My partner and i moved out together around 2 years ago.
Before we moved out, we were at it like rabbits. Since we moved out he has just lost all interest and i dont know why. i've tried talking to him and he says he doesn't know why but he just doesn't want to. What should i do????
2007-04-05 23:48:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on what your relationship is like otherwise. We all have our ups and downs, and maybe this is just a down for him. There are times in my marriage that I am more interested than he is and vice versa, but as long as we respect each other and compromise, it's okay. We work it out. I think you should be patient with him. He may just be stressed out. If he wants to leave, I would let him, but I wouldn't ask him to if there's a chance that it's just one of those things that's part of the cycle of life. Those things work themselves out. What won't work itself out though, is if he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore, and if that's the case, he'll let you know. While you're waiting to find out, just keep yourself happy. Good luck.
2007-04-06 00:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lesley M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got a major problem here that it seems that your relationship is going down the drain.
Talk about it with your partner and agree to do something about it. Plan it out on a more encouraging venue aside from
from your home.
I suggest that you start initiating it. Smell really good when you go to bed, dress really sexy, and start the foreplay.
If he's still not interested, then he must be hiding something from you. Get counselling help.
2007-04-06 07:04:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ruth Art 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys just don't want to. Especially if you're bringing it up all the time. That gets annoying. A girl that constantly touches it, wants it, needs it, can be aggravating. Give him some time, don't talk about it. After a week or so, if nothing has happened, break out the massage oils, toys, ice cubes, etc. and seduce the hell out of him
2007-04-06 06:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by icehawk00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason for everything and you have a right to have your questions answered.
You've made a committment to be together (mutual) and part of that committment is being open and honest with each other, no matter how 'personal' the issues are.
Be kind and supportive in your manner to begin with, but if he is being stubborn and is pushing you away (e.g. meanly), diplomatically demand an answer or you'll have to rethink that committment to each other.
2007-04-06 07:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by lulu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. There are other things in life. A man can have a reason that is personal. Why do women think a man has to tell them everything?
2007-04-06 06:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 things I've learned from personal experience.
A. He has something going on in his life that really hard to deal with and doesn't want to burden you with it.
B. He's cheating on you.
It may seem harsh, but reality sometimes is unfair and harsh.
2007-04-06 07:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just he wants some changes in his life. I think here is your mistake that you are forcing him more and that is the reason that he not take interest in you. You also be patent so that he came back.
2007-04-06 07:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Alexius T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to start jogging around the neighborhood that he lives in but make sure you do it with no clothes on. He'll take you back.
2007-04-06 07:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Sweetlemonman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is questionable and impossible because he is a young dude. Even though he said he doesn't know why, i bet he knows. There is a reason behind that, you have rights to know this.
2007-04-06 07:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by ching 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him some time and space in his privacy, maybe he is struggling with himself about the way of his life or even you!!
just dont attach to him.
good luck
2007-04-06 07:04:13 · answer #10 · answered by *Grace* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋