Feel like I am missing him IT'S SO HARD to let go and stop feeling disappointed?

Question

he and I went out for a while but we decided to stay as friends. We still talked on the phone for some weeks after that and met up to watch games but he stopped calling and all contact this week. I am not upset with him I mean after all we are only friends. But I feel like something big is missing from my life and I think I am missing him. I don't know why he suddenly stopped contact maybe he is seeing someone but I don't need to know. I don't have time to meet anyone new. What should I do? I am driving myself crazy staying by my phone all the time and waiting for him to IM me which he didn't. I don't think he will. I keep thinking of all the games we planned to see next month and places which he offered to take me and he made it sound so sure but I don't think he will. I admit sometimes I think he is still interested in me but I don't cling on to this hope

Please bring it down to me that he is not interested in me anymore. thank you. I am attractive and not lonely. he is the same

Answer 1

I have felt the way you feel and it can be one of the most painful things, you feel like your hanging on a limb, because you are not sure of anything. You can either tell him how you feel and get everything out in the open or you should just completely give up on him. If you don't make a decision you're gone drive yourself crazy thinking about him and at the same time you're keeping yourself from moving on with your life and meeting a new wonderful guy.

Answer 2

It is difficult to remain friends after a relationship because when they or you find someone else, the other person may not like the idea of the two of you seeing each other. Get out and enjoy yourself with your friends. Pat yourself on the back for being smart enough not to continue a relationship that would not have worked in the long run.

Just occupy your time until the right one comes along. That empty spot in your heart will be filled soon, I am sure.

Answer 3

Let the very thought of him GO. Let him do his own things. There was already a falling out. It's hard to regress from a close relationship down to friends and remain good friends. You chose to remain friends because someone was still in love with the other and it's as close as you can get back to the joining relationship. You don't have time to meet new people, but that's the only thing that's going to help you let go of him.

Answer 4

call him talk theres nothing wrong with being friends if he is a true friend he will understand your concern of him not calling guys make the best friends they dont ***** back like chick lol hope this helps hun just call i had a friend like that too i missed him like crazy if i went 2 days without talking to him so just call he will understand im sure just tell him how you felt not talking to him these past few days good luck

Answer 5

give yourself some time to grieve over the situation. don't feel like you have to feel any particular way. let him go as best as you are able, or at least force yourself not to chase after him, and eventually you will be over him. then, when you are all over this situation, go out and find someone who is the perfect match for you, who will treat you as well as you deserve.

Answer 6

hmm.. i think you love him. just try to call him or visit his house. and talk to him what has been troubling you. and i think you should get back together, but don't keep your hopes high. if he love you too, i am sure he wants to get back together. but if he doesn't then you should move on with your life. i know it's hard i'd beed through it before.

Answer 7

I didn't want to disclose it to you but after going out with you a couple of times, he turned gay.