And don't think it's me am just asking the question to get answer for a close friend.Because when she came to me I didn't have know answer for her, so maybe you can help.Here's her story 1 guy who she spent 10yrs with have a child with they broke up 8months ago she really loves him, but he was cheating on her and broke her heart he wants to come back. She has a date with him tonight. #2 guy she been living with him, for a few months now and now he has a job that he has to stay there at least 5 to 6 nights a week, but she see him at least 4 times a week after work. He wants her to come over to night, she made up excuse that she tried, and he just crazy over her, he really loves her too. She has feelings for him she loves him but not like guy #1. Guy #3 cares for her and wants to see her tonight too, she really wants to see guy #3 but she has a date with guy #1. She can be honest with guy #3 and told him she going to see guy #1 he ask her can she come over when the continue...........
2007-04-05 12:18:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
date is over with guy #1. He still wants to see her. If I know her when the date is over with guy #1 she will go see guy #3. And tomorrow guy # 2 is coming home for the week-end. Is this crazy or what? What do you think?
2007-04-05 12:20:49 · update #1
She needs to decide which one and stay with him. First, she needs to let them all go for a couple of weeks until she can make a decision who it will be. At this rate your friend will lonely because the three will get tired of the games. Pick the one you truly love and want to spend the rest of your life with. No.1, he already showed his true colors, no2, just doesn't know what is going on but seems to be a good provider, no.3, doesn't care all he wants is to take her to bed.
2007-04-05 13:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has way too many men in her life. She isn't even over her serious relationship that lasted 10 years and she's living with another one and has a third on the side. She needs to worry less about a parade of men and worry more about being a mother. This isn't a good environment for her child.
2007-04-05 19:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um....lol, yeah that's nuts! It's a toss up between #2 and #3. But one thing's for sure, I would completely stay clear of guy #1 (can't trust a cheater). I tend to like guy #3 because of the fact that she can be honest with him.
2007-04-05 19:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't even read all of that #1, #2 and #3 stuff. For crying out loud, if three guys like you, pick one and be faithful and happy and get a grip.
2007-04-05 20:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do have 3 guys that want me but theres only 1 man for me.... & hes married!! So ... I just wait 4 him to see the light!
2007-04-05 19:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rule of 3 (or 4 or whatever) balance.
1. most money
2. most caring and sincere
3. best in bed
balance out the three. like giving each a score, divide by three and see who wins
2007-04-05 19:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by ron m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think shes a ho bag.... Shes been w/ a guy 10 years . If she is breaking it off I could understand seeing guy 2 only if she could be honestw/ guy 2. Obviously it is over between guy 1 thats why there is a guy # 2.. .... BUT a GUY # 3 spells Ho BAG!!!!
2007-04-05 19:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am so confused...put number 1- 2 and 3 on slips of paper in a hat, Then pick a number! There is your answer!
2007-04-05 19:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's crazy, she's single and can do whatever she wants with her free time. She needs to explore the options before rushing into any given arrangement; more power to her. She will figure it out eventually.
2007-04-05 19:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what??? Oh man. This is just too confusing for me the read. Too many numbers.....I can't deal with it.....Ahhh the single life.
Well, back to your problem. I would have to say that she pick the one she likes b/c she sounds like she'd be happy with either of them or all three. Yea, that's it...why choose. Go for it. Have'em all. You deserve it.
2007-04-05 20:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by bigdaddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋