Family & Relationships - 2 April 2007

2007-04-02 06:51:23 · 26 answers · asked by shybug 21 1 in Singles & Dating

My mother is Unfit to take care of her children. They are ages 10,9 and 6. She and my stepfather divorced and even though he was severly disabled he provided them with a good stable life and they remained almost solely in his care. The courts awarded them joint custody just because of his disability but would not award her full custody under the GAL verdict that she is "mentally unfit". Unfortunately my stepfather with whom i was very close to passed away last month. Since then she has continued to live in a horrible lifestyle with the children. She lets her boyfriend sleep in their house, she doesnt cook them meals or buy food, she has no job and is irresponisble over all. She is 37 yrs old. I am 20 and due to her inability to raise children properly i spent a good part of my teenage years raising them myself. All of them have stated they would rather live with me and i dont feel she could give them a decent life. Is it possible for me to get custody of them?

2007-04-02 06:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by Sanctum 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for example their eyes,face,butt,etc.

2007-04-02 06:49:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys do you hate it when girls have a poor self image or low self asteem??? like if the are really pretty but they don't think they are...do you prefer she be super confident?

2007-04-02 06:49:15 · 9 answers · asked by forget_me_not 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married in an extremely small ceremony (parents, brothers & sisters). We were going to have an actual wedding this summer to celebrate with family & friends and I bought a gorgeous wedding dress and purchased the bridesmaid dresses for my bridesmaids. The wedding got canceled for various reasons & now I don't know what to do with my dress. I don't really want to sell it on e-bay b/c I'm not a fan of e-bay. Ideas please?!!!!

2007-04-02 06:48:41 · 7 answers · asked by Mommy of Isaiah & Kenzie 2 in Weddings

I have never really had a roommate before, my boyfriend lives with me but I don't really consider him a roommate even though he pays bills, but my question is how should the bills be divided and is it a bad idea to have my best friend move in?

2007-04-02 06:47:17 · 2 answers · asked by Hootinannie!! 1 in Friends

My friend started dating this creep in her first year of college now she's in her second year and he started acting all weird and when he met me he kept staring at my chest(beleive me I am not lacking in that certain are of my body,defininetly not).Then two days later he broke up with her and I quote stated "sorry but I just don't like girls who are so unshapeley"he really is a creep,but did they break up because of me?

2007-04-02 06:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Isabella B 2 in Friends

i have been dating my boyfriend for almost 10 months now, and we both know that we love each other a lot. however..he has no job and he never does any work for school..but he never has time for me! his parents are super strict, so he does have really shortened curfews on both weekdays and weekends..and he goes to his moms house every other weekend (and she lives a half-hour away). when he does have free time, he spends the bulk of it with his friends. when he spends a few hours with me each WEEK, we only do sexual stuff. we started off as really good friends, but now i feel like im just someone he chooses to see whenever he wants to be pleasured.
we've only been on one date out of these 10 months, and i feel like i do all the work..even calling just to say hello.
what do i do? every time i talk to him, he just mindlessly agrees and doesnt change his behaviors...i dunno anymore.
please help! i dont wanna give up on him but i feel like i need to do SOMETHING!

2007-04-02 06:42:01 · 20 answers · asked by niki 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 06:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it okay to date a younger guy if you're leaving for college next year?! HELP ME OUT

2007-04-02 06:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl in 1984 when I was 16, she being 14. We stayed in touch off and on over the years. In 2000 she contacted me and we started talking daily and within a month we both told each other how we had really felt about the other all these years. We finally realized that our hearts belonged together and we agreed to meet after 15 years. We shared a wonderful 6 month long distance relationship together before she walked away. In 2006, nearly 3 years not talking to her she calls me up and tells me how she made a mistake and that she knows that we belong together and she wants to leave her husband for me because she truly loves me. February she left him and came to stay with me for 3 weeks before he talked her into coming back. 2 weeks ago she left him again for me but went back after he begged her. She says she feels guilty for hurting him but wants to be with me and if she could leave him without him hurting she would be gone so fast. Do I wait for her or what? She is my true love!

2007-04-02 06:37:17 · 20 answers · asked by Stressing Out 1 in Marriage & Divorce

About 2 years and a half ago I met Danny (My Boyfriend). We really hit it off right away. I really liked him. 4 months after being with him, we decided to move in together (I know too soon). Well anyways, it was wonderful. We decided that we both wanted to have a baby. So we tried for like 5 months and I never became pregnant. We thought we couldn't get pregnant so we forgot about it. But in May, I found out I was pregnant. It was the best news I had ever received in my life. I was 17 back then now i'm 19. Well neways, while i was pregnant, he would go out with his friends a lot. BUt I mean a lot!!! I found out he cheated on me several times, but i never left him because i loved him. According to him, he had changed already, so i believed him because i noticed. My baby was born last year on Feb. 01, 2006. I definitely thought my boyfriend was being faithful to me. But just now, last thursday, March 30 2007 I found out that he would talk to other girls. I have one of those girls for

2007-04-02 06:35:39 · 4 answers · asked by Daniella C 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that I am interested in and he was in me. He told me that he is not looking for anything so I came to the conclussion that we are just friends wich I am fine with. But I saw him this weekend and he told me that he needs time before anything can happen between us. I didn't even ask for anything to happen he just said it. I do like the guy and now I am confussed. If a guy really is interested in a girl someone once told me that it dosn't matter what nothing would stop from persuing it. Is he just not that into me?

2007-04-02 06:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Green_eyes 69 3 in Singles & Dating

My fianced is a mama's boy. he makes almost no decisions on his own, and we've just bought a house. This woman has decorated our house (we're paying the bills, not her) from paint to dishes to carpet and flooring. needless to say, I'm pissed, and my fiance doesn't see why. Anyone have any ideas, suggestions? I just don't know what to do to make the situation any different. I am also in counseling for depression and anorexia, and he talked to his mom about that. they decided that i don't need that counseling "because it's expensive and we should put that money towards the house." I'm sick of everything being his mother's opinions, and his mother's thoughts, not his. it hasn't always been like this, only since we bought the house. Any advice would be welcome......

2007-04-02 06:26:30 · 2 answers · asked by little_beth85 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubbys family was having a fight (look at previous question). I told them all I couldn't deal with the stress since I am 32 weeks pregnant and having a difficult pregnancy. So... My father in law decided to tell my brother in law that I said I got sick last time I ate at their house and that their house is a mess. I never said those things. I can't figure out why he would try to put me in the middle of his BS. My sister in law (married to my brother in law) and I are very close so she asked me about it. I was glad she came to me and didn't just assume he was being honest but now I am so angry at my father in law. What would you do about it? How would you deal with it? I live across the street from him so I have to face the issue but I don't want to add any extra stress on myself by telling him what I think of the BS. How do I handle it nicely without telling him what I think of him? Thanks for any help.

2007-04-02 06:25:48 · 12 answers · asked by Mrs. Always Right 5 in Family

wondering the norm....

2007-04-02 06:24:10 · 6 answers · asked by shoebettysue 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in Singapore in Jul.. What does my mum need to buy for me? What do we need to prepare? What's the normal number of tables that we should ask for? Can someone tell me the norms for a Chinese Singaporean bride?

2007-04-02 06:22:42 · 4 answers · asked by i am who i am 2 in Weddings

My wife and I were on our way home from a family dinner yesterday. 1/2 way though the drive home, my wife proclaimed that she had gotten her period and started yelling at me to 'step on it' so we could get home sooner.

I started going a bit above the speed limit trying to get her home when I noticed an officer behind me. I was pulled over and he asked why we were going so fast.

I explained to him the humiliating situation of my wife having her period and even went so far as to show him the stained seat. He didn't care and kept us there another 30 minutes while doing a background check on me and my marker plates.

Needless to say, in this 30 extra minutes the seat was stained a great deal more.

Had this officer not been so RUDE to keep us there for 30 extra minutes I could have probably just cleaned it up with a sponge...now, I'm going to have to have the seat professionally cleaned.

The ticket cost me 300.00 and I'm going to plean not guilty..am I right in doing so?

2007-04-02 06:21:22 · 27 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 06:21:01 · 3 answers · asked by littlelibbylue4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-02 06:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by littlelibbylue4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my b/f have been togther for 3 years...he has a groupd of 5 close guy friends and we hang out with them every weekend, those guys have become my best friends...well when me and my b/f are alone togther i think he forgets im his g/f he will somtimes treat me like one of the guys. it's werid he will do things that a girl wouldnt like and i have to say hey im your g/f.. what can i do to remind him im his girlfriend and best friend. i hope this made sense (=

2007-04-02 06:19:07 · 5 answers · asked by Lovley 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to find the right man and I don't want anyone to get hurt while I am seaching for Mr. Right. After a first date the other day I knew he was not right for me... He keeps calling and I have told him I am very busy.... I don't think that is good. Do I just come out and tell him? What should I say?

2007-04-02 06:16:17 · 6 answers · asked by dawndelight 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and i'm a little concerned about our sex life....

When we first got together we only spent the weekends together, so we would have sex about 3 or 4x's on the weekend. When we got more serious and spent time during the week we had sex a little more than that...

I have mostly been the initiator of sex and as time goes on it seems that we have sex less. We live together for a year now and have sex like every other week... I don't really initiate anymore and he does in the most sublte ways that it doesn't really turn me on to really get into it and we end up having quickies.

We've both gained a weight since we got together and I think that plays a factor although he says he is still attracted to me ...our romance has also declined.

Are we both being lazy and is this normal to go through this in a realtionship? We have a baby on the way now and we don't want it to get worse. Any good advice?

2007-04-02 06:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well this guy have been liking me for a really long time but hes a player and he also likes my best friend and he wants to go out with both of us so i said no before. and this year hes still bothering me and he changed for me and i really started to like him. but just when i liked him this other guy i liked 2 years ago was in my class and those feelings cam back but ppl say that he liked this other girl so i went out with the player and things were good but he didnt like it when i talked to guys and he was so protective. and one day i the guy i liked before old me that he liked me 2 years ago the same time when i liked him so later on i wanted to know so i sked him if he still liked me and i told him that i still liked him and he felt the same way i was so happy and the other guy or player wasnt good for me he was just so fake around me and he acted like he was the only guy for me so when i was gonna break up with him he made ascuse of saying that i was cheating on him.

2007-04-02 06:12:35 · 16 answers · asked by hoppz5 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me what I've done what was truely motivated by love and had a benefit for him.

2007-04-02 06:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by Schmetterling 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm heading to BKK soon.. just needed some advice on how the workmanship and quality of work is there... Makeup? Does it make me look like a drama mama? Anything I should look out for?

2007-04-02 06:10:29 · 4 answers · asked by i am who i am 2 in Weddings

Ive been crushing hard on this boy at my youth group for 2 years, he has had a girlfriend for 1...lately he hasnt been with her but i know they work together and his brother said they spend every waking second together..i want to talk to him..not about this but about like music or something since its something we both enjoy. How do i spark up a conversation with him when hes with his friends? And from the way it sounds do you think they will last? Hes 18 shes almost 18. I just cant let go. I know its what i should do..and i dont like the way she treats him. She has him on a 2 inch leash. He does everything she commands....what do you think?

2007-04-02 06:10:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-02 06:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it?

2007-04-02 06:08:28 · 19 answers · asked by Kier22_2 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-04-02 06:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by I LOVE WIGGERS 1 in Marriage & Divorce