I was in a 4 yr relationship and still we talk every day on the phone.I try to let him know in diffrent ways even i date diffrent guys,but he still looks for me!!
I reallyy really want to put a end keep the friendship without talking to him every day.FY: I do not have feelings for him only i care!
Thx
2007-04-05 02:31:45 · 13 answers · asked by anahilda l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be straight up with him and if it winds up hurting him, it might be better than to just lead him on..( not that you are doing that) but he seems to be that he is still interested. sometimes people must get hurt to move on... lots of luck..
2007-04-05 02:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously can't handle being just friends right now, and you're not helping him. Separate completely from him, let him get used to the idea of being without you. Say you need time away from him, no calls, no emails. It will be hard to hurt him like this, but he needs it because you're *killing* him by letting him hang onto calling you every day hoping you'll come back.
Watch his reaction closely. Tell him that if he calls you before you call him, then any hope of a friendship is over. Bring a friend if you need to for backup, but do it. Then give him time to get over you. If you don't, then believe me you are to blame for his misery as much as him.
Then, check on him. Give it a week or two. A month even. He'll be a different man.
And if he can't deal with it, he's a danger to your happiness. I'm sorry to tell you, but you'll need to eject him. Permanently.
2007-04-05 02:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Matthew P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you talk to him, you're telling him there's a chance (in his eyes). It's nice in theory to stay friends with an ex but not very realistic. Not many new boyfriends are gonna be cool w/ you talking to an ex no matter how much you say there's no feelings for him.
2007-04-05 02:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by fiona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try backing off on talking on the phone every day, just don't answer. Be very clear with him that you will never get back together and don't want to waste anymore of his time. He should move on after that.
2007-04-05 02:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by natsuko1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, then this would be the time to put your foot down and take over the situation. Don't take his calls anymore. And if he becomes a pest simply tell him, "we're broken up, I'm moving on with my life, it's time for you to do the same". He'll either get it or he wont. But that's not up for you to fix, it's up to him. Good luck!!
2007-04-05 02:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 06:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is tell him that you dont see him like that... and he needs to let you go.. And say that you just want to be friends...Also try not to talk to him everyday, Because he is probbly thinking that he can get back with you ok....
2007-04-05 02:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by fredeline need's help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont alk to him everyday, talk to him every other day. next time hcalls, say hi honey, sorry i cant talk i'm just leaving with jake, the new guy. catch up another time
2007-04-05 02:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me,?I'm trying to get rid of a ex that broke up with me, how messed up is that!!!!
2007-04-05 02:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sweetface24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you had sex yesterday night with a guy...
2007-04-05 02:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋