Was I wrong... I don't see why it is suddenly a problem?

Question

My friend or 12 yrs just emailed me to say that she is pissed with me for adding her ex-husband to my Myspace friends list. I honestly thought she was joking and she went nuts on me! I have known them both for 12yrs and they were only together 18 months back 11yrs ago! They had one child back then and she has not been in her sons life the whole time. Her ex has been raising the child alone, and the child, is also friends with my sons. I can't understand why this is a problem. She knew we were friends before and now she is pissed I added him to my list. I'm not going to delete him because he moved clear acrossed the state and it is the only way I know he is coming to town so our kids can play together. He also used to be my husbands best friend when they were younger. We are all 28 years old and I think her behavior is really immature. She knows I would never hit on any of her exs. I'm not going to apologize for it. What could possibly be going on here? Was I wrong?

Answer 1

It is espacially with the lack of being in the kids life, ouch, horriable... man eww.... but really would explain why she acts this way... hmmm how much do you know about what broke up that family this bad? Was it cheating? Ether way she doesn't trust you/she is intimadated by you... one way or another... I'd go with the fact she is intimadated by you because your able to have healthy relationships with people, shoot her ex-husban for one, and she isn't. You have to realize she's never going to get over the failure, how could she? And you having him around you and being her friend is just some strange way she can still keep a relationship.... really strange... but different strokes for different folks.... I would cut this one out as soon as I could, if not for this ridculious transgression (she dislikes herself, but is transfering it to you so she doesn't have to blame herself for nothing) I would of cut her off because of the kiddo thats just sick.... not worth your time or your concern really the history with this one couldn't of been all that good or that intense for her to act this way now... I mean, man diss a kid? That person is eather extremely insecure are has intense detachment disorder, because thats beyond the ability of most individuals....