if a shy guy suddenly asks me questions about me (what I was doing, where I was born, etc... and he responded almost instantaneously and gave me detailed answers when I asked him questions about him) on msn, does that mean he likes me? He's in some of my classes and he talked to me a few times in person. Last time in class, he made an effort to sit closer to me... and he tapped my shoulders to ask me a question... Does he like me?
Then I asked him out.... and he hesitated and said that he was busy (he told me why he was busy, like what he had to do) and said maybe some other time... does that mean he doesn't like me??? Please help me I feel totally embarassed and I don't know how I'm ever gonna go to class anymore when he's there... it's so embarassing!!!
2007-04-05 12:57:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, this is what I usually do to get the attention of girls when all the nervousness goes away. He probably likes you, and you shouldn't be embarrassed by what happened.
There are two things that might be true:
1.) He truly is busy. After all, he did say "maybe some other time."
2.) He's simply intimidated. Don't worry - just wait it out a bit, and things will become less awkward.
2007-04-05 13:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by excelblue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have just been taken by suprise because he was just starting to get to know you. He probibly does like you, and it was just too soon so when you see him tell him how your sorry if you were too upfront, and that you only meant would he like to go out sometime so you guys can talk more in person, and actually get to know eachother. It will make him more relaxed about the whole thing. Say it basically just like that. Tell him how you like talking to him, and it would be cool to just hangout sometime outside of school. See what he says. If after you tell him this stuff he starts to not talk to you then just leave it alone, and move on because it probibly means he dont think of you like that, but I doubt very much thats the case, Im sure he most likely really had something to do, or just was suprised you asked, and didnt know how to respond. good luck ;)
2007-04-05 20:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite possible, but it is not the end of your world or class for that matter. So, you got a few signals crossed. That happens to a lot of people.
Sometimes, people of the opposite sex just talk without a hidden agenda to get a date.
You're OK. If you think he freaked out, give him time to get over it; and then, the next time he talks to you, just take it for what it is...just talk.
2007-04-05 20:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by divabylaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL OF COURSE HE LIKES YOU!!!!
Like you said in the beginning he's shy! Sometimes guys are hesitant about going out with girls bcuz they are well...shy. I used to be just like him but now im not. At first he will be very shy but, once you hang around him more he will start being more talkative and happier and stuff like that around you.
(>_<)
2007-04-05 20:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by kara. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be a llittle shy cause you asked him out first instead of him asking. But that s tricky quesstion, he is interested but a little scared of getting rejected. Just like us women are. we all have feelings and a heart, and we all want love in our lives. Good luck
2007-04-05 20:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's playing "hard-to-get" with you. I'd just back off and leave anymore asking to him. If he doesn't have the cajones" to be straight with you and ask you out, move on.
2007-04-05 20:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have really been busy. Also he may not have much experience with dates and didn't know it would be proper to suggest another time.
2007-04-05 20:02:24 · answer #7 · answered by suigeneris-impetus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems like he likes you, but how he says he's busy doesn't ness. mean that he doesn't like you, maybe he really WAS busy. If I were you, keep doing what your doing, play a little hard to get (guys love that) Maybe he will ask you!
2007-04-05 20:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by primalterozi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...are you considered ehhh...."hot" in your school? He might already have a girlfriend and is trying to get her jealous. In other words, he's using you to get his previous gf jealous. Or....he might actually like you. Good Luck and let HIM ask you out. I think you rushed it a bit. Ask around about him...did he have any previous gfs?...did he have bad relationships?....
2007-04-05 20:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be embarrassed he probably doesn't like you but the sure way to find out is ask him again and get a yes or no answer
2007-04-05 20:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋