I always meet weird crazy men. They say alot then they let me down. How do I meet a decent man.
2007-04-05 04:20:25 · 17 answers · asked by pate pie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
decent men have gone looking for the decent women... try being one for a change
2007-04-05 04:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a couple of reasons why this maybe happening.
1. you may be crazy and weird too. like attracts like.
so work on yourself.
2. Stop looking for decent men in the same places.
if you meet the crazy ones in a bar stop going to the bar,
if you meet them onthe internet, well stop meeting them
on the internet.
The best way to find a decent man is by doing your everyday things. they are in the supermarket or at the bookstore .
More importantly stop looking and if you are decent they will come to you.
2007-04-05 04:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ready for the answer? here goes:
THEY ARE IN EUROPE! Trust me, I am an american black girl and I have dated every race here! well except asian and I have to tell you American men dont hold a candle to European men. European men are respectful, sweet charming and romantic and funny and intelligent and they cook! Go to europe on vacation and you'll find one try croatia, france or Italy. Oh and whatever you do don't listen to the " you cant look for them let them find you crap". When you are working 9-5 and then going home to eat dinner and crash in bed , ( and you arent alowed to date anyone at work), they will not find you! You have to take proavtice steps by signing up with a Match.com or EHarmony as well as going out to the gym or to places that interest you ... while also looking for Mr. Right while heading to and from these places and looking for him while youre at these places. Start with what physically attracts you then try to find out if there is a real engine under that hood ( a brain with a decent personality and a heart of gold). You can even approach first with something subtle. Goodluck!
2007-04-05 04:44:48 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships and marriages are only happy and successful if both partners are willing to work hard, keep set routines, have regular conferences before problems arise, take quality time together and time apart and above all show love and respect for one another. If you keep this in mind, you will never think of looking for a woman of your dream at a disco or in a bar. There certainly is a little chance to meet at a place like this, but very few chances that this relationship will continue.
2007-04-05 04:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is... you cannot focus on looking for a decent man, let him find you. Believe me they are out there, I have one myself- he came along when I was tired of men and thought they were all the same. One will come along when you are least expecting it. You just need to focus on your life and getting to know yourself, don't waste/spend all your time searching for that special someone, have self respect and others will respect you as well :)
2007-04-05 04:36:55 · answer #5 · answered by Heatha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decent nice men are being hurt and cheated on every day until they crack and become the bad boys women are attracted to.
It doesn't take long to become a bad boy, but it could take years to heal and become nice again.
2007-04-05 04:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The decent men are all at home on YA.
2007-04-05 04:33:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mike Oxard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say how old you are so Ill just say this Keep looking Im decent but Im married so what does that tell you !
2007-04-05 04:25:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the first answer,decent men like decent women that's why they're not with you.
2007-04-05 06:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They're marrying decent women.
2007-04-05 04:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋