Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

My girlfriend says I love her too much. One example is this morning. I text back and forth with her for about 45 minutes and then talked to her for about 10. She said I told her I loved her 3 times. I told her once in a text and once while talking on the phone. When I said I love you before we were to hang up she let out an irritated sigh and said that I tell her I love her too many times and that it is not normal. We have been dating for quite some time and spent many nights with eachother. We have become a part of each others families and shared our desire to get married. Do i tell her I love her too much? Is it possible to tell someone you love them too much if you really mean it? What do you think?

2007-04-05 23:58:40 · 13 answers · asked by kendzerski2 2 in Singles & Dating

I have friends at school..but when it comes to recces .I always walk alone..and be alone at school..the reason why am I being like this is because im afraid that everyone will know that i am a sissy..im a quiet guy at school..I dont talk to strangers and bad people(that I think they might calling me names later on) so Ive decided to be alone..and dont walk with anyone ..because im afraid..history n experience has told me to be this way..can I be this way forever? I used to be talkative,friendly guy and always have friends when it come to recces,school..but now everything changed completely as I found out that im not as normal as everybody...so ive chose to be quiet and a loner guy at school..but at the same time..I hate when everybody call me a lonely n looser with no friends...and I also think that I AM A LONELY GUY..but at the same time I dont want people to call me sissy n names..Arghh what should I do??????????????????????

2007-04-05 23:58:18 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i moved out together around 2 years ago.
Before we moved out, we were at it like rabbits. Since we moved out he has just lost all interest and i dont know why. i've tried talking to him and he says he doesn't know why but he just doesn't want to. What should i do????

2007-04-05 23:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I WAS WITH A MAN FOR 12 YEARS AND HE CHEATED ON ME, SO NOW HES WITH ANOTHER WOMAN. HE STILL WANTS TO BE MY FRIEND, SO HE STILL COMES AROUND TO SEE ME, STILL CALLS ME. THIS HAS BEEN VERY HARD ON ME AND MY 2 SONS. I CANT SEEM TO STOP LOVING HIM, BUT I HATE HER I FEEL SORRY FOR HER CUASE SHE HAS CANCER BUT CANT STAND HER....I HAVE BEEN EVERY DEPRESSED FOR THE LAST 8 MONTHS,, I DONT KNOW HOW TO MOVE ON, CANT SEEM TO GET OVER HIM.. I HAVE TRYED TO HATE HIM BUT THAT DOSNT WORK (IM NOT A HATEFULL PERSON) I DONT KNOW HOW TO GET OVER HIM AND MOVE ON (WE LIVE IN A SMALL TOWN TOO) I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ABOUT THESES FEELINGS, IM NOT TO SURE HOW TO MOVE ON, I DONT GO OUT WITH NO ONE I FEEL LIKE IM CHEATING ON HIM BUT WE ARE NOT TOGETHER.. SO DOES ANYONE OUT THERE UNDERSTAND WHAT IM SAYING?? PLEASE HELP ME ON THIS ONE!!

2007-04-05 23:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well there is this guy that is in a year above me and like i've known him 4 a while but like i dont talk to him anymore. and liek for about 5 months he keeps staring at me and like where ever i go he's always there and when im in a class he turns his head and looks in.. and keeps staring at me the whole time at school and is all around me but we don't talk. My friends have told me that he keeps staring and he follows me and they think that he is stalking me.. i'm kinda freaked out cuz even after skool i see him on his scooter appearing from the middle of now where and goes past me..

so is he stalking me or does he just like me cuz he is constantly staring and i don't know what to do..

2007-04-05 23:46:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my bf 4 months ago. Today I was on my way to work & I didn't take the car as it was a beautiful, sunny weather, and I wanted to enjoy the spring flower-smell and sun rays. Well, I was feeling strange...
I mean enjoying the scenery but very sad.
All of a sudden I saw my ex with his new gf. I said "hi" to them (we still talk to each other as friends).
It's not that I'm still into him, it's just... that I feel so lonely.
All my friends go out with their partners and sometimes I feel a bit down and sad.
I don't know what to do. I'm a prety girl & many guys ask me out, but none of them wants a "real" relationship "or commitment" & I don't like having short-term relationships.
I feel lost.
What should I do?
Please help.

2007-04-05 23:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 23:43:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend and I split up around 2 months ago,and she finished with me due to stress at the time from other things. We still remained friends,but I always wanted more,and tried so hard to get over her. Yesterday, she invited me around her place to watch a dvd and have lunch. We watch the DVD and midway through I find myself holding her hand, and her not pushing me off. Then we play around for a bit, and I end up kissing her, she doesn't pull me away, and we carry on. This goes on for the next hour or so, she says she isn't over me, and misses me and really likes me, i say i miss her and like her too, and that maybe we shud get back together,but a slower relationship this time.she agrees,and i leave later. then i get a message saying that she hates me, that i realised she had feelings for me, and i shud have left it,& not come on to her! / Now i feel stupid,& she says she wants to go cold, as best for all, as her emotions are shattered!

2007-04-05 23:42:10 · 11 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

iam 36 165lbs i have my own home cars motorcycles but i cant find any1 to have a good times as friends . where do i have to look ? Is any1 out there?

2007-04-05 23:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by harley 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm still a virgin, so I dont know!

2007-04-05 23:40:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 23:39:58 · 20 answers · asked by leedsuniteddan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We separated 1 year ago. She was abusive and 1 year ago beat me up. I called up the California police , they opened a criminal felony case. She hired a smart attorney and got away from a sentence. All she got is a attorney 1 year probation after which her charges will be dropped.

I feel that it is not fair for the system to not even punish her for her crime. Now she is coming to rip me off financially. I filed a divorce and she is asking for document, interrogatories etc.

I sometimes feel that how can the whole system be so unfair. I was the one abused in relationship. She did not get any punishment and in a way i am getting punished in financial senses. Any advices on not having to pay a lot in the divorce.
By the way I make 110,000 a year and she makes 30,000.

2007-04-05 23:39:55 · 21 answers · asked by abhinav a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-05 23:37:24 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well my firend has invited me for party but i cant go there because she lives so far from me am going to write a letter to reject her invite but i dont know what should write and how should i start i never was good at writing any help?

2007-04-05 23:36:59 · 7 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

now I have to spend some days together and it's making me sick just to think of it, because I can do nothing, can I?

2007-04-05 23:36:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-05 23:35:49 · 6 answers · asked by himansh_7 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My partner seems to think I should stay in on my own while he works and if he's earning money I shouldnt b spending at the same time. I dont spend a lot to b honest I just like a break now and again to go out and enjoy myself as I look after our son 24 7.! Do you think this is fair??

2007-04-05 23:32:47 · 27 answers · asked by Leesa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew my ex bf for 4 years and due to situation,he married a malaysian in order to stay there legally. I live in Singapore. I didnt know till I call him one day his wife pick and ask me many question. Due to my heart is broken, I just marry this man now my husband only after knowing him for 4 months. My heart is still with my ex bf. I m going to meet him and I know I will be physically and emotional involve. Half of me want that and other half say No. What should I do now? Forget him and move on with life? What is the best thing to do now? Please help.

2007-04-05 23:32:09 · 21 answers · asked by abonoyah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he and I went out for a while but we decided to stay as friends. We still talked on the phone for some weeks after that and met up to watch games but he stopped calling and all contact this week. I am not upset with him I mean after all we are only friends. But I feel like something big is missing from my life and I think I am missing him. I don't know why he suddenly stopped contact maybe he is seeing someone but I don't need to know. I don't have time to meet anyone new. What should I do? I am driving myself crazy staying by my phone all the time and waiting for him to IM me which he didn't. I don't think he will. I keep thinking of all the games we planned to see next month and places which he offered to take me and he made it sound so sure but I don't think he will. I admit sometimes I think he is still interested in me but I don't cling on to this hope

Please bring it down to me that he is not interested in me anymore. thank you. I am attractive and not lonely. he is the same

2007-04-05 23:28:40 · 7 answers · asked by adrienne 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this lady who i think fancies me but also think that she's playing hard to get. A close friend of hers told me that she is this kind of person. I like her but, at the moment, I am having a hard time getting to know her because she is, playing hard-to-get. Any tips?

2007-04-05 23:14:40 · 16 answers · asked by XLR8 2 in Singles & Dating

whats something like some type of food that will make someone more horny?

2007-04-05 23:14:24 · 1 answers · asked by cleo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 23:11:53 · 17 answers · asked by amy g 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm very attracted to this boy. I am black , he is white. I've NEVER been this attracted to a white boy before! He is so cute and we play the same sport and our personalities are so alike. I love beeing around him, but i don't know if he likes black girls. He is 3 years older, but thats not the problem. My friend asked him if he would date a black girl and he said maybe. I want to know, how should I let him know I like him without creating weird tension. He says he's not looking for a girlfriend, but I'm not looking for a boyfriend. What to do??
Plus its really hard because me being black, I feel like I'm at a disadvantage when all of these pretty white girls like him as well.HELP! ADVICE???

2007-04-05 23:08:33 · 23 answers · asked by Jewel 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy i've like for ages and it was all good, he paid for the most expensive seats and brought drinks and stuff and was quite flirty. Then he drove me home in his car and when we got to my house he was like really rushing to get me out of his car and i was trying to say thank you and stuff but he was like ok and before i even stepped onto the curb he was gone. I text him this morning jus to say thanks but he hasn't text back at all. What did i do wrong? Please help!! Thanks

2007-04-05 23:07:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my other half have been together for just over a month now,
my problem is that no one can except the fact that were together. how can i get the message across that bens a really good person,
and does it really matter what everyone else thinks as long as me and ben are happy right !!!!

2007-04-05 23:04:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not all victims react the same. Some are angry, some are sad and so on. I am talking about victims of abuse by intimate partners such as husbands or boyfriends.

2007-04-05 23:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by zadanliran 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-05 23:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like the way I smell, but she's constantly telling me I smell like a "little burrito". It's starting to hurt my feelings. I don't like to shower, I find it very unnatural and prefer not to....What should I do?

2007-04-05 23:01:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She looks like a chimpanzee! really! if we go to the zoo one day and i forget to take her home will i get jail?

2007-04-05 23:00:27 · 18 answers · asked by gareoke26 1 in Friends

nearly 2 weeks ago my partner physically abused me badly, police were called and he has now left and gone.

Altough I am happy and relieved by this that he has gone, I did love him and I am finding it so hard to get on with my life.

We have 4 kids together and everyday I am just crying and so upset I don't know what to do next.

He hasn't made any contact to speak or see the kids either so they are upset by this too.

Any ideas how I can stop crying and get stronger? He isn't coming back, and I don't want him either but I need to make a start and I dont know how.

2007-04-05 22:56:14 · 19 answers · asked by Jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce