Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

So, what legally can I do?

2007-04-05 07:06:14 · 27 answers · asked by lovepaigenicole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband make my son feel guilty for loving his mother.He makes my son feel like he has to choose all the time.When i do something for my son or get him something when i give it to him my husband says daddy got that for you before i can say anything. when my son huggs me or says mom i love you my husband call to him and start hugging him and telling how much he loves him ,he acts as if it bothers him for my son to love me ,its like he is making him choose all the time, and has went to extreams to make the fact clear,he makes my son feel guilty for showing affectshion for his mother.The other day my son said mom i want to hug you before dad gets home,thats how bad its gotten.I have told im what he doing to our child and he doesnt stop.The same with discipline if i tell my son he cant he says he can.its i do my very best not feed into crazyness,I will not play tug of war with my son.I love my husband but i do not want to scarfic my son mental health .What should i do

2007-04-05 07:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by bree167 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married in June. We are paying for mostly everything. my family is helping out with decorations, flowers, and other little things. My gandmother wanted to help so we told her she could do the reherasl dinner if she wanted to, and she was really glad she could help out. i know the grooms family is supposed to pay for the rehersal dinner, but every time we talk to them they dont even metion the wedding or ask if they can help. its not that they dont like us being together, they love me. but they are the kind of people if it does not directly effect them they dont care. should we ask them for help, we could uses it, . Or should i just not worry about it. oh by the way they havent even made plans to come down here yet, get a hotel or anything. they expect to stay at our house, and me and him get a hotel. i am not really complaining, we dont mnd getting a hotel, and our house is big enough for all them to stay there, so it is like our gift to them so they dont have to pay for a hotel room. because 1 room is better than having to find them 10. but should people expect that, i just find them to be rude.

2007-04-05 07:03:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My girlfriend and I have been dating for years, and she often came to my place. I didn't mind doing the cooking and cleaning most of the time because it was my place. But now, after four years, she has moved in. She does almost nothing. We've had so many arguments about it where I feel disrespected. She always says that it will be better soon, but that doesn't happen. Even after writing down the chores that we are going to do, she doesn't do them, or after I'll cook, she'll say, "I'll do the dishes tomorrow," and then she doesn't at least 50% of the time. She'll let them sit for days until I do them. In the first four years, she never once took out the trash, swept the floor, or vacuumed. Now she only does it when I have to bring it up and we argue. I don't want to break up, so is there a way that works for you and your mate/spouse that makes him/her follow through without a resentful attitude? I don't want to seem controlling. I'm being reasonable, right?

2007-04-05 07:02:30 · 1 answers · asked by ja3po 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i feel very weak. She started dating another guy soon after we broke up (2days). I love her so much that she is all i know for 3 years. Now everything i do is new. Hanging out with friends feels wierd, playing sports is not the same. Its been a month now and i havent seen her or talked to her. and the funny thing is that she lives right next to me. The fact is that i am trying to move on but everyday it gets worse. I am trying to forget her but this is the most difficult thing. i have had so many injuries in my life but nothing compares to the pain i feel in my heart for this girl. I love this girl folks! i love her. should i... i dunno. what do you think is best for me at this point. contact her or let her be. ladies? any suggestions?

2007-04-05 07:01:19 · 15 answers · asked by Lord_poseidon 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have had our fair share of problems in our marriage. I am 23 and she is 22, her family lives in a different state that mine. I'll admit I've been the cause of ALOT of our arguements and problems. She went to visit family and we got into an arguement and she said she wanted to split up. I've been trying for 6 weeks to get her to come back but says shes not sure if she can take the chance of things turning out the same way again between us. I've been trying my hardest to convince her that I can change and our marriage can work. I'm so scared of being alone and having to start over again. I don't know how I will handle it if we divorce. I've mentioned coming to see her, but I don't think she wants that. I'm just so worried about all of this. I need some help/advice/support. Thanks everyone.

2007-04-05 07:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by Jon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it is a really sweet gesture,

I know that was a famous pic of Beckham kissing posh spice on the forehead

Thanks

2007-04-05 07:00:12 · 28 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Singles & Dating

Earlier this week I was telling me best friend about a conversation I had with a male friend of mind. He asked how I was doing and what was wrong so I explained my events for that day. Instead of reply he just talked about what he should wear the next day. I got frustrated because I was explaining for about five minutes. Then there was a long pause. I was explaining to my best friend that we lack communication in our friendship and she said that males have exceptions on what kind of problems they want to hear eventhough they asked. Is that true? How can you be my friend if I can't talk to you about my situations no matter what it is?

2007-04-05 06:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Lady T 1 in Singles & Dating

could it be that I no longer turn him on? Could it be something going on with him??/Has this happened to anyone before??This has happened 2 nights in a row and it makes me feel like something is wrong with me....HELP

2007-04-05 06:54:43 · 3 answers · asked by destinyzangel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you spend it on for fun? At that age....I doubt I can still go out and party ....rent a yacht out ....strippers...drugs....all the vices are only fun when ur young rite? What do old people do for fun when they got sooo much money? what would you do? And dont say give it away because thats already assumed with family and the needy. So again....what would u do with 4 million at age 60?

2007-04-05 06:50:12 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night me and my husband was aruging, and there was this girl on this gaiaonline.com site that left a comment on my page and I thought that my husband knew her on gaia.. and he said no i asked him check his page to see.. i did not excuse him of cheating and he actuomaticly thought i was,,

because he cahnged his pass's to all sites and emails, and i told him a few times thought he was cheating on me, and then he said he doesnt know if he'll be with me and I'm worried.. I love him so much.. we were at his moms while this happened.. and he is working right now.. i dont know if he's coming over here after work or not.. because he has to because only way to get anywhere. his moms bf is working till 8 and he takes a taxi here because its only 5 mins away...

i really love him. i cant talk to him much becasue he gets mad, and he said he has think things through.. he done this before and came back.. on worse terms .. this time was just a arguemtn..

plz help me and give me advice

2007-04-05 06:48:36 · 14 answers · asked by [*Chrissy*] 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Know a woman she is very attractive and very flirtatious. Have slept with her a number of occassions (as well as with her other very attractive roommate sometimes at the same time.) Now she is saying things like wanting to date and be exclusive (I know that sounds veyr high schoolish). Should there be a pursuit or just go about normal business and not date formally?

2007-04-05 06:44:32 · 1 answers · asked by bookworm019 3 in Singles & Dating

Well i know this sounds weird but my boyfriend likes when i am jealous..the thing is i am not too of a jealous person but he is def....like its bad...but i love him very much..however he likes to tell me if a girl says hi to him or if some girl dont like him blah blah...well this girl at college was walking with him and she said boy your gf must hate me...then he told me that she said that...im thinking ok obviously she must think that i have a reason to hate her right?,,,but i let it slide...so my bf has this class with her and he texts me and was supersweet in his texts(keep in mind we had fight last night)..but then i g et this one text that says....i need to tell u something asap..i was like umm what?..and he goes mary ( the girls name) told me she has a crush on me...so how should i react...bc i am jealous..i know nothing to worry about but idk..

2007-04-05 06:41:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, he is moving away in 2 months and we are going to stay together and enjoy our time together until then for sure. But, there is a possibility that he will be able to move back in 6 months by becoming emancipated... should we stay together until we both find out for sure if he is going to become emancipated and then break up if it turns out he is going to stay there? i readlly dont know what to do about this plkease help me!!

2007-04-05 06:41:00 · 1 answers · asked by shannon b 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I are only have a maid of honor and best man in our wedding (my sister and his brother). We aren't really having an actual rehearsal so do we need a rehearsal dinner? and if so who gets invited? is it okay to say no kids?!!?

2007-04-05 06:39:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My friend or 12 yrs just emailed me to say that she is pissed with me for adding her ex-husband to my Myspace friends list. I honestly thought she was joking and she went nuts on me! I have known them both for 12yrs and they were only together 18 months back 11yrs ago! They had one child back then and she has not been in her sons life the whole time. Her ex has been raising the child alone, and the child, is also friends with my sons. I can't understand why this is a problem. She knew we were friends before and now she is pissed I added him to my list. I'm not going to delete him because he moved clear acrossed the state and it is the only way I know he is coming to town so our kids can play together. He also used to be my husbands best friend when they were younger. We are all 28 years old and I think her behavior is really immature. She knows I would never hit on any of her exs. I'm not going to apologize for it. What could possibly be going on here? Was I wrong?

2007-04-05 06:37:58 · 1 answers · asked by Destiny 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well the thing is, my cousin introudced me to this lad and i really like him, we see eachother alot around college and he told me over MSN that he liked me so i told him i felt the same way. (i know alot about him & he knows alot about me) Anyway were meeting eachother in July because he has a free house & we have said that we are going to have sex, the thing is im a virgin and he isnt but i felt dead embarassed by saying i was a virgin so i told him im not. i really want to do this but i am getting embarassed incase i get it wrong, what can i do? I'm 17 by the way and i like him alot so i want to do this. I don't want to tell him that i have lied to him about being a virgin or else he will think he can't trust me. I'm really looking forward to my first time but scared incase i screw it up.

2007-04-05 06:36:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 06:31:26 · 38 answers · asked by Diane T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you and your husband/wife have a joint checking account? If so, how do you not overdraw? What are some of the benefits of each? Personal experience gladly welcome. Thanks!!

2007-04-05 06:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by RJ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-05 06:22:14 · 38 answers · asked by Amanda X 2 in Family

I once had a first date that ended with a romantic walk on the beach. As i said look at that beautiful sun set, she looked up just in time to get bird crap right between the eyes.
Needless to say, there was no second date.
So tell me your story.

2007-04-05 06:22:07 · 7 answers · asked by Jim Justice 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 06:21:27 · 44 answers · asked by Trikki 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 06:12:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im a guy. my friend is a girl. We are in school. weve been friends for like 10 years. The last few days though ive been noticing she is getting very close to my face. She touching me. Yesterday at lunch she ask me to sit exactly directly next to her. like right over her. She has had the same boyfriend for two years but were fine.

So two questions?

I just need to know are these just signs that shes very comfortable with me and is trying to be closer. or is it something else.

Another question, i said that we were sitting directly next to each other. I got up for a minute. When i came back i sat aside from as to being right next to her. Did this affend her in any way.

2007-04-05 06:08:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am never failing him though but a little amazed, does anyone exist to trust anyone blindly even if they like one another so much?
P.S I like him as well but I had bad experience and can't easily trust anyone easily.

2007-04-05 06:07:43 · 18 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

Having a wedding at a library in Chicago....I've been toying with some ideas like antique or old world candelabras with some ivy greens and rose petals surrounding the base, and for added height...placing the candelabras on varying heights of stacks of old books per table.

Does that sound good? Should the candelabras match or should I have a variety? And other ideas with library-theme??

Thanks for you help!

2007-04-05 06:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by bubbadoy 1 in Weddings

What is happening to marriages today?
Is it slowly becoming extinct?
What's your opinion?

2007-04-05 06:04:13 · 41 answers · asked by Superman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me n ma bf have been together 10months and lately i feel like im only 18 and im already settled down for life. I love ma bf to bits but feel like im missing out on life. I know cheating isnt the right option but ive done it 3 times, just coz i feel like im missing out. Im scared im never gunna have that new relationship feeling, or kiss any1 else, or date anyone else or even sleep with any1 else. And i know this aint a bad thing coz hes great but im gunna think forever that ive missed out on life. Do i stay with this lad n fell ive missed out on life. Or do i leave him and risk the chance of never havin any1 like this again. My head feels like this *&!*"&£(*$)$(£"("(. Lolz x

2007-04-05 06:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Claireluvsyaxx 2 in Singles & Dating

i know that everyone have atleast one in life,i just want to know that its more embrassing then mine or not nd i will tell u my embrassing moment while i select best answer

2007-04-05 06:02:59 · 14 answers · asked by ansh s 1 in Friends

10% of your wedding budget sounds like a lot of money when you hear it, but would you consider the extra help for you, your family and guests if they were willing to bring down the price and work within your budget?

It's great to have family and friends help, but wouldn't it be nice to have the extra help so they can enjoy themselves?

2007-04-05 06:02:34 · 14 answers · asked by MICHELL G 1 in Weddings