Me n ma bf have been together 10months and lately i feel like im only 18 and im already settled down for life. I love ma bf to bits but feel like im missing out on life. I know cheating isnt the right option but ive done it 3 times, just coz i feel like im missing out. Im scared im never gunna have that new relationship feeling, or kiss any1 else, or date anyone else or even sleep with any1 else. And i know this aint a bad thing coz hes great but im gunna think forever that ive missed out on life. Do i stay with this lad n fell ive missed out on life. Or do i leave him and risk the chance of never havin any1 like this again. My head feels like this *&!*"&£(*$)$(£"("(. Lolz x
2007-04-05 06:04:07 · 14 answers · asked by Claireluvsyaxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have actually been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years now and im only 18 and yeah i felt the same way u did but if u really think about it in the long run whos really missing there are girls thatwould die for what we have (long term boyfriend)and yeah if u feel like he cockblockin then let him go or jus have him go out with u ...so u can experience everything together
2007-04-05 06:11:48 · answer #1 · answered by izzy 2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me You have to know whats goin on in life. Tell your BF that you just need like 3 to 5 months to recognize your life and find what you are looking for. if the time is not enough look for you meaning in life together. If you do the 2nd one it's just like having a date with him and realizing the world at the same time. If he does not want the idea why won't he show you what you have been missing out. Help each other to look for what your looking for in life. But it is still your choice. Peace out!
2007-04-05 06:14:02 · answer #2 · answered by s l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be tied down with any one person. Yes you are missing out of life, but not the one you are thinking. Stop thinking with that thing between your legs and start with your brain. You are missing out on an education (clearly from your grammar and spelling), the excitement of seeing new places and people. The whole world is out there for you and you don't seem to care. Really sad if you want to know.
2007-04-05 06:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not love him all that much to have cheated on him. The best thing to do is to break it off now. Explore life. There are plenty of years and men to figure out the rest in their own proper time.
2007-04-05 06:08:30 · answer #4 · answered by ciberpunk1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about only sleeping with one person for life, but you should get to know many other young men before you settle down with the one for you. Tell him you would like to take a short break to get to know other guys, just to satisfy your curiosity before settling down with him.
2007-04-05 06:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the only thing yo have with this guy is a relationship. Otherwise, you wouldn't be cheating. Otherwise, you wouldn't have these doubts. If the only reason your staying with him is because of the word "relationship" then that's not enough.
2007-04-05 06:09:15 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you have told your bf that you have cheated. He deserves to know and have the right to break up with you. Besides that you need to break it off. If your cheating already your not worth his time
2007-04-05 06:08:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him. you're talking about how you don't want to be tied down and you've cheated because you feel like you're missing out. that's not fair to treat your bf that way and you should break up
2007-04-05 06:08:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 18. Why exactly do u have a bf?
2007-04-05 06:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by sinkablehail1978 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you guys need to take a break so you can figure out what you want and where you are going in life
2007-04-05 06:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋