Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

My BF & I have been seeing each other for 10 & now he's saying he doesn't know if he can handle a relationship because he wants to get his life in order first. He doesn't like where he lives or where he works so he's trying to get out of those situations, plus he said I'm too emotional 4 him. I know the only reason I'm so emotional is because he talks to other women on the phone all the time. They call his phone. He claims he doesn't call them but he calls them all the time & at unappropriate hours. He says to me what difference does it make if he just talks to them. He said I worry too much about him sleeping with other women, he said he isn't but if he was what difference would that make & how would it have any relevance to how he feels about me. I love him so much but I know I can't handle the other women. Why do men feel the need to talk to so many different women, y can't he be happy with just me the way I'm happy with just him?

2007-04-05 03:18:55 · 19 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 03:18:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why are people so afraid to be open and not care about what others think about what they do or think???

2007-04-05 03:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by thegoods 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since the guys in this town found out I was bi, they woulden't leave me alone but ever since I got a tattoo on my lower back and a belly button pericing it's gotten 5 times worse.

2007-04-05 03:14:58 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i just started going out,its now a week,but we were seeing eachother for 1 month,and i went to mexico on vacation,and i thought it would be nice to get him a little something,so i got him a silver crucifix with a army badge . you guys think it was too son of a gift?

2007-04-05 03:12:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you weren't sure if your girlfriend of a couple months really liked you even though she told you she did, and her friends were always insulting you and saying she didn't, would you dump her so she wouldn't hurt you?

thanks!

2007-04-05 03:11:07 · 12 answers · asked by italiancat73 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean they see you for long term and they want to get to know you? I know it's positive but in men's lingo, what does this mean exactly?

2007-04-05 03:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by It is what it is 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently slapped me and beat me up.Hey says he is really sorry and that he was drunk when he beat me up when I was sleeping.Should I dump him ?

2007-04-05 03:08:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 03:08:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would you go out with me if i wrote poetry or read books or love to make jokes do you think you would still want to heve sex with me

2007-04-05 03:07:46 · 2 answers · asked by irockyourworl156 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what to do about this - I work full time and my husband stays home with the kids. Thats about all he does though. I get home from work and have to clean the house, cook dinner, oversee homework, and keep everything running smoothly. He doesnt do anything to help - he doesnt clean up after himself or help pay any of the bills with the money he does happen to make.
If he gets any money he spends it all on himself immediately without asking if the kids need anything. He wont have anything to do with their care once I get home from work. He wont offer to help me pay the bills even though I've asked him to.There are a lot of other issues that I've tried to address with him but he stomps off, blaming me for bringing it up when he doesnt think there's anything wrong with him getting a free ride.There is no physical relationship or sign of affection at all.
Should I keep trying to get him to care, Is it even really worth it or should I just move on?

2007-04-05 03:07:08 · 39 answers · asked by mizryLayne 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i am tired of being single, been this way for 5 years

2007-04-05 03:06:40 · 4 answers · asked by Dixieland P 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 19 and I live in GA. My bf lives in TN. Things for me down here have been bad and I need a fresh start. I love my parents but I want to live with my bf. I am in college but I won't have enough money by next semester (which is in August) to go back. I am planning on working then going back to college in Spring 2008. My parents are strong Christian people (I'm not) that do not believe you should live with someone before you get married. My bf and I aren't ready for marriage. No matter what, I AM MOVING TO TN. How do I tell my parents??

2007-04-05 03:05:56 · 26 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm very confused at the moment. I have a girlfriend she's a junior in high school and I'm a senior. I've been dating her since she was a freshman. I love her I really do but I'm VERY confused with my feelings right now.

She's perfect at times but at time's she's ....well...not? We have had a lot of arguments lately and I'm going away to college next year she'll be staying here. I went to visit my college and met another girl who is very attractive. I talk to her through IM every once in a blue moon. We only say "HI" It's nothing more then that. She lives about 5 hours away from me at the current moment.

I'm concerned because lately i almost feel like I don't want to be "tied down" I don't want to be in a relationship. I feel like my girlfriend is one of my best friends and our whole relationship has been more of a "best friends" type of thing but with sex. I enjoy going out on dates and taking girls out...many of times she'll say "I don't want to" or "can't we just stay here?"

2007-04-05 03:01:24 · 23 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I need more than two forms of ID?

2007-04-05 02:59:36 · 8 answers · asked by Curtis J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

been with her 4 months and we've done nothing but kiss... i dont mind but i would like to experiment a bit...;)

2007-04-05 02:59:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am recently divorced from an illegal Mexican, and I found that a lot of our problems came from me worrying about his illegal status (getting loans, having children, getting/keeping a job, being deported, missing Mexico and just leaving me, etc.), we also had other problems though. Now, I just so happened to be interested in another Mexican, and I found out that he is also illegal. I really like him and would like a relationship with him, but I don't think I can put myself thru the worry again. How can I tell him that we can still hang out and be a little more than friends but we can't ever have a serious relationship because of his illegal status? I don't want to hurt him or have him not want anything to do with me because of this. Please help!!

IF YOU ARE GOING TO LEAVE A RACIST COMMENT, I'D RATHER NOT HEAR IT, SO JUST KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!

2007-04-05 02:58:42 · 5 answers · asked by Chiquita 3 in Singles & Dating

hey plz help me. i don't know from where my friend (childhood friend) got my personal diary & he read awry thing i wrote NOT only this he came 2 knew my password & he chat with all the boys in my content & told them that i love him. i be came angry & scold him a lot. its frist time in my life that i didn't talk with arnav for 2 days.
and i don't know why m i missing him a lot.
he lives in front of my house,in front of my room this 2 days he was continuosly looking at my window he told me sorry mininum 60 times infact he sang songs 4 me should i forgive him now or should i wait 4 few more days.I M MISSING HIM A LOT!!!!!!!!!! WHY????
WHT SHOULD I DO PLZ HELP PLZ

2007-04-05 02:58:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 02:57:36 · 41 answers · asked by secretly-embrace 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-05 02:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by zebaadam 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to a dance and i have a guy friend that is younger then me and i'm wondering if he could go form gay to strate?

2007-04-05 02:56:02 · 16 answers · asked by thegoods 1 in Singles & Dating

I had to learn on my own about life and relationships. My choices in men have not been great. Fellas what is that you guys want from a woman. Ladies if you know the secrets feel free to share. I keep searching for love in all the wrong places. I feel like I am a good woman, but I have been told that I am too nice. Does men like women to treat them like crap. If they do that is not in my nature. I treat people the way I want to be treated. It seems that the worse you treat a man the better he treats you though. I don't know. I am confused. Please help.

2007-04-05 02:52:05 · 28 answers · asked by kwaniar513 2 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy from work and he really wants to go out with me and have sex but he hasn't got divorce from his wife. I don't know what to do.

2007-04-05 02:52:02 · 13 answers · asked by brianrobertsgurl05 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife thinks i spy on her. I looked at a profile with the name Jennifer. I knew it was not her. She got mad and got on answers and asked a question on my name about me spying on my wife. I do have reason sometimes because she has cheated and when we decided to stay together I told her i could never trust her like i use to. She said we would deal with it. Besides she needs to ask the same question on her own answers id because how did she know i was looking at a profile. She was looking in my profile. I have nothing to keep secret on the computer so she knows my password and i dont get mad. She will change her password if i was to find out hers. I just found out she is bi and wants to have sex with another woman. She is very secretive. What do you think?

2007-04-05 02:51:24 · 28 answers · asked by mojo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

recently my boyfriend asked me to marry him i said yes how do i approch that to my parents im only 18 years old but i want to get married. help how do i do it.

2007-04-05 02:49:40 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really love my gf. she's not a model but ultra hot and pretty smart. the other day we were at the beach and i just felt bad for her. she needs to get back in the gym. how do i get her to do this?

2007-04-05 02:49:29 · 19 answers · asked by wndncwby69 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in my school, i like him and he likes me too, we have spend time talking in the phone and he even tought me how to learn how drive standard car. theres a problem, he was involve with this girl who he's trying to forget about, because she has a man and a baby of her own, he says he's tired of all that and i also have an ex who still comes around once in a while and i still have some feelings for, now, me and this new guy have learned alot about eachother and we like eachother soo much...but there was this one time last week where this girl that he was involved with called him and said that her man had hit her and he ran to her as quick as he could to so call be there for her, he was supposed to be with me at that time, i was so mad that i told him, i wanted nothing to do with him and he got so sad but then he never called again, the next day he was in class with me and he tried talking to me, and i completely ignored him, i text him minutes lata saying i dont want you 2

2007-04-05 02:47:24 · 4 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is a good girl and also a virgin.She's 30 yrs old with a good job and very kind hearted.Well she met this guy 6 months ago and he seemed to be a pretty nice guy.Well she told him she was a virgin up front and he said cool.Now he only calls her once a week,and when she asked if she could go out with him and meet some of his friends he said no.She asked me what's the problem.I called him and he said she makes more than him and child support is eating him up.But they laid all this on the table from the start.I've only been in 2 serious relationships in my life 1 for 12 yrs and the other for 5yrs and I'm 31.So I don't know what to tell her.It sounds like he likes her but do you think he's stringing her along so he can be her 1st?Any ideas?She said she knew about his finicial burden and it's cool,because he's a really nice guy.Should she move on or stay?

2007-04-05 02:45:08 · 20 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Singles & Dating

How to deal with Envy? lack confidence & Anger ? My childhood lack of understanding, love and goods in life..As grown up in 20ies
doing something i like such as traveling, shopping seems like bad things coz i felt don't deserve and will be blame as bad child..

Sometimes I felt so unsafe if i am not cuddling myself alone in bed and dreaming...

I persistantly deny myself to the present moment/Felt wrong to be happy now..and pay for it later... I always feel lost like i dont' know who i am or what kind of greatest goal i should aim for... , don't accept the aspect of myself now (friends, job , place of living) i always think "this is not yet who i am "... and i felt embarass to do as normal people would do like go clubbing, participating some events and traveling with friends...If i did that, it must come from some purposes but i won't be relaxing in such crowded and situations..

My relationship now with family is broken because i decided to do so....

Thanks for reading

2007-04-05 02:43:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-05 02:43:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends