why are people so afraid to be open and not care about what others think about what they do or think???
2007-04-05 03:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by thegoods 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because theyre like that? iunno
most people say they don't care when they truly do
i think they'd do better if they didnt lie to others, let alone themselves.
2007-04-05 07:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by somethingsovague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've thought about this for quite a while...and I realized. What's the need to be openly gay? As in you ANNOUNCE it to the world? Just tell them you're gay when they ask. Not even before they think about it.
And frankly, as my mom put it, people who say they don't care ACTUALLY care. It's true. Let's not be hypocrites here. The reason people are open is because they care how people will care about their homosexuality.
PS - I'm hoping that this is about homosexuality. -_- lol if it isn't message me and I'll delete :D
2007-04-05 03:25:51 · answer #2 · answered by Daniel O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy to SAY you dont care about what people think -- but everyone does to some extent. People can be cruel about anything that seems different to them. So in order to save their feelings, people conform and act just like everyone else. This world would be much more interesting if no one cared about what others think -- but until people stop judging others based on clothing or hair color or weight, people will continue to conform
2007-04-05 03:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people maybe are afraid cause they were hurt once..or maybe they are to scared or proud to be open.but about people that don't care about what others think can be a positive thing cause they live how they want to leave but it could be a bad thing cause maybe he is wrong with smth and hes to proud to listen other ideas
2007-04-05 03:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very open, speak my mind and i dont care what anyone thinks about me..i never did and never will
2007-04-05 03:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all want to fit in and be accepted so we listen to and try to conform to the group's standards --- it takes a brave person to go against the norms (as long as it is still legal)
2007-04-05 03:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because most of us dont even know ourselves, and what we know is not necessarily what we like or want to see....God bless you
PS its always good to take care of others and their needs and respect their lifes, so yes, its good to be you, but its better to be truly you without disturbing others
2007-04-05 03:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by ralfbless 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the problem is that so many claim they don't care, but really they are the most insecure
2007-04-05 03:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Takafushi 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if we have confidence in our self's them we don,t care what people think unless they trash talk us.
2007-04-05 03:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think it makes them a better person
2007-04-05 03:20:09 · answer #10 · answered by kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋