I have a two year old a newborn should i cheat on my husband??
2007-04-05 12:23:29 · 44 answers · asked by kaseyred7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its funny when people think these type questions are serious
2007-04-05 12:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by hollybear 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋
What in the heck does having a newborn have to do with cheating on your husband? That is a terrible idea. No matter what is going on that's making you feel that way, please discuss it with your husband and see if you can work it out first. He's your husband for crying out loud, he deserves to know what you are thinking. The fact that you have a newborn in your home and family should be making you feel like a loving wife and mother and not like a sneaking, filthy, disgusting tramp.
2007-04-05 13:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT cheat. It may seem like something you want now, but in the end you will regret it.
Seek some counseling if you feel that you truly want to save your marriage. Or choose to end your marriage. But look into your heart to see what you truly want.
If you cheat now and realize you want to save your marriage it will be difficult if not impossible to do so.
Just remember the adage that the grass LOOKS greener on the other side. It usually isn't.
Remember that that lusty, stomach flipping sensation of love is a new thing and can fade with time. Whatever you may be feeling with a new person could be just those feelings you haven't felt in awhile tricking you into thinking that this "new" love is the "true" love. Real, enduring love may fade in it's intensity of physical reaction, but isn't less strong, or less right.
If you are having doubts, seek someone, a real life someone, you trust to ask advice from. But my initial reaction, and response to your question would be NO. Don't CHEAT.
2007-04-05 12:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by moonshadow418 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! It's just your emotions wanting more attention because maybe your not getting what you want right now BECAUSE you have a 2 year old and a newborn. I wouldn't do it for the children's sake! What if he found out and left you all alone with a 2 year old and a newborn?! Good Luck!
2007-04-05 12:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by kellyclary1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. Figure out if you are going to stay with him then leave if you must but keep your pants on until then. If you have to ask you have doubts about it and I have been there. The kids have nothing to do with cheating anyway. Ask yourself lots of hard questions like why do I want to? What are the consequences? Seek advice from a counselor if necessary. I am not talking about morality at all. People cheat for the thrill of it but there are other ways to get thrills, not meaning drugs or anything like that.
2007-04-05 12:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Susan M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you? My goodness haven't you ever watched Jerry Springer? Or have you ever heard of the word communication? What is your husband not doing to satisfy you? And if he is not, maybe it is because you are not trying to be a supportive wife. Did you not say vows .. better or worse? When you married it was all great, but you want to back out when there are problems, because there must be problems if you want to cheat. Is it worth ending your marriage, maybe getting a disease, loosing your husband and maybe later in life when your child finds out, having to face him/her and explaining why you did it. So, if mom did it, then I can too. Above all, you were married in front of witnesses and God and you promised things, not only is your name and reputation on the line, but also God will know you as a liar.... the Bible tells the only conditions where a woman or man can Scriptually divorce and remarry.... plus you could get pregnant and wind up on Jerry Spinger getting DNA testing cause you don't know who the daddy is.... sick sick sick... grow up my friend...
2007-04-05 12:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... you should have respect for yourself and think of the children that you put into this world. Life as a parent is not you first. You decided to get married. And if you feel as though you sound which is interest in others well you should do is get a divorce and do it the right way. Your marriage is not a marriage you seem to have interest out of the marriage. Think before you regret anything. You cannot change what's done after you do it. Good luck.
Honestly.
2007-04-05 12:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Martie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH NO! Don't even go there! You made those childen with your husband, and you are not going to go mess aorund with any other man! If you do, it'll just lead to a divorce, and think of your childen. The life they will have; switching from house to house, every other week. That's really bad to bring apon your daughter, or son. What human being could even think of doing something like that?
2007-04-05 13:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by leapnjen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Why even ask such a thing? You should already know it's not a good idea to cheat, especially if you have kids with the man. If you aren't happy with him, get a divorce. Don't cheat.
2007-04-05 13:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by shannon_yo7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! go ahead and cheat on your husband and bring some std while you're at it. Show the kids that Mommy is a slut! the world is going down the drain as is anyways. Desperate house wives giving you ideas eh? Dear lord have mercy on us.
*shakes her head.
2007-04-05 12:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anita M 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why cheat and you have kids together. If you haven't been doing it this long why start now. Think of your kids in this situation and on down the line. It can hurt a lot of people
2007-04-05 12:40:16 · answer #11 · answered by lightning_773 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋