I met this guy from work and he really wants to go out with me and have sex but he hasn't got divorce from his wife. I don't know what to do.
2007-04-05 02:52:02 · 13 answers · asked by brianrobertsgurl05 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take it from one who knows... stay away until he is divorce. Part of an affair is the excitement of sneaking around. One the element of that is gone, it might not be as exciting as before. He may claim differently, but so many affair fizzle out once the divorce is final. Trust me, please break it off. I have since this happen over and over again. It is heartbreaking. You seem to be setting yourself up for heartbreak and years of promises that he "promises to leave her soon." Good luck hon.
2007-04-05 02:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's simple. Don't fall into that trap. He doesn't have the kind of character that would lend itself to showing loyalty toward you. He may want to have sex with you.....but that is probably true with alot of guys that know you. He may not even intend to get a divorce, and even if he does wait until that happens. Otherwise, you risk being the one caught in the middle, being embarrased by the events, and being sucked into to some other couple's drama. He won't be any more protective or loyal toward you than he is his wife. I hope you decide to not go out with a married guy.
2007-04-05 09:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 choices
Sleep with him and live with the consequences that he probably doesnt want to leave his wife but just wants to sleep with you.
Ignore him, he is married. Dont even take a second look
2007-04-05 11:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Life is Wonderful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!
find a single guy to date!
[Not a married one - waiting divorce]
2007-04-05 10:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by birdwatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him get rid of all the issues he has in his life before you date him that way you have a fresh relationship, not one where he moves whatever problems he has his wife taking care of to you.
2007-04-05 09:57:51 · answer #5 · answered by mudd_grip 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what to do. RUN! Fast. Far. If he were worth having sex with, he'd be fair about it and wait until he is free. He wants to screw you in more ways than one. If you get with him, I guarantee you'll get hurt.
2007-04-05 09:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop it right now hes not leaving his wife and if she leaves him he will be with u but he will cheat on u too.plus how would u feel if the man u gave ur life to and promised god to be faithful treated on u.wouldnt u be crushed.plus whatever comes around goes around
2007-04-05 09:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT til the divorce is final!!
2007-04-05 09:56:31 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eh who cares, your not getting married, have a little fun. Try it on top of the copy machine!
2007-04-05 09:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't do it..chances are he's not getting a divorce he's just telling you that so you'll sleep with him.
2007-04-05 10:13:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋