me and my b/f have been togther for 3 years...he has a groupd of 5 close guy friends and we hang out with them every weekend, those guys have become my best friends...well when me and my b/f are alone togther i think he forgets im his g/f he will somtimes treat me like one of the guys. it's werid he will do things that a girl wouldnt like and i have to say hey im your g/f.. what can i do to remind him im his girlfriend and best friend. i hope this made sense (=
2007-04-02 06:19:07 · 5 answers · asked by Lovley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i still dress nicely, i show some clevege (= ware purfume..all that.
2007-04-02 06:28:57 · update #1
Do romantic things for him that his friends wouldn't do. For instance, next time you're sitting around with his friends watching a game or something, wear very sexy lingerie under your jeans and teeshirt. Then the moment you are alone again after the boys part ways, whisper that you have something to show him and he should come and get it. Stuff like that.
2007-04-02 06:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Lucky♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all you shouldn't be hanging around with him and his best friends. When he is with his friends he should be with them, that's his time. So my advice to you is that he got so use to you hanging with him and the boys that you doesn't know what to do for you know. But you can start acting like the person you use to be when you guys got together. Also hurry before it's to late to turn back. You guys sound like an really trusting couple who can feel really comfortable with one another. Bring sexy back and get on the ball as his sexy hot girl. That will let him see who you really are.
2007-04-02 13:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sasay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost your way, not him. Get back to what attracted him to you in the first place. Find your own friends, and when he decides to disrespect you, just let him chill....alone....if he doesn't get a gentle reminder, then he is out of control, not you. Stick to your guns...I don't like being a girl buddy either if I have to endure the crudeness...I am, and will always be a rough and tough lady, but on my terms.
2007-04-02 13:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly! Perhaps you will have to stop acting like "one of the guys". Dress like a girl, wear sweet smelling lotion, do your hair...not every day but at least when it's just the two of you. good luck
2007-04-02 13:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by HeavenlyAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By telling him straight what behavior you expect from him. Scold him a little and show him you're upset. Never allow to be treated like that again.
2007-04-02 13:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋