i had found out that one of my guy friends who i care very much for had bought a ring. i know he has a gf and the ring was for 200. he told me that he wasn't getting married he got it for his mom. i looked up the ring and he was telling me the truth that i know of. but just in case i told him i would support him no matter what he choose and not to rush into things. he hasn't been with this girl every long. i just don't want her to hurt him cuase if she does they i have to pick up the pieces. you think i should trust him
2007-04-05 04:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink....Geniuses can act pretty dumb when in love, chances are your friend is not thinking clearly, his emotions are doing that for him, but even then, all you can do is that he owes her and himself to take the time to think carefully about a life changing decision. Tell him to allow himself time to get it right, good things come to those who wait, and his relationship still needs to grow a little more before it can bloom into the next face....in other words, let it play out a bit longer.
2007-04-05 04:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by swordlord23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry. if he's only paying $200 for an engagement ring, he's only hurting himself. it must be for his mom. but why should you suspect she might hurt him at this point anymore than he could end up hurting her. it sounds like you probably have stronger feelings than you're letting on. i'm not sure where the question of "should you trust him" even comes into this.
2007-04-05 04:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dimmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter whether your friend chooses to marry this girl or not, it's his choice. Just be there as his friend. That's what matters most.
2007-04-05 04:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Josette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to rush, then he will, and if you are his friend you will be there to help him if he needs it, you never know she might be the best thing for him.
2007-04-05 04:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its his life, let him live it. And yes you will pick up the pieces, but isn't that what friends are for and wouldn't you want your friend to do the same.
2007-04-05 04:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elvira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
* Mind your own buisness if wants to tell you something he will tell you *
2007-04-05 04:38:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋