well this guy have been liking me for a really long time but hes a player and he also likes my best friend and he wants to go out with both of us so i said no before. and this year hes still bothering me and he changed for me and i really started to like him. but just when i liked him this other guy i liked 2 years ago was in my class and those feelings cam back but ppl say that he liked this other girl so i went out with the player and things were good but he didnt like it when i talked to guys and he was so protective. and one day i the guy i liked before old me that he liked me 2 years ago the same time when i liked him so later on i wanted to know so i sked him if he still liked me and i told him that i still liked him and he felt the same way i was so happy and the other guy or player wasnt good for me he was just so fake around me and he acted like he was the only guy for me so when i was gonna break up with him he made ascuse of saying that i was cheating on him.
2007-04-02 06:12:35 · 16 answers · asked by hoppz5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have to ask that question then yes
2007-04-02 06:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by Courtney S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pretty jaded on the subject of players. Once a player, always a player. Per your statement, he sounds pretty jeolous and insecure - kinda like you've been accused of cheating before.
However, you were playing the game when you expressed interest in someone when you weren't single. Cheating isn't just s*x, it's desiring someone else when you are not single.
Does it really matter anyway? Just don't play the game on this new guy.
2007-04-02 13:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may have shared emotional stuff with the old guy, maybe too much, usually called an emotional affair and it depends on a few things. He could think it was cheating. But then again, it might be that he just wanted to blame you for the break-up. Hard to tell with the info you gave.
2007-04-02 13:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm guessing that you're young....it doesn't sound like cheating to me...just trying to find who you're most compatible with. It sounds like he's just a little bitter that he did not take advantage of the opportunity that he had and that someone else won! This is life sweetie! Enjoy getting to know more about this guy you really like and don't let the fact that someone else says they like you change your mind or effect your feelings for someone when things are otherwise going good!!
2007-04-02 13:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you didnt cheat on him. Though about someone else, yes, but you didnt cheat on him. I think this player guy sounds like a total jerk and he will only try and controll you. You are a possesion to him, his possesion. And that is not fair to you.
I am excited for you about this other guy. You should definately hook up! Good luck!
As for the other guy, you are too good for him. Dont waste your efforts on him, put your energy into the other.
Have a good day!
2007-04-02 13:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's cheating. You should have told your boyfriend that you weren't interested before you asked the other guy if he still liked you. By staying his girlfriend and telling some other guy you liked him and asking if he liked you back, you cheated. Maybe not physically, but definitely emotionally.
Maybe the ex boyfriend wasn't good for you, but you should've let him know that before you moved on to someone else.
2007-04-02 13:19:23 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... a big paragraph like that with no punctuation is really difficult to read...
But, if you didn't do anything sexual with the guy while you were dating the other guy, then you didn't cheat. Talking to another guy isn't cheating. Also, if you're breaking up with the guy, why would you care if he says your cheating? You know the truth, so what he says doesn't matter.
2007-04-02 13:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
asking someone if they like u when ur going with someone else isn't really cheating and wanting to break up with that person and wanting to go out with him is considered cheating either
now if u went out with that other who u liked 2 yrs ago and didn't tell ur boyfriend,the player, now that is considered cheating but u broke up with him and now ur r with the guy who really like u so just ignore ur ex. u should go out with other guy
good luck and best wishes!!!!!!!
2007-04-02 13:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, my dear, should be writing soaps for Hollywood. How simple it is, how complicated you have made it. Getting too much attention tends to swell the ego. Don't hurt your boys. Just carry on. YOu are playing them now. It's not about U anymore, it's about what you fantasize. Stick with Reality, leave them both alone, and focus on higher morals, and sensitivity. AND....have fun also...
2007-04-02 13:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His just hurt that you broke up with him, when a guy is so into you and you go and break up with them they have a panic attack. But no that's not cheating you were just confused about what you want to do. But I Say go for whatever you want and whoever.
2007-04-02 13:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Sasay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the ignorant one for dating someone like the player. Someone that wants to date you and your friend at the same time is considered nothing but low class in my book. Don't bring yourself down to his level.
2007-04-02 13:18:10 · answer #11 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋