Family & Relationships - 5 April 2007

2007-04-05 04:40:33 · 9 answers · asked by Prettygirl08 1 in Weddings

My BF & I got into a big fight because he said that love is not his focus right now. I understand that he is trying 2 take care of his brother and himself & better his living situation he said that comes first & that I'm too needy & I'm hindering what he's trying 2 do.

I was devastated because I'm in his corner more so than anybody right now, I love him dearly & there will never be another man 4 me. I told him that I wanted him to know that I will always love him & that I was always true. I told him I wanted him to know that about me & always remember that about me. He kept asking me why would I say something like that & I told him that I just wanted him to know & he kept asking me y, he said there had to be a y behind it & I kept telling I just wanted him to know.

I kept telling him that I felt when it comes down to it I know he won't want to be with me in the long run & I that I couldn't stand 2 c him with another woman. Y did he keep thinking there was something more 2 it

2007-04-05 04:38:39 · 1 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so yestday I was rear ended and i had to go to the hospital. Okay here is the sitiation:

My grandma had stopped the car because she just got off the high way. My bro and I were in the back seat. Then A car hit us so hard that it stamped our lisence plate number to the back of our car. She said she dropped her earing and didn't bother stopping. We went to the hospital for like 1 or 2 hours. We were fine except we hit our heads. Hard. So we got home. And another guy almost hit us when we were going to get lunch and my dad honked loud. And then later this other girl was leaving a parking lot the wrong way and almost hit my mom and dad's car.

Okay now you know the situation. My question is my friends keep asking me when I get back why I was not at school. I tell them I am sick and I know someone will ask why I was gone and I don't want to tell them I was rear ended because I don't want people feeling sorry for me. Can you help. Also I am still paranoid that.....

2007-04-05 04:38:17 · 1 answers · asked by SuP3RmAn67 2 in Friends

2007-04-05 04:33:39 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been talking to a guy off and on for the last 5 months and he hasnt tried anything. And I appreciate the fact that he hasnt pressured me for sex. But at the same time that doesnt mean that I dont want him to touch me at all. He hasnt event tried to kiss me. (Other than a peck ont he cheek) and I dont mean to toot my own horn, but I am a VERY attractive girl and I am told that constantly by both men and women. So I know his attraction to me is not an issue. He makes sexual comments all the time but never acts on them and is a gentlemen as far as his actions. So, everone tell what you think is up with this guy. Can a girl just get a kiss please??? LOL....

2007-04-05 04:32:58 · 36 answers · asked by Bird 3 in Singles & Dating

Anyone interested in meeting friends to have normal intelligent conversation to talk about normal, everyday live and normal conversation ages 30-45. You can find plenty of cyberchat on other sites. I'm just looking for interesting people to talk to to get opinions etc.

2007-04-05 04:32:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is leaving for school in August, he will be gone for 4 years and will be across the US in NC while i am back home in CA. july will be our 2 years together. my problem is my boyrfriend does not like to talk about what is going to happen, he always trys to avoid the subject when i try to talk to him about school and what is going to happen. last year around march we had broken up for a short while becuase of the same topic, but originally he was supposed to go to san diego this past fall but had a change of plans. should i be expecting a break up in a few months? or what do u think i should do? i mean our relationship is not on rocks or anything, we arent having any problems. its just he closes up when it comes to talking about him leaving, but it doesnt help that he doesnt like to show emotion very much either... is there anyone who is going through or has gone through the same thing that can help me out?

2007-04-05 04:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by AsH 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my ex have two boys together and we split up about five months ago. i have been giving her money for support towards our kids. she lives in indiana and i'm in michigan. there IS NOT a court order for support. she is going for state aid. my question is can i be in violation of back support or does there have to be a court order in place first? i don't want to go to jail for giving the money to her instead of the court but, we aren't in the court system yet. how does this work?

2007-04-05 04:31:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need an adults opinion on this letter. Prefereably a female (i need a females perspective). Basically, my friend (who is my ex) accused me of really rotten stuff. She also told me she never wants to speak to me again. I didnt do anything but shes being stubborn and wont give me an opportunity to explain my side. I am writing a letter so i can at least give my side and hopefuly rectify the situation. I will at least get some closure. Will you proof read it, I dont want her to misconstrue what I was trying to say.

2007-04-05 04:31:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I make my guy go Crazier 4 me? How can I get him really excited when text messaging? Also, have u ever gone down on a girl? What did u like about doing that? thanks
Nann

2007-04-05 04:30:55 · 12 answers · asked by Nancy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 04:30:36 · 12 answers · asked by samurai196904 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 04:30:13 · 25 answers · asked by tony t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 16 yrs old gal from delhi. i dont feel living any more as i am very much lonely n also i dont have much good n close frnds. i m in search of a elder sister i need her love n care n for this i cant talk to my parents as i mnot much close to them. plz help before i do something.. m really upset n sad. i need an elder sister

2007-04-05 04:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by nice gal 1 in Family

i had found out that one of my guy friends who i care very much for had bought a ring. i know he has a gf and the ring was for 200. he told me that he wasn't getting married he got it for his mom. i looked up the ring and he was telling me the truth that i know of. but just in case i told him i would support him no matter what he choose and not to rush into things. he hasn't been with this girl every long. i just don't want her to hurt him cuase if she does they i have to pick up the pieces. you think i should trust him

2007-04-05 04:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

its like she has destroyed me in every way possible and i should be happy to be free, but i have dated a few girls since and i dont have the connection with them, i really feel bad about it, but im just not happy with them, i have a new girlfreind now and she lives in japan, we have met and its great, she wants me to go to japan but i just dont feel what i had wih my ex wife? is that normal or is it just how the saying goes "time is the healer" HELP!!!!!

2007-04-05 04:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by tresflip1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law, Jess, has a sister, Rose, who lives with her and my brother - for the past year. since Rose's family is all in wash. and i am on the east coast, rose has been coming to all family events, and acts like she is family, which i resent, but hide it to make life go smoothly. Should i invite her to the wedding so i don't get asked why i didn't? I really just kinda want to ask her to be like a nursery attendant for my many nieces and nephews, who will be coming to the wedding for pics and such... HELP!!!

2007-04-05 04:21:54 · 67 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

there is this guy im attracted to and he's always trying to get my attention and talks to me a lot and when we talk he stares deep into my eyes and stands really close to me what does this mean? im confused...

2007-04-05 04:21:52 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

20 yrs because he made her stay home w/the kids. She has no education, skills....,she cheated on him and almost left her but she asked for a second chance, he can't abandon his kid.... he also said it's cheaper to keep her... They don't spend time together. He's my buddy and I'm falling for him. He doesn't know this. In the back of my mind, I'm waiting for him to become available... he's not leaving her right?

2007-04-05 04:21:46 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a super quiet person, barely anyone knows well. My bf is one of the very few people who I can be myself around. Sometimes I get angry with him easily. I think it is because I do not let many people see any negative side of me he tends to get most of it. I feel REALLY bad about this because I love him with all my heart. What can I do?

2007-04-05 04:21:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Background: Dated someone for 6 months. He dropped me like a hot potato when we started getting close b/c he just wasn't ready yet.

Two years go by and he asked me to meet him for drinks, at which point he apologized for what he did to me. He wished that he had never broke it off and wanted to try again.
At the end of that night we kissed but I told him I didn't have the same butterflies that I did when we were together. I guess I was still really hurt.

Recently he called me for a "work-related" favor and he didn't ask me out or anything but I can't stop thinking about him. Seriously, am I smokin' crack wanting to go out w/ him again?

Should I ask him out or do you think he's just looking to pass time with someone he's familiar with for a bootie call?

2007-04-05 04:20:48 · 68 answers · asked by tilley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 04:20:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always meet weird crazy men. They say alot then they let me down. How do I meet a decent man.

2007-04-05 04:20:25 · 17 answers · asked by pate pie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i am 16 yrs ol gal from delhi n searching for elder sister. since childhoos i am search in a sister i really need one siser to love n care for me . i feel so lonely every time i am unable to concentrate as i am always in search of a sister i am very much upset n sad . plzzzzzzz help me out. i have 1 elder bro

2007-04-05 04:20:19 · 3 answers · asked by nice gal 1 in Family

2007-04-05 04:20:17 · 18 answers · asked by sticky nikki 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi I need advise on how to handle and nasty disrespectful 16 yr old who thinks her Dad should have no life until she's grown. She is very hateful towards me and uses myspace to tell the world about me and my personal business. HELP !!! I'm at my wits end.

2007-04-05 04:18:47 · 24 answers · asked by Marcie D 1 in Family

my husband is a recovering alcoholic and has been clean for 9 months. Our family's Easter celebration is going to held at my sister's home and she drinks alcohol and is expecting in-laws and friends who do the same. my husband is hesitant to attend because he is still "weak" and sometimes still wants to drink (we have 4 children) but thinks about what he'd be losing. so this is my question: am I wrong in not attending and supporting his decision and spending Easter with my husband and kid's or is my family right in saying that I should go to my sister's for a while anyway? (and i don't want to hurt my sister's feelings by asking for the celebration to be moved to another's home. and i don't want to offend her by asking for a no alcohol day.)

2007-04-05 04:18:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-04-05 04:16:52 · 19 answers · asked by harmony 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Can you really see forever in someone's eyes?

2007-04-05 04:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-05 04:15:25 · 5 answers · asked by cathleen e 2 in Family

my girls are 13 and 11 and we have been married 6 yrs, this is their step dad but they love him alot. How do you tell them???

2007-04-05 04:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by B V 5 in Marriage & Divorce