Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

i live with my mum and her bf at his house for years i am unemplyed and wish to god i could afford to move out. He thinks i think i own the house and is not easy to get along with we fight sometimes once really bad to the point where i almost got kicked out. i cant stand him. if i say anything that bothers me about him like washing his hands after the toilet and then cooks dinner , i just get yelled at to shut up. At the start he was a pain in the a...... so it has just kind of stuck. what should i do?

2007-04-05 02:43:40 · 13 answers · asked by ஐButterfly Effectஐ 5 in Family

2007-04-05 02:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by jammed_up_guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-05 02:41:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband tried to find one of his female buddies through a "people finders" search engine last year. When I asked him about why he did it, his response was "because I just wanted to." There was no real answer. He also says that they never had sex, they only kissed and she was more like a friend to him. Everytime I turn around, he's always doing something on the net and I don't trust him. At this point, I am really tired of talking to him because nothing helps. What am I suppose to do?

2007-04-05 02:41:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-05 02:40:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If u n' your lover comin' out from d cinema, suddenly u heard a gun shot comin' out from d opposite side of d building. U found out that he is your enemy n' he try 2aim at your lover. U know that he will kill your lover 4a revenge 4makin' u more suffer 4betrayin' him at d 1st place which makin' him lost everythin' that he have.

2007-04-05 02:39:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

its like this...well i have a bunch of friends that needs my punching...they dont respect me as a friend but at the same time,mostly they use my stuff(washing machines,eating some of my foods)so what should i do??do i kick their asses?or i talk to them that most of the time would not hear what i have to say??

2007-04-05 02:39:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you prefer feet to be ticklish, so yo ucan enjoy seeing them squirm at you touch? or would you prefer them to not be ticklish, so they wouldn't kick and squirm, so you could do whatever you wanted to them?

2007-04-05 02:38:51 · 7 answers · asked by tklshtklr 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is the story:
My fiance HATES my dogs. We visit him on weekends and all I hear is "Your dogs destroy my property and I've worked hard and long to have the things I have." I am now dreading my weekend trips because of the constant complaining.

This is the damage my dogs have done in the past three years:
(1) My 3 y/o greyhound/pit digs under his shed because she smells rabbits under it. His backyard consists of one shed, one tree and one flowerbed. Lawn is brown because he does not water it.
(2) My 10 month old pit mix chewed a lamp cord which I am repairing.

The 3 y/o dog he talks to and pets. He completely ignores my puppy....because he doesn't like "that" dog.

The 3 y/o dog is leaving to go to college with my daughter next year. I am planning on moving into his house then.

Which leaves me with a dog I love dearly and my fiance hates....

What would you do?

PS I gave my dachshund to a rescue organization because my fiance and daughter.

2007-04-05 02:36:49 · 16 answers · asked by Florida Sun 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well i broke up with him last Monday, he was like about to cry cuz everyone said he was in love with me like LOVE. but i stopped liking him. He made a note and wrote f u and wrote all the thing he hates about me and he even told ppl that he broke up with me... So anyway He always makes fun of me when his friends are around and then when we are sitting next to each other (sometimes... not on purpose) he is nice.. he told his best friend he still likes me... im soo confused... a little advice?

2007-04-05 02:35:40 · 12 answers · asked by *Party_girl* 1 in Singles & Dating

what do i do i mean with my best friend? his name is russell and he is totally sweet and i trust him with anything and a few days ago i came to school with a bruise on my face and i told everyone that i fell but he didn't believe me. He found out my dad accidently hit me. and he said that if anything else happens that he would tell. i love the guy like a brother but i don't know what i should do. how should i handle this?

2007-04-05 02:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

theres this guy that i like and i told him that but he just looked at me and said that he doesn't like me like that. but i think its just because he hasn't had a gf b4. i think somewhere he might like me but please help me! what should i do?

2007-04-05 02:33:16 · 17 answers · asked by kate<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Sex on the first date.....yes, no? If no how many dates would it take?

2007-04-05 02:32:10 · 36 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband was recently promoted to middle management, and now he is obliged to certain social events. What is an appropriate wedding gift for a subordinate coworker?
How do you decide how much to spend on the gift? I usually try to give something sentimental or practical, but in this case I am not acquainted with the couple at all. My husband is the groom's supervisor.

2007-04-05 02:31:46 · 23 answers · asked by not yet 7 in Weddings

I was in a 4 yr relationship and still we talk every day on the phone.I try to let him know in diffrent ways even i date diffrent guys,but he still looks for me!!
I reallyy really want to put a end keep the friendship without talking to him every day.FY: I do not have feelings for him only i care!
Thx

2007-04-05 02:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by anahilda l 1 in Singles & Dating

I wonder if there is any truth in that saying? Is that only for married folks or all loving couples?

2007-04-05 02:31:42 · 25 answers · asked by desertbeauty t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi everyone,
My boyfriend and I started dating last 4th of July, I was living with my parents and then in late August, I moved out to my own place.
My boyfriend and I seeing eachother on a regular basis...Then in October....he took a trip to go see his friends who had just had a baby, came home and and realized he wanted more.
So he asked me to move in with him.
But before I did, he wanted to talk to my parents so that they knew he was serious.
We moved in together, officially Nov. 1st, and then Dec. 25th he proposed.
Now, 3 months later...he's breaking off the engagement because hes not sure he made the right decision. He tells me he loves me and that I'm perfect but that he's not sure if he's meant for the "MARRIED" life and that I should have the right to know his feelings.
I asked him if he needed space, or wanted to date other people...or if it was another woman.
He said yes to space...mostly because he wants to be fair to me and that its NOT another woman but that he may

2007-04-05 02:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by MissVero 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this woman that blames her failing marriage on her children. her husband has threatened to "leave them". the woman doesn't want to face the responsibility fully, that she and her husband are the ones having problems in the marriage. but in your opinion what are some reasons for it to be okay to blame the children for the failing marriage.

2007-04-05 02:29:22 · 36 answers · asked by pint after pint 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I feel something (mostly physical) attraction when I'm around him. I do feel safe when he holds me. He just seems way more into it than I am... Does love grow over time?

I don't want to let him go, I think he is the perfect guy, but can passion grow over time?

2007-04-05 02:28:33 · 11 answers · asked by Pappers L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 02:24:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Over many years I have been horrible to my wife, who is a lovely person. I deeply regret this and hate myself for it. How best can I make amends and bring some joy and happiness into her life? I think she stopped loving me a long time ago but I don't think she hates me.

2007-04-05 02:23:54 · 21 answers · asked by Dellboy from UK 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

our neighboor asked me if i could show her how to better please her boyfriend and i showed her a few techniques and let her practice on me it was all innocent why is she so mad!

2007-04-05 02:23:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

God Bless and Be Safe :)

2007-04-05 02:23:01 · 11 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 02:21:01 · 19 answers · asked by aish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-05 02:19:38 · 26 answers · asked by Jade 3 in Friends

Heres the story... I met my fiancee when I was 14 years old. We promised to get married when we turned 18. Then I got pregnant with our first child, we have a beautiful little girl who is now 13 months old. I am 17 and pregnant with our second baby. All up to now he has been telling me how happy he is to marry me, but just recently he said he feels like it is coming up too soon. (Which is crazy because I feel like its been an eternity.) We've already started planning the wedding and put a large amount of cash into it. When I ask him if he wants to wait longer he says no. He never likes to be around me anymore, and I can't figure it out. I know he loves me and the kids and I don't want to force him to marry me. Or to just stay together for the kids, but out of love for him I don't want to lose him. I don't know whats gotten into him. He keeps running off with friends when I am at work or at home waiting for him. I don't know what to do.

2007-04-05 02:18:59 · 25 answers · asked by K 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-05 02:18:07 · 11 answers · asked by bustymomlaura 3 in Singles & Dating

This is a worrisome issue to me. I am a newlywed and "certain things" are not happening as frequently as it should. I am so exhausted most of the time. With the move and the job. Cooking, cleaning and all the other things in a day, I am wiped out. We talk on the phone and we talk about the "certain thing" we are going to do at home, but we hit the bed and it is morning. I am one of those people that hate to admit when they need help, but I am very new on this one. Please help. How do you keep the "spark" when you only have the energy for a small flicker. I appreciate your help. Please do not be mean. I really debated to whether I should post this question or not. It is a little embarassing and very sensitive. Thanks for your help.

2007-04-05 02:17:11 · 35 answers · asked by 2fine4u 6 in Marriage & Divorce

well i just wanted to ask yaw do yaw think is bad if you love someone so much you do everything for that person! i do mean everything!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you even perfer them over you family is this bad? do yaw think that loosing all your friendnds for some guy is bad?

2007-04-05 02:12:23 · 9 answers · asked by Lizzie1990 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend finally told me he loves me...things are going well. However, our sex life has never been anything to brag about. And we only have sex when he wants to. Of course I always want to, but thats not the point. we have sex like 2 times a week if I am lucky. we don't live together, but we spend 4 out of 7 night together(sometimes more) Here is an example of my trouble. he had the day off yesterday, and I took off work a little early and we went to the bar for a few drinks. Then we went back to his house so i could make dinner and wait for my kids to get dropped off over there. we had just over an hour before the kids got home and I REALLY wanted to "go to bed" (or living room floor or couch or kitchen counter...) N E way he was like, I came home to have some dinner and watch some TV not to have sex... I feel like he is just not attracted to me...he said thats not it but what else could it be? I have never met a man who wasn't almost always willing

2007-04-05 02:10:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating