My boyfriend recently slapped me and beat me up.Hey says he is really sorry and that he was drunk when he beat me up when I was sleeping.Should I dump him ?
2007-04-05 03:08:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this your actual question? What happens next time when he gets drunk? Buy you flowers? I don't think so. Leave before everyone sees your picture on the 5 o'clock news.
2007-04-05 03:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend will always be sorry when he does something like that. What will happen the next time he decides to get drunk and you're sleeping? How much are you willing to take? Do you deserve to be beaten? You were sleeping when he did it so how could you possibly have done something to provoke him!!
Your boyfriend needs help that you can't provide. You should not be in a relationship where you are not honored and respected. Too many women make excuses for their men when they're beaten. Don't make that mistake. GET OUT NOW!!
2007-04-05 10:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump Him! Girl cause that's gonna be his excuse every time he gets drunk. They always say they are sorry but do they really mean it is the main question. If he did once, it will happen again so get out of that abusive relationship while you can cause he needs to work on himself before he be with anybody.
2007-04-05 10:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I posted on this issue. Yahoo deleted it. But I will post this up for you. Hope I don't get bumped off here.
If your boyfriend beat you up while he was drunk. He will do it sober! A man who hits a woman is a woman beater.
This is called domestic violence. It is against the law. The reason it is, to keep people from killing each other.
Your life is in great danger. Get away from this man before he kills you.
The end result of domestic violence is: One goes to the cemetery. The other goes to the pen!
The question should be "How much do you value your life?'
2007-04-05 10:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, being around someone who has a tendency to get violent while drunk is not a good idea. Unless he can promise to never get drunk again, I would not give him a second chance.
Keep in mind, if he is willing to change his drinking habits, he may still be good b/f. However, if you are thinking long term, look carefully before deciding. People with violend tendencies don't change that readily without outside help - such as therapy.
2007-04-05 10:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by TMemories 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? Honestly if he got drunk and beat the **** outta you in your sleep hes gonna do it again. So if you feel like being someones punching bag and you like the idea of rocking a black eye then stay. You know what you need to do deep down inside so do it
2007-04-05 10:14:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nukie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats your really your choice but if he beats on you once you kbnow it will happen again how many times does he get drunk ask your self becuase if he drinks all the time or you can stay with hikm and when he starts drinking go to a freinds house then come back when hes not drunk anym,ore or you can leave but ask yourself will he beat on me again hmm onlky you can awnser that but i vote leave on him before things get worse and you end up with all kinds of bruisees i used to be in that kind of situationan d im only 17 i have been in that kind of sistuation where the boyfreind gets so drunk that he pulls out a gun and puts it to your head because hes drunk and you dont want to have sex with him when he s drunk then he shhots himself in the middle of the nikght but im glad i left that realition ship i found a good caring man who never gets drunk and his name is nathan nichols my savior
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2007-04-05 10:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by irockyourworl156 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL FOR THE SAFETY OF YOU I THINK YOU SHOULD LET HIM GO. I SAY THAT BECAUSE IF HE GETS DRUNK AGAIN HE COULD ALSO BEAT YOU UP AGAIN. WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AN ARE NOT TO GET BEAT UP ON. I MEAN I BELIEVE IN SECOND CHANCES BUT FOR THE SAFETY OF YOU GET OUT. TELL HIM TO GET HELP. THAT IS CRAZY. TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH PEOPLE REAL SIDE COME OUT WHEN THEY ARE DRUNK. BE CAREFUL THAT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART.
2007-04-05 10:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, Sweety, Please wake up, when I was a child my best friends dad would beat the crap out of her mom and she would leave him and promise that she wasn't going to take him back and she always ended up taking him back because he always propmised he wasn't going to do it again and he would blame it on him being drunk well if drinking does that to you then maybe you shouldn't be drinking. Needless to say when we where 15 he killed her mom and then himself. It was all over the news in my hometown. DO you want to be dead on the 5 O' clock news? If not then you know what it is you need to do, honestly I think that you know in your heart what you need to do.
2007-04-05 10:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by mrsknowitall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It might have really been an accident but he doesnt need to be getting drunk and acting like that. I am sure that you will make it without him. Just remember that it is better to have loved and lost, than to not love at all.
2007-04-05 10:13:32 · answer #10 · answered by Hillary Nance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋