Is it okay to date a younger guy if you're leaving for college next year?! HELP ME OUT
2007-04-02 06:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it feels good do it. who cares what anyone else thinks. You can make some good memories to take with you to college. Might even give you something to talk about. When you have to spend all those boring hours studying.
2007-04-02 06:48:06 · answer #1 · answered by Atheist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my own experience so many years ago, I went off to college but was still dating a younger, by two years, girl from my own home town. I have to admit that once I got to college and she was alone as well with all her other friends back home, it made for a stressful time. I would say by Christmas time we both knew it was not going to work in having a "long distance" relationship!
Yet, each person must yield to their own needs and wants how how strong each of you are in hoping to attain a lasting and loving relationship. I so well know of the "absence makes the heart grow fonder" attitude that having someone with you physically is so much more desirable than one who is far away.
If you are asking about dating a younger guy while away at college, then that may suffice in letting him know that it is not a full fledged "couples" relationship and each of you know the limits to such a relationship. You both are still exploring other peoples in your life so trust your heart and be truthful to him, and yourself, in what it is you wish to have in this relationship, even though you two will be separated by distance.
2007-04-02 06:53:13 · answer #2 · answered by Serpico 13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok (depending on how much younger). I'm 4 years older than my husband. Dating a younger guy is nobody's concern but yours (in most cases, depends on how old you are and how young he is before legality becomes and issue)
2007-04-02 06:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by just being helpful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how serious the dating relationship will be, how old the younger guy is, and if you think that your relationship would be strong enough to stand the pressures of relationships in college.
2007-04-02 06:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are mature enough for a difficult relationship, then I would go for it. But if both of you are not EXTREMELY MATURE, then I will just plain be honest with you. It won't work anyway, not now. If your meant to be you 'll hook up later in life when it is more practical.
Enjoy the time you have now, and wait and see what the big guy upstairs has in store for you.
2007-04-02 06:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by riakay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure thing. Your feelings may change for this guy once you are in college and experiencing new things but that is no reason you should not give it a try now.
2007-04-02 06:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by lisagoesshopping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wicked? Maine? New Hampshire or Massachusetts?
you can date anyone you want.
2007-04-02 06:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Fester Frump 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea if you trust him and can be able to be faithful to him. College is more than u know right now, thats where Im at and its crazy. The simplest harmless things can lead to... Well u know what!
2007-04-02 06:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on "how" much younger and if you are honest with the guy that you are leaving in a year
be cool...
2007-04-02 06:43:57 · answer #9 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. How much younger?
2007-04-02 06:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋