There is a guy that I am interested in and he was in me. He told me that he is not looking for anything so I came to the conclussion that we are just friends wich I am fine with. But I saw him this weekend and he told me that he needs time before anything can happen between us. I didn't even ask for anything to happen he just said it. I do like the guy and now I am confussed. If a guy really is interested in a girl someone once told me that it dosn't matter what nothing would stop from persuing it. Is he just not that into me?
2007-04-02 06:32:38 · 8 answers · asked by Green_eyes 69 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are a lot of "X" factors. You really don't know what totally going on in this guy's life. I've had instances where I've like a girl but I just got out of a sour relationship and needed time before jumping into another one. Sometimes you must be patient and realize it is for the best. Rushing into a relationship pre-maturely is the best way for a quick demise.
2007-04-02 06:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but guys just aren't as complicated as you girls.
When a guy says he's not looking for anything serious, he means it. There's no hidden messages or anything. The fact that he saw you again means that he's been thinking about what he said, and he thinks you're thinking the same way. Thus is where the "I need time" speech comes in.
Bottom line, if a guy shows interest in you then he's interested. He's not gonna mess with your mind like women can and oftentimes do. And the line about guys persuing a girl no matter what is false. Sometimes its just not worth it.
2007-04-02 13:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through something very similar. I need the answer to this one too!! I just get confused because we feel the same way about one another but he wants to go slow and he has a lot going on right now. I don't know what to do either.
2007-04-02 13:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by dierksfriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's into you but just still want to "date" (hangout).. sounds like he has something on the side he needs to get out the way before getting into a committed relationship. guys usually feels unease trying to get into a new relationship when there's too much going on around him. be patient.. he likes you but give him time.
2007-04-02 13:38:11 · answer #4 · answered by "Dr. Feel" 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not that he not in to u i had a friend that really liked this guy and he liked her too but he was just so pressured that he had to tell her that he didnt like her so give him time theres just other things on his mind. but if it seems like hes not into u dont be down another guy will come around.
2007-04-02 13:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by hoppz5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to hurt your feelings, but it seems to me he is not interested in you, he probably is under the impression you are interested in something more than just friendship, so instead of hurting your feelings, he is just stalling.
2007-04-02 13:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not interested in a serious relationship, so explore your options somewhere else.
2007-04-02 13:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt that he isnt into you. he just need more time to think it over about what he should and should not do.
2007-04-02 13:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Ki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋