theres this guy that likes me and i like him 2, but right now we are both having feeling 4b our exes??????????

Question

theres this guy in my school, i like him and he likes me too, we have spend time talking in the phone and he even tought me how to learn how drive standard car. theres a problem, he was involve with this girl who he's trying to forget about, because she has a man and a baby of her own, he says he's tired of all that and i also have an ex who still comes around once in a while and i still have some feelings for, now, me and this new guy have learned alot about eachother and we like eachother soo much...but there was this one time last week where this girl that he was involved with called him and said that her man had hit her and he ran to her as quick as he could to so call be there for her, he was supposed to be with me at that time, i was so mad that i told him, i wanted nothing to do with him and he got so sad but then he never called again, the next day he was in class with me and he tried talking to me, and i completely ignored him, i text him minutes lata saying i dont want you 2

think i hate you. but i just think that it was messed up how u left me flat, and he wrote back apologizing and saying how it was a stupid mistake, i figure im not his girl hes not my man, but we kissed for the first time that other night and we also told eachother how we would leave everything else to be with eachother, ive been texting him, and he has been telling me how he thinks about me so much and me too, but how can i make it clear to him that i want him for myself only i told him i dont want to feel like im competing and he said she's no competition to you, then he said shes not even on my level, well i also dont like the fact he smokes weed and i want him to takre me seriously, i have been the one texting him and he hasnt, only when i text him and i have2 wait like 2 hrs for a response, whats up with that..i need advice, we so call like eachother, but how can i speak2 him and let him know how i feel. he says im the perfect one for me, but then he says he don know what he wants?

Answer 1

Get a broom and sweep up your own mess

Answer 2

That was a big mistake you know how bad he must have felt.....well i would feel bad if my gf did that to me.....well the thing is he has to protect her because she was getting hit and that is wrong....i would protect someone if he/she was getting hit by someone even if i had to miss a date my girl will understand.....he has feelings for her because its just that way....i like my x because she is a friend.....but you should do something if you like that guy....i know people get mad and jealous but you cant refuse a guy who protect people.....if he had left the x....she might have gotten hurt and who would be blamed......yes so just talk to him and if you want to you can also apologizes

Answer 3

Ditch the baggage. The two of you take a trip and see how you get on.

Answer 4

if ur meant to be together love will find a way till then tell him how u felt and r feelin