre-nup entitles me too. The pre-nup states that i can keep any gifts from the marriage or personal belonging. Is my attorney taking the easy way out?

2007-04-02 02:20:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 02:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Weddings

2007-04-02 02:09:54 · 3 answers · asked by Joe 1 in Weddings

she is only 14 very immature
she broke up his relationship with her best friend
she thinks they are getting back together
she keeps calling and texting him
he has a new girlfriend who treats him like he should be treated she doesn't hit him like the other one did all the time
she always put him down
she did all the talking never let him say a word unless they were fighting
she always started the fights and then blamed them on him
she has her friends calling to see if they can get them back together
she doesn't know how to take the meaning of the word NO
had her mom take a very provacitive picture of her that she texted to my son
her mom works with Social Services in Child Support and uses her government job to get her daughter out of trouble
my son's best friend didn't like her but now he does and takes her side knowing what she did

HELP

2007-04-02 02:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by stubbornmom2000 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf (who I hope to marry one day), is previously married with 2 kids. He and his former wife had decided they wanted the kids to attend private school about 1 hour away. He told me that he would be willing to relocate or do whatever it took to get them there. This is a prior commitment he made with his x, and thats the way it will be when that time comes if there is no alternative. My problem with this is when we marry don't I get a say in life. Just because he made this prior commitment, shouldn't I still get a say? I mean career changes and private school are big expensive things. I think my opinion should matter, regardless of prior commitments, it will be my life too wont it? Am I totally wrong here, cause that's how he's making me out. He's basically saying we have to pack up and move and I get no say. What if I like my job and house and I don't want to. Is this unfair?

2007-04-02 02:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by Vanessa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A female friend once told me that women are controlled by their hormones and emotions. Would you say this it true ladies?

2007-04-02 02:08:45 · 2 answers · asked by DialM4Speed 6 in Singles & Dating

BF of 5 years proposed 2 weeks ago. Yesterday had an argument over the purchase of a house. I am ok with the purchase, but house needs work. I said that I would like to have put in the paperwork, that IF a divorce or seperation happened I would not take the house, nor be responsible for the mortgage.Yes in a way that is selfish on my part, but I thought it would be good for him, I mean, hes already had 2 divorces & lost everything except the clothes he was wearing. He got mad, told me now we aren't getting married. No big deal been together this long with out it anyway. Anyway, my question is, was I wrong to ask to have that stipulation put into the paperwork? And was it really worth ruining a whole day and half the night over? I would like to thank you in advance for the advise and please dont judge me for not being married, I have also been married & divorced.

2007-04-02 02:01:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

LOOK!I like my best friend.When he came over my friend's house we kissed.Should I ask him out or not I need anwsers quick.

2007-04-02 01:59:14 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

...i saw two sisters on tv that had sexual relations with each other - consenting adults - who cares - if i want 183 wives and 793 concubines who cares if it is all in the open

2007-04-02 01:58:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everytime i ask him what he wants for easter he says that he doesn't care but then he'll ask me what i want and all i say is to spent time with him and he thinks that is so cute but i really need help on what to get him

2007-04-02 01:53:45 · 14 answers · asked by whitt 2 in Singles & Dating

We decided that Sunday would be a day of enjoyment for the both of us and then be on the ball the rest of the week. The only problem was, I could not get him away from the tv. Does this say something about our relationship? We did have some bedroom fun though. I really wanted to go out.

2007-04-02 01:52:43 · 7 answers · asked by just me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell us in 25 words why you are the
most romantic couple and deserve a dream wedding

2007-04-02 01:52:38 · 6 answers · asked by mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know theres the honeymoon stage. where everything is fresh and new but what about in the middle of married life after youve been married 10 years? when kids are in there teens and not ready to leave but able to take care of
themselves.

2007-04-02 01:48:16 · 5 answers · asked by pkuchick 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 01:46:43 · 7 answers · asked by 12evalution 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you where faced with a choice of losing a child or your childs other parent. Who would you choose?

2007-04-02 01:46:36 · 30 answers · asked by superliftboy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am getting married shortly, and i asked my best friend to be the best man. He agreed and all and everything was good, but then a week later he calls and backs out. The reason he did this is because he's to cheap to rent a tux-even though im was going to pay for a plane ticket for him to come to the wedding (its in another state). I told him i would do this when i asked in the first place. This guy is a teacher, and i dont care what anyone says, teachers make alot of money so he can definetly afford it. I think he also might be jealous, but could i get some reactions as to what you think this?

2007-04-02 01:45:35 · 23 answers · asked by Son of the bunboy 1 in Weddings

If you could go back to one point in your life and change something you did wrong would you(not knowing if it might change everything good that has happened to you since then)?

2007-04-02 01:44:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am sixteen and Ihave a boyfriend who really wants to have *** but I really dont want to just yet! He keep going on about the fact I might not like him, but I just dont really want to get to close to him yet. What should I do?

2007-04-02 01:41:05 · 55 answers · asked by Hollz 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are happy, we are in love, we enjoy being together, we don't want to do anything stupid to upset our relationship...

But I know that we won't last forever.

My question is, is it wrong to stay with someone you don't think you will spend the rest of your life with? Is the 'til death us do part' what we're meant to be looking for? Is the fact that I can't see us being for years and years a bad omen for our relationship in itself like friends keep telling me?

Lx

2007-04-02 01:40:36 · 13 answers · asked by Lauren A 3 in Singles & Dating

It's so hard to find a good man now a days...Fellas when you have a good woman why do you go out looking for someone else?? You say you want a freak in the sheets and a lady in the streets, but how true is this? When a woman show you she can provide all your needs why look else where???

2007-04-02 01:36:50 · 17 answers · asked by kaharie96 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 01:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Just say you both talk all of the time and then he doesn't talk to you for a few weeks, and then starts talking again could this man be attracted but too scared of what might happen if he lets his guard down?He is friendly and outgoing and single and i am of legal age.

2007-04-02 01:20:41 · 4 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 01:16:38 · 9 answers · asked by Philip P 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't trust my female friends when it comes to fixing me up with someone. Chances are she is going to be a hot mess with a 'good personality'. I'm ALOT shallower than that, I'm only interested in someone who looks hot. Is it polite to ask for a photograph before I consent to this fix-up?

2007-04-02 01:14:00 · 3 answers · asked by tenbadthings 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for a couple of months and for several reasons it's not been going very well. Then 2 weeks ago we had a huge argument over the phone and I told him I was going to finish with him. He phoned me the next night very late drunk out of his mind saying he was cutting himself and that he was going to slit his wrists if I finished with him as I'm the only good thing in his life. Stupidly I took him back. We haven't seen each other since but we were supposed to be meeting up a few days ago then at the last minute I had to change my plans. Again he phoned me the next night, drunk and said he was cutting himself as he thought I was rejecting him. I really really want to end this but I'd feel to blame if anything did happen to him. This guy is seriously scaring me. Please give me some advice I don't know what to do

2007-04-02 01:13:26 · 38 answers · asked by jane w 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, a girl wants a nice guy. He can't be too nice. He has to take charge. He can't be controlling. He has to listen. He has to ignore. He has to be there. He can't always be there. I'm trying to figure out how to be a well-rounded guy that will attract the right girl by not being too nice, yet someone who cares and not a jerk, someone she would know would be able to protect her, a listener yet not a listener. I don't even know what is is exactly I'm trying to do. I know not to be desperate, clingy, to be confident, and such. I want to be someone who can cause the girl to chase me for once.
I'm 17. I can't seem to find a good girl at my high school. Either that, or I don't know how to have a conflicting/complicated enough personality to attract her.

2007-04-02 01:13:06 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this guy for like a month now. He is a sweetheart, he says and does all the right things how can I tell he is liking me? For real, for real...

2007-04-02 01:11:21 · 4 answers · asked by tiarawright2008 5 in Singles & Dating

i have had so many problems with my mum. and she was warned by the department of child safety that if she bash another one of us children we would be taken off of her. and then 2 years later she bashes me. what do i do. i have told the cops and i m now in foster care.

2007-04-02 01:09:58 · 11 answers · asked by SXC KRISTEN 1 in Family

We are planning to get married and since we are both working he asked me to give up my career for us to live together. My workplace is quite far from him...

2007-04-02 01:09:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 01:06:35 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating