I broke up with my bf 4 months ago. Today I was on my way to work & I didn't take the car as it was a beautiful, sunny weather, and I wanted to enjoy the spring flower-smell and sun rays. Well, I was feeling strange...
I mean enjoying the scenery but very sad.
All of a sudden I saw my ex with his new gf. I said "hi" to them (we still talk to each other as friends).
It's not that I'm still into him, it's just... that I feel so lonely.
All my friends go out with their partners and sometimes I feel a bit down and sad.
I don't know what to do. I'm a prety girl & many guys ask me out, but none of them wants a "real" relationship "or commitment" & I don't like having short-term relationships.
I feel lost.
What should I do?
Please help.
2007-04-05 23:45:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 25 yrs old and I feel like the best time of my life has gone away for nothing.
2007-04-05 23:56:57 · update #1
Why would you feel lost? You have people looking at you. You enjoy nature. You write really well. So whats the problem?
Time will not heal old wounds, only you can. Get on with your life, enjoy it, every minute you waste on the past you never get back...Go find your prince...
Also, Get rid of the triggers of the last boyfriend. Pic's,letters, etc. get it...they just get you down
2007-04-05 23:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still young. Stop trying to find love - wait for it to come to you. Go out and enjoy life. One of my friends recently broke up with her bf of 3 years and she's a whole new girl - out clubbing and making new friends etc. If you want some "girl" time with your friends - just tell them. If they are real friends, they will understand. The fact that you are still friends with your ex shows what a wonderful person you are. You have no reason to be lonely. Go out and have fun girl!
2007-04-05 23:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, lol I have the same problem!!!! but let me tell ya girl I came out of a 8year relationship and Ive been single for 3 years now!!! Men either want sex or a friend!!! I dont know why none of them want a relationship! I dont know how old u are, but maybe u should try older men! Good luck! and when u stop looking is usually when someone comes and finds you!
2007-04-05 23:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by ohio8babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever considered an online relationship? When I broke up with my fiance I didn't feel like going out & when I went on other dates it was just depressing cos all I could think of was him & how it used to feel going out with him. So I stopped going out & started playing online games when I was bored or lonely. I met a man on there that filled all of my emotional needs & I really began to like him, and even though we never met or even made plans to meet, it was good to have someone who was kind of there but not really... then within a couple of months I stopped missing my fiance and was ready to be with real people again.
2007-04-05 23:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to wait until the right guy comes your way...you feel lonely cause you don't have a partner of you own...and that you feel sad cause all the guys that ask you out doesn't want a real relationship with you...just wait and enjoy life....there's always the right person for everyone....
2007-04-05 23:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by mcrgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out, with guy or girls it doesn't matter... friends or guys that don't want the commitment... just go out. Before you know it you'll be having too much fun to be sad. And you can't meet anyone sitting around the house all the time. Be open to new ideas, and enjoy them
2007-04-05 23:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. y dnt u just give other boys a chance.. they might not want to get involve in a serious relationship or commitment nw.. bt u nevr knw in love.. 4 nw just find some1 who can make u laugh n make ur loneliness as less as possible...
this life is very short n u nevr knw whn it ends.. so try to live every moment of this life.. dnt just sit thr feeling lonely n depressed.. cas all they gona give u is tears.. do som thing by which u dnt feel lonely n depressed...
2007-04-06 00:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tunir S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do go out with the guys you sort of like. You do not need to have a "real" relationship until somebody worth it comes along.
2007-04-05 23:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read this:
The One: Finding Soul Mate Love and Making It Last (Hardcover)
by Kathy Freston (Author)
2007-04-06 00:03:34 · answer #9 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to first be happy by yourself to be happy with someone else. that right person isn't in ur life yet, so enjoy all those things that you can't do when attached. flirt, spend money on nothing... stay out til "when ever u feel like it"
Life isn't all about boyfriends/girlfriends, you can still live on happily enough without them!
2007-04-05 23:54:07 · answer #10 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋