Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

if a shy guy suddenly asks me questions about me (what I was doing, where I was born, etc... and he responded almost instantaneously and gave me detailed answers when I asked him questions about him) on msn, does that mean he likes me? He's in some of my classes and he talked to me a few times in person. Last time in class, he made an effort to sit closer to me... and he tapped my shoulders to ask me a question... Does he like me?

Then I asked him out.... and he hesitated and said that he was busy (he told me why he was busy, like what he had to do) and said maybe some other time... does that mean he doesn't like me??? Please help me I feel totally embarassed and I don't know how I'm ever gonna go to class anymore when he's there... it's so embarassing!!!

2007-04-05 12:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy james at work and when ever i look at him he gives me this really sexy look i cant even explain it

2007-04-05 12:54:36 · 4 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in London, UK and I really would want a BBW as a girlfriend. How do I go about chatting them up as I am not BIG?

2007-04-05 12:49:53 · 8 answers · asked by ddman 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 12:46:54 · 20 answers · asked by unbelieveableday 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and married a younger bimbo half his age, will that conditionate your life in the future?

2007-04-05 12:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and him are really close and his Bday is l8er in the summer, but I am just looking for ideas.

2007-04-05 12:43:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a 2 1/2 yr old ( 3 in july). we would like to get a dog. which would be best? also one that can come along for trips to the store and park?

2007-04-05 12:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with a man for 7 years. We were engaged twice already but he has both times backed out because he has MAJOR commitment issues...
We lived together for 2 of the 7 years and now have been having a long-distance relationship for the last 3 years...We try and see eachother every 10 days and when we're together it is the most incredible experience. I know he loves me, he is terrified of loosing me but I know he is afraid of marriage so why do I stick around?
He has told me that I am the only woman he has ever considered marrying...and mind you we are in our early 30s so it is definetly not a run to the altar...
This last weekend I put an end to it by saying, "...either you marry me or you leave me." He couldn't do either so I told him I was done. I have not heard from him since. Is this the closure I deserve? After 7 years do men not make any kind of effort? This is the easiest way out of a relationship - keeping silent.
The worst part of all is that it hurts me so much...

2007-04-05 12:36:18 · 17 answers · asked by mzrtlvr 1 in Singles & Dating

Or is it acceptable to cheat when you're engaged?

2007-04-05 12:31:11 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a two year old a newborn should i cheat on my husband??

2007-04-05 12:23:29 · 44 answers · asked by kaseyred7 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do people feel about interracial relationships in this century?

2007-04-05 12:21:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 3 weeks my husband has been going out on the weekends and not coming home. He told me last week that he had an affair on me 2 years ago. He has been keeping things from me. I found a recepit where he bought our son some clothes while he was out of town, I counted all of the things that he got for our son but noticed there was extra things and they were little girl clothes. We dont have any girls. He told me he got them for somebody who gave him his money back. He refuses to tell me who that person is.When my husband didnt come home I called him around 100 times after finding he had a extra phone line. He refused to tell me who he got the phone for. Also I asked him where he was that night and he refused to tell me. Now its Easter weekend and he is going out of town and isnt giving me any details. I want to know who he had an affair with and why. I want to know everything! Do I derserve to know? I feel like know whats going on will give me closure and he wont do it. Why?

2007-04-05 12:20:40 · 17 answers · asked by madblackwoman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And don't think it's me am just asking the question to get answer for a close friend.Because when she came to me I didn't have know answer for her, so maybe you can help.Here's her story 1 guy who she spent 10yrs with have a child with they broke up 8months ago she really loves him, but he was cheating on her and broke her heart he wants to come back. She has a date with him tonight. #2 guy she been living with him, for a few months now and now he has a job that he has to stay there at least 5 to 6 nights a week, but she see him at least 4 times a week after work. He wants her to come over to night, she made up excuse that she tried, and he just crazy over her, he really loves her too. She has feelings for him she loves him but not like guy #1. Guy #3 cares for her and wants to see her tonight too, she really wants to see guy #3 but she has a date with guy #1. She can be honest with guy #3 and told him she going to see guy #1 he ask her can she come over when the continue...........

2007-04-05 12:18:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he hurt me really badly, left me when i was 6 months pregnant, then slept with the cow who caused endless arguments between us and kept lying to me about things. how can i make him prove he wont do it agn? hes already sai he will, i just have 2 tell him what i want him 2 do

2007-04-05 12:16:27 · 45 answers · asked by evilbunnyhahaha 4 in Singles & Dating

sat on the face of a male friend, no strings attached, and nothing coming of it later on?

2007-04-05 12:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by burrelson 1 in Singles & Dating

I just moved into my first apartment, by myself. I have a boyfriend, and he's been staying over, which is fine with me, but I'm at work, and he has my apartment keys so he could drop off something at my place for me. However, then he went for some drinks with a buddy. He had him over, and now he's going back there with him for another drink. I dunno why, but it kinda irked me. It's my apartment, not his, shouldn't he have at least let me know, or asked?

2007-04-05 12:13:12 · 25 answers · asked by universitystudent 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so this guy dumped me and the next day was dating someone else, but a week later he saw me and we had sex, he told her about it and she was upset but forgave him telling him if it happened again it was over, but its happened like 5 times since then as well they've been dating for a month now and every time I see him we have sex, I feel guilty and think I should tell her I don't want to b/c I want him back because he would never want me back if I told her I know that, I feel guilty though because I met her and we talked and she is worried about getting hurt, he's cheated beofre, once on one of his ex's and once on me so theres defintly a pattern, I know I should stop sleeping with him but I still love him and want something with him as pathetic as that sounds. I know if I told her it would end between him and I for good becasue he would hate me, but I also don't wnat to tell her and lose him as a friend and her forgive him and have to suffer for no reason what should I do?

2007-04-05 12:06:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should I meet this girl in person? Met her online, she goes to my college...?
She posted a personal ad online just for fun, and I was looking just for fun (was getting tired of going through car listings). I responded, and we chatted on AIM a couple times. She said she got about 40 responses and most creeped her out. She said mine didn't creep her out. She said she was trying not to date for the last 3 months, and just wanted to see if using craigslist would work since her friend found a great guy on there. I'm hella shy, and am almost certain that I would not make a good impression on her. I've only been on one date, and it didn't work out at all. I'd like to maybe meet her for lunch at school next week, but I don't know how I should do it. I assume I should try and get her number, but I've never asked a girl for her number before. I need help.

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2007-04-05 12:05:43 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 12:04:26 · 4 answers · asked by Melanie M 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 12:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-04-05 12:03:15 · 1 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been wit my husband for 7 years and married for 2. we have a lil one and now I am getting tired of him. I don't know the reason but i feel like everything we ever had was bull!!!!!! We have cheated and left each other before and now I feel I can't be in a relationship like that!!!!!!! I will be moving out and starting a new life by myself with my lil one. The thing that I wanted to ask is should I start dating right away if not how long do I wait??????? I really don't know what to do. I need some answers!!!!!! Any one that has been in a situation like this please help.

2007-04-05 12:01:22 · 21 answers · asked by bfromcali 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend, and that is all he is, a friend. But we have casual sexual meetings. I my self know it is moraly wrong and alot of people frown on it I just wanna hear some one elses oppion. I mean there is no way in hell in my eyes we will ever be more than friends but we are best friends. Talked every night. we have alot in comman like we both like to play sports and camp and fish and all that. Yet we feel nothing emotional. Well atleast I dont. Is this normal. Resontly he has stoped talking to me like he used to.and he has been more distant but when he talks there is a softer side to him anymore. Alot of people dont like him cause it seems all he cares about is sex, and for the most part they are right, but none of them took the time to get to know him. Even his brother who lives with him dislikes him. I feel bad for him and i wanna help him but I dont love him.

2007-04-05 11:55:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a wedding is the bride and groom's day, why are there so many who think that the couple should cater to the guests' wants?
Why should they have to play music that all of their guests know are not their style?
Aren't the guests there to celebrate the happiness the couple has brought to each others' lives?

2007-04-05 11:54:58 · 19 answers · asked by bensbabe 4 in Weddings

2007-04-05 11:52:50 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 19 yrs old and in college my best friend is a guy i have known since freshmen year in highschool.I really care about him and we have been through it all together he knows everything just about me and vice versa.Anyway latley he wants to hang out all the time ,has been getting very touch feelie, invading my personal space a little to much,and kind of creepie when he looks at me.I like him as a friend but am not attracted to him in that way.Tried giving him hints but he has not taken them?

2007-04-05 11:49:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know I meet so many people who tell you one thing and then do the opposite. It would be really nice to meet people who are exactly the person that they believe themselves to be as well as how they describe themselves. But I guess I ask for too much from people.

2007-04-05 11:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by nubian_qween03 2 in Singles & Dating

and ive been chatting with all my x gf and friends from back home, now it seems that innocent flirting has gone into "plans" with different girls. Im happy cause im gonna party but should i be feeling bad that i just wanna "party", im 19 and this is what i should be thinking, right? how should i act when i get home?

2007-04-05 11:41:13 · 1 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, so i'm a 13-year-old girl. i am a HUGE naruto fanatic. but there's these skater boys who keep bothering me about it. i sit next to one in scince, and when its just me and him talking, he's really nice, and even asks me abuot the show. when he's with his jerk friends, its a different story. i've tried ignoring them, but i cant take it anymore!
once in science class, (there was only about 15 kids, long story) i started crying because they were being such jerks! thank goodness our teacher felt my pain and made them stop when i started threatening to kill them.
what bothers me most is that they know NOTHING about the show, and they find it fun to make fun of it, and i'm sick of it.
P.S. i dont mean to be racist, but they're white people, and they make fun of me for being filipino and looking chinese. they make fun of me for so many things, even when i've done nothing to them. what should i do???

2007-04-05 11:39:28 · 40 answers · asked by Erin Nicole 2 in Friends

ok, so me and my bf have been together for 5 months. we r best friends and we took it really slow. it was just holding hands up to last month. now we are cuddling and walking hand in hand and hand round waist and stuff, and a two weeks ago, we kissed. i was happy, cuz i wanted to for a really really long time, and everything. but it was a 0.000000001 second kiss. what do i do to show him i want an actual kiss? and how do i start one? is the technique we r using wrong? we just normally hug, and then peck on the lips. i dont know how to kiss him! AAAHH ! this is a first for both of us, and im not sure what to do. like i sooo want to kiss him. just dont know what to do. we are pretty comfortable around each other, but its just this one thing that bugs me. i keep on reading about keeping kissing longer, and then biting his lower lips, but im too nervous. why dusnt he make the 1st move? shud i just slam him against a locker and kiss him?? help!!

2007-04-05 11:39:02 · 10 answers · asked by vanilla fudge 2 in Singles & Dating