do emotional affairs last when a wife leaves her husband and kids to live with a much older man shes 34 hes 62

Answer 1

Divorce her immediately..

Answer 2

You're a good man. Even though your wife did that to you, you are still willing to work things out. You must love her a great deal... I'm sorry that had to happen. How did you find out about this? Did your wife tell you? Based on what you told us, I'm sorry to say that I don't think your wife is worth it anymore (I could be wrong, I dunno all the details). It's not like she came crying to you and told you she was sorry and it won't happen again right? The fact that she is hesitant means that she is seriously considering leaving you--something that really doesn't make much sense though if you think about it. What can the 18 yr old give her other than sex? And she's not getting any younger. He could leave her anytime. And knowing this, your wife still hesitates. There must be something else. Have you had problems over the years that haven't been addressed? You love her but I'm afraid she doesn't love you as much anymore. There could be a deeper problem here. Sorry.

Answer 3

I don t think, she being with an older man is the issue here, I think she leaving her kids beheld is the issue, if the marriage was shaking ,she could have file for divorce and the both party will decide who the kids are going with or visitation date, but she leaving the kids is something I will and can never do.. the husband in the other hand should tell people what happen, be fore the wife left. because it is important to hear both side of the story befor giving out judgement.. I

Answer 4

It depends on the the parties involved as to whether or not it will last. Emotional affairs involve much stronger bonds that physical ones; however, many affairs lose their appeal when they are brought to light as they are no longer forbidden fruit. The relationship then is forced from a fantasy of what could be if only they were together to the reality and all of its repercussions and problems.

For her to choose a man that is old enough to be her father likely means she has some deep seated emotional problems and needs counseling to sort them out. Hopefully, for the sake of the children, she will.

Answer 5

There's no way for anyone to answer that, it all depends on the people and circumstances. I think 34 and 62 is a huge age difference, but that doesn't mean it won't work.

When a marriage fails, both partners need to time to work through their issues before they jump into another relationship. Unresolved feelings often cause problems in future relationships.

If a woman leaves her husband and children for someone else (let alone someone so much older), I wouldn't bet on that relationship lasting. However, that doesn't mean it won't - I've been wrong before!

Answer 6

Affairs are romantic and are without responsibilities.
They are adult play time.
So when they cross over to day to day life they stop being fun and start being work.
Affairs are escapes from everyday problems and responsibilities.
If the affair turns into a real relationship then the problems usually come back.

A 62 year old man is NOT going to spend his retirement money on a woman, but he will lie to her.

Answer 7

Tony...Tony...Tony, you must be a real piece of work for you wife to have left you and the kids. Either that or Mr. 62 has a great personality, plenty of money and is hung like a horse.

It's more than emotional...trust me, there is plenty of physical sex going on too. I imagine your soon to be ex wife is a pretty happy lady right now.

Answer 8

"Emotional affairs"? Clearly you are in denial if you think he isn't hitting it with your wife. A 34 year old women is looking for sex and he is supplying all she can handle.

She has done you and the family wrong, she doesn't respect you or the marriage. Your wife isn't worth you effort or thoughts, divorce her now and take her to the cleaners in court...the tramp.

Answer 9

If this lady was willing to leave her children for an affair then she is no type of woman atall. Self centred and very selfish!! I think the husband deserves so much better!!

Answer 10

You don't need her in your life. If you're the 62 year old, if she can leave her husband for you, she can leave you. You really need to find out what's the deal with her.

Answer 11

Age doesn't come into it, there are happily married couples, and non-happily married couples, with significant age gaps i am sure--the point is NOT to have affairs--(on a mental OR a physical level)--in any relationship, period. Zero tolerance on cheating from me i'm afraid.